In this era of world volumes, we are often instilled with the concept of "don't make yourself too comfortable, the more uncomfortable things you are, the more you have to do them". One day it occurred to me that I was happy when you didn't like something but you had to do it
If you don't feel comfortable, find a way to do it comfortably. This is not only an attitude to life, but also a wisdom of life.
For those things that we don't like but have to face, if we can adjust our mindset and change our approach, we can make those things relatively easy and enjoyable.
I hate washing dishes, but one day I found that just moving a stool and sitting down with my feet in the cabinet door under the sink is not only more comfortable, but also not sore feet from standing for a long time, and I don't splash water, and it is much more efficient. Later, I bought a dishwasher, and as long as I sat and rinsed the food residue, even if I had a pot, it was washed quickly.
When I am tired of squatting and choosing vegetables, I will first prepare a small stool for myself, wash the dishes with warm water and gloves when the water is cold, and I am already very tired from work, so I can make myself comfortable.
I hate housework, so I just watch dramas while doing housework, or listen to songs at the same time, and things are done before I know it. The most recent dramas are "The Legend of Zhen Huan", "Do You Know", and "Queen of News".
We can also apply this wisdom to other aspects of our lives. For example, with children, which was originally a challenging task, but passedThink of it as a date with your child, choose fun activities, such as going out to arrange a good meal, going to an art exhibition, painting an oil painting, doing a craft, bringing expired bread to feed the fish, taking the child to the zoo to see the animals, going to the park and the children in the park to play, and spending this time relatively happily for yourself and the child. With a baby at home, you can also listen to light ** to maintain emotional stability and so on.
For example, my daughter likes photography, and I also like to take pictures, so I buy her a camera, and she will help me take pictures when I go out, saving a lot of money for photography.
I can't learn the language, but I like to watch dramas, so I watch good-looking British dramas, American dramas, Japanese dramas, and learn the language by the way.
If you want to be quiet, you can go to the study room or do a good job of soundproofing, if you like good light, you can find a place with good light to study, if the seat is uncomfortable, buy an ergonomic chair to sit on, and if you like colorful pens, buy pens of different colors to take notes or copy. Combine what you like and what you don't like, and make the learning process fun and easy.
For example, you can eat and sleep enough, put on your favorite clothes, choose a good song list, and then brush up on the questions.
I feel tired of researching, and I think about how much the market is paid for holding the certificate, this book is 10 chapters, then I learn one chapter, then I feel that I have earned 1 10 money.
"Doing what is uncomfortable" does not mean that we give up on challenges and growth. On the contrary, it reminds us to:Keep a positive mindset in the face of difficulties, find ways that work for you, and make the process enjoyable. In this way, we will not only be better able to cope with challenges, but also gain more growth and fun in the process.
Hope these methods are helpful to you, and encourage you