Marriage, this ancient contract, is like a seemingly calm river, which is calm on the surface, but in fact there is an undercurrent.
How many people are lost in the palace of marriage, and how many people wake up in the truth of marriage, but unfortunately, it is too late.
Some people say that marriage is a besieged city, and those outside the city want to enter and those in the city want to come out.
This is not wrong at all, how many people look forward to a good married life before marriage, thinking that it is the end of happiness, however, the reality often gives them a resounding slap.
The truth of marriage is not a fairy tale beauty, but the triviality of firewood, rice, oil and salt, the collision of pots and pans, and the run-in of two people with very different personalities under the same roof.
I remember a famous person once said, "Marriage is a garden that needs to be maintained by two people, not a big." ”
Yes, marriage is not a lively party, but a home that needs to be managed by two people.
If we only see the appearance of marriage and ignore its essence, then the moment of awakening is often too late.
In the river of marriage, some people choose to go with the flow and let life carry them to unknown places;Others choose to swim against the tide and try to find the true meaning of life.
And those who wake up to the truth of marriage, they laugh and call themselves "rebels of marriage", they no longer see marriage as a bondage, but as a kind of life practice.
They understand that marriage is not about finding someone who can accompany you through hardships, but about finding someone who can share your life with you;They understand that marriage is not about finding a perfect partner, but about finding someone who is willing to grow with you.
They find themselves in the truth of marriage and find the true meaning of life.
The truth of marriage, how many people woke up too late
I hope we can all find our own direction in the river of marriage, no longer confused, no longer hesitant.
As the old proverb goes, "Marriage is like a shoe, and only the feet know whether it is suitable or not." ”
May we all find that pair of shoes that suit us and walk out of our own happy life.
Finally, let's end with a famous quote from Eileen Chang: "Marriage is not about finding a perfect person, but learning to look at an ordinary person perfectly." ”
May we find the person who is willing to accompany you through the ordinary years in the truth of marriage, and spend our lives hand in hand together.