She was once in the limelight, known as the number one beauty in Taiwan, and even overshadowed many beautiful actresses such as Lan Jieying, which made people both love and hate.
Despite being a beautiful woman, she still can't avoid falling into a love dilemma, and her behavior is even more incomprehensible.
Her mother's love is great, and in order to care for her son's growth, she did not hesitate to breastfeed for 12 years, and even slept at night with her son.
The mother and son have been living like this for more than ten years, and in the end, the son completely lost his due values under the infinite doting of his mother, and finally embarked on the road of crime.
Maybe many people don't have a deep impression when they mention Di Ying now, but in the first ten years of the last century, she was once popular on both sides of the Taiwan Strait, a household name, and everyone knew it.
Her parents are cabaret actors, and their jobs are decent and very stable.
Born in 1962, she hardly experienced any hardships as a child, and her life was very privileged.
However, the good times did not last, and that year, Di Ying's father died unexpectedly in a car accident when she was only 11 years old.
Therefore, her mother became the only support for the family, and Di Ying also had 4 siblings.
This sudden disaster brought great changes to their family.
In order to support the family, her mother had to go out early and return late every day, doing odd jobs everywhere to earn money.
In this case, Di Ying had the idea of wanting to enter the entertainment industry.
She also couldn't concentrate on her studies, so she started going to the cabaret theater with her mother, and although she was young, she had to work as a casual worker to earn some household allowances.
When she grew up, she began to actively go to the TV crew, and even dropped out of school to devote herself to making money.
Di Ying has been working in society since she was a child, which has exercised her character, making her very strong and determined, and her personality is also very distinct.
She was also appreciated by the director by chance.
She joined the singing troupe in 1982 and officially stepped into the entertainment industry.
Because of her distinctive personality and outstanding appearance, Di Ying has been playing supporting roles in dramas since she was a child, accumulating rich experience and soon getting the opportunity to perform.
At that time, she continued to receive drama appointments, whether it was a martial arts legend or a mythological detective, her figure was almost everywhere.
Di Ying has won almost all kinds of awards, she is really popular, and she supports a large family with her own strength.
She doesn't just pleases people with her beauty, and her outstanding performances often amaze audiences.
Her strong and domineering personality made her quickly emerge in the Taiwanese film and television industry, and no one dared to take the initiative to challenge her.
She soon met her future husband Sun Peng during a filming.
They soon developed a relationship because of the drama and began a secret underground romance.
Di Ying was deeply loved by Sun Peng, and he proposed to her soon after.
Di Ying was in a thriving career at that time, coupled with the loss of her father at a young age, she was not in a hurry to get married.
However, Sun Peng fell in love with her deeply and vowed not to marry her. In the end, Di Ying was unable to resist Sun Peng's determined pursuit and finally succumbed to his enthusiastic offensive.
They got married secretly in 1998, avoiding the attention of **, and the wedding was also very low-key, because Di Ying didn't want to make this matter public.
The two decided to have a child after getting married, but at this time Di Ying was 36 years old, which was considered an advanced maternal age.
In order to have children, the couple traveled almost all over Taiwan Province and to well-known hospitals abroad.
The two have not been able to have children due to physical reasons, although they take Chinese medicine and other medicinal herbs for every meal.
Di Ying eventually tried IVF three times, but unfortunately each time it failed, which made her sad.
They both longed to have a child, so they began to do the hard work**, looking around for medical and medication advice.
Perhaps it was the sincerity of the two that touched the heavens, and as a result, Di Ying not only became pregnant, but also successfully gave birth to a son in 2000.
They were overjoyed by the child's arrival, gave him the name Sun Anzuo, and took special care of his son.
Soon, the two encountered a crisis.
The couple waited for a long time, and finally welcomed their child, and they just wanted to give the child all the good, especially Di Ying.
She lost her father at a young age, and in order to provide for her family, she had to mature overnight and take on the responsibility of caring for her younger siblings.
She actually longs for a warm family deep down, and she is very lacking in love.
Di Ying's dream for many years finally came true because of the arrival of her son. In order to let her son grow up happily in a loving environment, she not only insisted on breastfeeding, but also tried to choose the most upscale food, clothing, housing and transportation.
She focused on breastfeeding for a full twelve years, during which time she gave up most of her work to devote all her energy to her son.
It's a good thing for parents to spend time with their children, but Di Ying's relationship with her children seems to be a little too close.
Not only did she develop a full set of nutritious meals for her children, but she also spent 7 hours meticulously watching her children eat.
Although Sun Peng expressed understanding, he felt a little too much about his wife's behavior of doting on the children so much. He couldn't help but feel a little apprehensive when he saw his wife caring so much about the child.
What bothers him the most is that Di Ying usually spends money very generously, and with children, various expenses make Sun Peng feel a lot of pressure.
Therefore, he repeatedly advised Di Ying to moderate his expenses.
However, Di Ying believes that Sun Peng is not capable enough to earn extra money to support himself and his son, so the quarrels between the two become more frequent.
