1.Many things are between "not saying grievances" and "talking about hypocrisy". People have two sides, don't touch someone else's bottom line, otherwise his other side will embarrass you. Some people usually seem to be kind, but it doesn't mean that he doesn't care about the principles and bottom line, usually when everyone gets along, he suffers a little loss, as long as he doesn't go too far or embarrass him, he won't go to his heart. But some people often behave beyond the boundary, which can easily lead to a deterioration in their relationship, or even not to be forgiven.
The best way to deal with this is not to get carried away and do whatever you want, leaving each other a buffer. Each of us has our own bottom line and principles, which is our confidence and dignity. When getting along with others, we should respect each other's bottom line and not touch their sensitive points. Only in this way can we build good interpersonal relationships and avoid unnecessary conflicts and contradictions.
2.It's your luck to have someone to help you;No one to help you is a just fate. No one should do anything for you, because life is your own and you are responsible for yourself. Expectations are what you shoehorn into others, and disappointment is what others give back to you when they throw you in the face. We can't expect too much from others, because everyone has their own lives and responsibilities and can't always sacrifice their own interests and happiness to meet the expectations of others.
Instead of expecting too much from others, it's better to do more for yourself. We should strive to improve our abilities and keep learning and growing. Only in this way will we be able to have a better life and more opportunities.
What kind of life do you want to live, you must pay the corresponding labor value, otherwise your desire is difficult to flatten, and you will eventually live your life in comparison, envy, and jealousy.
3.Later, I learned that saying different things and showing different good attitudes with different people is a very valuable ability, and it is high emotional intelligence, not hypocrisy. But if it is mixed with an attitude of contempt for people, it is the reality and inadequacy of human nature. In real life, many people's personal qualities are often not so high.
High-end supermarkets opened, and the mall sellers were also locals, and local ordinary people went to join in the fun and were despised by individual waiters.
This is the reality, the quality of individual sales attendants does not represent the business philosophy of the entire high-end supermarket, but high-end supermarkets cannot improve the quality of an ordinary salesman by several grades.
4.If I treat you the way you treat me, I'm afraid you've already left, and if you were me, you might not be as generous as me!Getting along with each other is extremely delicate. Sometimes, we may not treat others the way they intended. This is because, everyone has their own feelings and thoughts and wants to be treated specially.
We should learn to empathize, try to understand the feelings of others, and give them appropriate care and love.
When dealing with people, we should focus on communicating with sincerity. Don't just stop at superficial greetings and politeness, but really understand each other and care about each other. When we treat others with sincerity, they will treat us in the same way. In this way, our social relationships will become stronger and more reliable.
5.After a lot of experience, you will know that if you don't have the ability, no matter how much social interaction you have, it will be dust. Socializing is also essential for us. However, if you don't have real skills, no amount of social interaction is just a waste.
Because the people who can really help us are not those who are friendly with us on the surface, but those who can support us and help us when we are in trouble.
Life is your own, don't be ruined by garbage and rotten people!We must not allow the words and actions of others to affect our emotions and attitudes towards life. It is necessary to stick to your own principles and values in life, and not to be swayed by the words and actions of others.
Each of us has the right to choose our own lifestyle and circle without having to change ourselves in order to cater to others. Sometimes, we encounter negative people or circumstances that may try to discourage our confidence and positivity.
We need to stay calm and rational and not let these people and events affect our mood and life. If we can approach these issues with a sense of peace, then we will become more mature and stronger.