01Recently, I saw a news that touched me deeply.
In Yongzhou, Hunan, a septuagenarian suddenly had a cerebral infarction, and his family quickly called an ambulance.
When the ambulance went to pick up the old man, in order not to increase the financial burden on the child, the old man got up and ran out of the house.
After running out for a mile, the old man who fell to the ground was taken to the hospital by medical staff.
When the old man's son heard the news that his father was seriously ill, he hurried back from out of town.
Looking at his father's painful expression, the son hugged his father and leaned over and cried bitterly.
This septuagenarian is the epitome of countless Chinese parents.
They have broken their hearts for their children and have been busy for most of their lives.
They are more afraid of getting sick than they are old;They are more afraid of being a burden to their children than death.
In order not to worry the child, if he is sick, he will hide it, and a minor illness will become a major illness, and a major illness will become a serious illness.
How to stop parents from worrying and let them live a happy old age?
In 16-year-old Quan Hongchan, I saw the answer.
Quan Hongchan's mother had a traffic accident and her health has not been very good.
The cost of hospitalization is very expensive, and in order to save money, my mother buys medicine and takes it at home.
Quan Hongchan saw all this, and when she was very young, she wanted to go out and make money to treat her mother.
After entering the national team, she trained hard.
Today's Quan Hongchan, not only does her mother no longer have to worry about money when she sees a doctor, but she also helps her family build a new house.
Seeing her mother's condition gradually improve and her family's life getting better and better, all her efforts have meaning at this moment.
economic base, which determines the superstructure.
When people reach a certain age, everyone is burdened with responsibilities, and all responsibilities need to be supported by money.
Every little more balance in your account gives your child a better education and parents have less to worry about.
Money is the foundation of life, and it is the umbrella of the family.
When you earn enough money to allow your family to live a solid life.
02 There is a question on Zhihu: People, why do you have to work hard to make money?
Gao Zan's answer hit the tears of many people:
I work hard to make money, not because I love money more, but I just hope that when my parents are old, I will be able to share it. When my child needs it, I don't put it in my pocket. ”
When life is wrapped in illness and embarrassment, we will realize that it is really difficult to move an inch without money.
Life is the sword and sword, and money is our armor.
Netizen Liu Jian has a fellow villager who entered a large factory after graduating from university, and his salary is very considerable.
But all the money-making jobs in this world can't escape the word "hard".
After a year of work, he was tired and planned to quit his job, and it was at this time that his father was diagnosed with lung cancer.
The seriously ill father did not want to be a drag on the family, and refused to be hospitalized**.
He comforted his father and said, don't worry, leave the money to me.
Subsequently, he took out all his savings and raised a little money from everywhere to let his father be admitted to the hospital with peace of mind.
* After that, my father's condition finally stabilized.
He said: Fortunately, I didn't quit my job at that time, and if I left my job on impulse, Kari didn't have any money, and I didn't know what to do.
Yes, although money cannot buy health, it can buy hope for life.
If you have money and your parents are sick, you can send them to the best hospital and have the doctor prescribe the best medicine.
To the best of our ability, we will help them prolong their lives and alleviate their suffering.
Money represents filial piety in a sense.
It is a sense of security that gives you the confidence to face your parents' illness and aging;
It's more of a sense of responsibility, so that you don't have to cry and say that you can't do anything when your parents need it.
And our children, you have to admit a very real problem:
Children from wealthy families have more knowledge and a wider perspective than children from ordinary families.
High-quality educational resources, various interest classes, study tours, summer camps, which ones do not need financial support?
Bloggers@张欣He shared that once his child's school organized a summer camp and needed 10,000 yuan.
The event was voluntary, but she didn't let her child participate because it was too expensive.
At the end of the summer camp, the students were talking about the summer camp, and their children did not participate, so they could not interject, so they could only remain silent as if they had done something wrong.
This incident touched her a lot.
After getting off work, she began to hide in her room to write on major ** or take business copywriting to make extra money.
Later, whenever there are any more activities at the children's school, no matter how much money it is, she will give her full support.
When you envy how good other people's children are, maybe your children are also envious of the good life provided by other people's parents.
In order for their children to have a higher starting line, parents, as pillars, can only work harder to earn money.
03 Heard a true story.
The boy's family is poor, and his family of seven is crammed into a 20-square-meter dilapidated old building.
In order to feed the family, my mother picked up scraps in her spare time to subsidize the family, and even picked up some rotten vegetable leaves to eat at home.
Once, when the boy came home from school, he saw his mother being humiliated by a neighbor for 10 yuan.
This scene was deeply imprinted in his mind.
At the age of seventeen, the first thing the boy did when he went out and made money was to buy a three-bedroom house for his parents.
My father said with relief: Dad has worked all his life and has not lived in his own house, but you helped me but fulfilled my wish.
Since then, my parents have never been discriminated against.
The male protagonist of this story is actor Sun Honglei.
We make money so that our families can have a dignified and quality of life.
In order to be in times of difficulty, you can ask for alms from others.
This society is very realistic, if you have no money, you will be looked down upon along with your family.
The dignity of adults is all related to money.
Since the adobe house where the writer lived when he was a child, his father wanted to build a brick house again.
The father went to a rich relative to borrow money, and the other party humiliated the father and said:
I know that if you don't have the money to build a house, you will definitely want to borrow from me, so I saved the money in advance!”
The table swore to himself that it must be mixed up.
After graduating, he worked hard, seized the new ** outlet, and also opened a company as a boss.
Later, he and his younger brother each contributed half of the money to build a new villa for their parents.
*: Table view of life.
After the house was built, the eyes of those who looked down on them in the past became different.
A person is shy, his waist is not straight, he lacks confidence when he speaks, and he can only look at people's faces when he does things.
As the saying goes: money is the guts of man, and the son is the power of the father.
When you were a child, your parents cared for you, and when you grew up, your parents relied on you to maintain their dignity.
If you don't want your family to be bullied and humiliated because of poverty, work hard to earn money.
Every penny you earn can be exchanged for dignity for your family and yourself.
Only when you have money in your pocket can you live decently. ▽
Wilde said something very classic:
When I was younger, I thought money was the most important thing in the world, and I didn't know it was really the case until I was old. ”
When I was a teenager, I thought it was cheesy to talk about money.
When I became an adult, I found out that it was terrible to have no money.
When people have no money, a grain of rice and a vegetable are a mountain.
Working hard to make money may be embarrassing, but behind every penny you earn, there are hidden children's future prospects, the health of your family, and the happiness of your parents in their later years.
Work hard, make more money, for yourself, and for your family.