Even so, Di Ying still went her own way and didn't care about the family's financial situation.
In the end, Sun Peng couldn't stand Di Ying's coldness and indifference, and chose to divorce her in a fit of anger. Since then, his son has been living with Di Ying.
Di Ying doted on her son even more after the divorce, she wanted to make up for the family's shortcomings, so she refused to let Sun Peng see her son.
This series of behaviors deepened the intimate relationship between her son and her, during which Di Ying almost regarded her son as her own private property, and forcibly occupied it and did not let others approach.
Even though the child is of school age, he continues to breastfeed and shares a bed with his son, while the two remain naked.
Di Ying didn't feel a problem with this, but said proudly on the show that her son had to put his hands on his chest every night to fall asleep.
She also unabashedly claims that such behaviour is an example of a mother's normal behavior.
However, this relationship has long ceased to be a benign bond between mother and child.
In ancient China, there was a tradition of men avoiding their mothers and women avoiding their fathers.
However, Di Ying paid no attention to these comments, and even claimed that she and her son had participated in a "kissing contest" at the mall.
She and her son became a mother-son file, in stark contrast to the others. They kissed for a full three hours, and as a result, they kissed their son to sleep, which was a very intimate scene.
Di Ying is very proud of this incident, and she has mentioned it to the audience many times in the show.
Eventually, they were forced to sleep separately due to the unusual emotional reaction of their son Sun Anzuo, who was 15 years old by this time.
In the case of his mother's infinite doting, Sun Anzuo not only did not show the responsibility of a man at all, but his three views also became very unconventional.
Whenever he encounters something outside, he always cries to Di Ying as soon as possible, and in the end, Di Ying hurries to deal with follow-up problems.
Di Ying did not blame Sun Anzuo afterwards, but thought that the responsibility lay on others.
It is conceivable what kind of behavior Sun Anzuo will do when he grows up in such an environment with distorted values.
In order to let her son have a healthy family relationship, Di Ying chose to reunite with Sun Peng again in a show not long ago.
For several years, Sun Peng has not seen his son, and he feels extremely relieved to start a family with Di Ying again. However, he soon discovered a major problem.
Sun Peng found that his son had been raised as "disabled", and he said that Sun Anzuo had to sleep naked with Di Ying every night, and he couldn't accept it.
Not only do they only run away from problems when confronted, but their values are also unusually distorted.
Therefore, he decided to send Sun Anzuo to the United States for education, and in his heart, leaving Di Ying meant that his son might change and become a responsible man.
In 2018, an Asian student who tried to cause a terrorist attack at his school was arrested by the United States**.
Di Ying's son, Sun Anzuo, who was only 18 years old at the time, was this student, not someone else.
In March, Mr. Sun told friends that it was best not to come to school recently because of the possibility of a terrorist attack. That's how it happened.
After hearing this, this friend felt very unusual and immediately called the police, and only then succeeded in preventing a terrorist incident from happening.
*Eventually, more than 1,600 rounds of ammunition and other firearms were found at Sun Anzuo's residence**.
* An immediate arrest was launched against him, and Sun Anzuo is likely to face up to seven years in prison under the law.
However, what is surprising is that for Sun Anzuo to make such a serious mistake, Di Ying still insists that the child is still young and should not be sent to prison.
For the sake of her children, she did not hesitate to ** her two mansions at a low price, and spent a lot of money to hire a well-known lawyer to fight the lawsuit.
After she ran around and fought hard, Sun Anzuo was finally sentenced to just over nine months in prison, and when she completed her sentence, she returned to a free life.
Since the United States refused Sun Anzuo to re-enter the country, Di Ying had to bring her son back to Taiwan and find a job for him.
Sun Anzuo, who currently has more than 200,000 followers on social media, not only boasted that he was trying to plan a horrific incident, but also trumpeted the results of evading legal punishment on social media.
With the strong support of his mother Di Ying, he opened a bubble tea shop soon after, and deliberately named it "Federal", implying that he had spent time in federal prison in the United States.
It can be seen that he did not feel remorse for his actions at all, but constantly challenged the bottom line of the law.
Sun Anzuo is 23 years old, and although he is young and promising, the outside world has already decided that he has long achieved nothing.
The situation he is in now is actually closely related to Di Ying's unscrupulous education that he has given him since he was a child.
Although parents are the closest people to their children, they should keep a certain distance in their daily interactions, especially between mother and son, father and daughter.
However, Di Ying has been educating Sun Anzuo negatively since she was a child, and she approaches him in an intimate way, breaking the sense of distance without hesitation.
Whenever Sun Anzuo made a mistake, she always did not hesitate to tolerate unconditionally, which led her son Sun Anzuo to think that there was no problem that could not be solved.
Therefore, no matter how much we spoil our children, we need to master the appropriate level in our daily lives.
To train him to be a person who can benefit society, we should teach him to have the courage to take responsibility for his mistakes and take responsibility for his actions, rather than shouldering the responsibility on his shoulders. This is the right way to educate.