The blind date standard for highly educated girls has aroused heated discussions with an annual salary of one million and a house and a car, as if they are making a wish
When they are students, many parents expect their children to focus on their studies and strictly manage things outside of school Xi especially when it comes to romantic issues. If you are in a relationship before college, you may face double opposition from your parents, and if you don't have a partner after work, going home for the New Year will become a "trouble".
Before the college entrance examination, the vast majority of parents do not allow their children to have early love, fearing that it will have a negative impact on academic performance. Once admitted to university, students get rid of the huge pressure of taking exams and gradually mature in age, at this time, parents' intervention in love problems is reduced, but some students lose interest in love.
Some students are nervous about their studies, while others think that college romance is unstable, and their classmates come from different places and have an ambiguous future after graduation, so they choose to consider dating after work.
After graduation, students come into contact with people and environments that have changed, expanded their horizons, and become more mature in their thinking. The criteria for choosing a mate have also changed, and it is no longer just about the individual, but about whether it is suitable or not.
In the blind date, the mate selection requirements of highly educated girls have aroused heated discussions, with an annual salary of one million, a house and a car, as if they are making a wish. After graduation, college students will be faced with the choice of staying in a university town, returning to their hometown, or going to a city with more development opportunities.
As a super first-tier city in China, Shanghai has many development opportunities and a high salary level. Every year, there is an influx of highly educated people in Shanghai, but it is not easy to put down roots in the city and buy a house. Someone made a request on a blind date and asked the other party to provide three suites in Shanghai, which was just one of the small requests.
Ph.D. students have a high degree of education and deserve attention. They have a wealth of knowledge and ability, a high starting point for employment, good development prospects, and a relatively high vision. A Ph.D. student's blind date requirements are very clear, with a total of 11 items. First of all, the other party and his family must be Shanghai locals, and there are certain requirements for academic background. Secondly, the academic background should not be lower than that of a 985 school.
The appearance requirements are high, handsome, straight nose bridge, not bald and myopia, ** can not be too dark, and the height net height is required to be more than 180 cm. This is not a simple requirement, after all, not all graduates of 985 schools meet the requirements. The salary requirement is one million per year after tax, which should be feasible considering the high salary level in Shanghai and the accumulation of graduates from prestigious universities.
However, the doctor's requirements also include that the other party owns more than three commercial houses in Shanghai, and even asks for a three-bedroom or single-family villa, as well as a car of no less than 1 million. Finally, it is also required that the other party can do housework, was born between 1980 and 1982 and is unmarried.
It's good to have high expectations for yourself and your partner, and you can make progress together. However, the female doctor's requirements seem a little too harsh. Highly educated students naturally have higher expectations for their significant other, but the doctor's criteria for choosing a mate seem to be a bit out of reality. There are not many students who can be admitted to 985 key universities every year, and the requirement that all of them have a hukou in Shanghai, be more than 180cm tall, and look handsome, which seems to be beyond the general scope. Besides, such an outstanding post-80s generation, is there really anyone who is unmarried in reality?
The doctor's requirements for choosing a mate include an annual salary of one million, a car and a house, and a superior appearance, which looks a bit like making a wish. Perhaps this doctor ignored the changes in his surroundings while studying Xi and working.
Every college student should have their own criteria for choosing a mate, but be careful to keep it realistic. The requirement for a highly educated female doctor in Shanghai is hardly met. There was also a 30-year-old female doctor in Changsha who proposed the conditions for choosing a mate, although it was also higher, but it seemed more realistic.
Highly educated female doctors should consider the actual situation in the blind date. Academic qualifications and abilities are signs of excellence, but changes in the social environment should also be taken into account. For college students, whether they are looking for a job or choosing a mate, they need to take into account the actual situation. Even if the conditions are better, you should be down-to-earth, strive to improve your abilities, keep pace with the times, and don't rest on your laurels.
At the end of the day, everyone has their own criteria for choosing a mate, but be careful to keep it realistic. The female doctor's request seemed too idealistic and difficult to meet for most people.
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