Hello everyone, I'm Lao Tan. Today I want to talk about the story of the water spray.
There is a gentleman surnamed Song who is an official in the capital, because Master Song is a foreigner, so he rents a house in the capital, and the family, including Master Song's old mother, lives in this house. The house was remote, of course to save money so I rented it.
On the night of renting the house, Mr. Song's old mother suddenly heard a fluttering sound in the yard, which was very rhythmic, as if it was the sound of spraying water. The old lady couldn't sleep at the sound of this voice, so she called out to the maid and poked a hole in the window, and then looked out through the window. As a result, I found that there was an old woman in the yard spraying water everywhere in the yard, spraying a little here, spraying a little there, and the water was squirting out of the old woman's mouth, as if it was endless, but you couldn't see that the old woman had a kettle on her, which made people really curious about where the water came from
Just when the old lady and the maid were lying on the window and enjoying it, the old woman who sprayed water suddenly sprayed at the window, and the water sprayed quickly and quickly, and the water was very strong. The spray of water broke through the window paper, and all the old lady and the two maids who were lying on the window watching the play were sprayed down, and the three of them fell to the ground and were all unconscious and did not move.
When Master Song found the three of them the next day, the old lady and one maid were already dead, while the other maid still breathed a sigh of relief. So he ordered someone to wake up the maid, and then figured out the cause and effect of the incident. Master Song was extremely sad, he mobilized everyone in the family to search in the yard with all his might, and finally, in the corner of the yard, he dug out the white hair, and then dug down again, and found a female corpse, the female corpse was swollen all over, as if she had drowned. With full of anger and resentment, Master Song stepped forward, grabbed the hoe and struck the corpse hard, the corpse was shattered in an instant, and then a large pool of clear water flowed out.
Okay, the story is over, let's analyze the psychology of Master Song. Facing the murder of his mother, Master Song felt grief and anger, but he also felt anxiety and fear in his heart. Because he was afraid that the water spray monster would hurt himself and his family again, and he was also afraid that the water spray monster would kill himself and his family. But in the end, he conquered his anxiety and fear.
Here Lao Tan has to say that the most important thing to overcome anxiety and fear is courage. But courage is something that can't be seen or touched, it's very abstract, and it's hard to understand, so Lao Tan can tell you that courage is better than self-confidence, and if you have self-confidence, you will naturally show courage when facing things, so self-confidence comes from **?Self-confidence comes from your own skills, abilities, and all kinds of small, even insignificant, successes and victories that you have accumulated on a daily basis.
In addition, overcoming anxiety and fear requires immediate action, that is, immediate action. If you are overwhelmed or sit still, it will only breed anxiety and fear, and you will be hurt or destroyed by it. Act now to address your anxiety and fear, and your anxiety and fear will eventually be defeated by you. Master Song immediately took action, mobilized the whole family to search for the water squirt, and finally solved it, thus overcoming the anxiety and fear in his heart.