When Jiang Miaomiao slapped Seaweed's face, she was trembling all over.
When she first saw seaweed, Jiang Miaomiao could still put the "wife of the main house" and ridiculed her as a "plaything" used by Song Siming as a façade.
But now, in the villa that Song Siming bought for Seaweed, looking at those hundreds of thousands of sets of furniture, Jiang Miaomiao is really out of control.
Since marrying Song Siming, Jiang Miaomiao has never felt Song Siming's love.
She always felt that Song Siming treated people indifferently, who, what, was just a "chess piece" in her chessboard.
But I never expected that I used more than ten years of youth to get the sincerity, and it only took less than a year to get the seaweed.
Jiang Miaomiao was puzzled, thinking that Song Siming could see her efforts, but she didn't expect that the pain and sweat that accompanied Song Siming did not win Song Siming's gratitude, but made Song Siming feel ashamed.
1.That bitter experience is a man's lifelong shame.
Whenever I read "Snail House", I feel sad for Jiang Miaomiao. Because before she got married, she would definitely not know that Song Siming didn't like her at all.
Every woman wants to find a man who loves and accommodates herself, and Jiang Miaomiao is the same.
Jiang Miaomiao is a ** child, who has been held in the palm of her hand by her parents since she was a child, and she is the beauty of the world as far as her eyes can see.
In this way, it is not difficult for her to marry the right person. But Jiang Miaomiao's idea is very simple, thinking that Song Siming really loves her, so she doesn't mind that she doesn't have a "virgin body".
In return, Jiang Miaomiao was willing to accompany him through the trough of life when he had nothing.
So Jiang Miaomiao, "Ten Fingers Without Yang Spring Water", learned to make soup for Song Siming and his daughter;Jiang Miaomiao likes solid wood furniture and spacious houses, and she has no choice but to let go of her obsession with Song Siming's career.
Jiang Miaomiao thought that all these sacrifices were worth it. It wasn't until the seaweed appeared that Jiang Miaomiao knew that the cruelty of marriage was that it would trample those 100% sincerity on the mud.
Song Siming's wife is such a woman.
She came here with you, so no matter how much you have accomplished, she will not stay away. Even if you are admired by thousands of people, you are still a poor man who was suffocated by the money back then. People respect you very much, and your wife will call you by your name and want to throw your face out for you to see. She doesn't love you ambiguously, she doesn't worship you, and she doesn't say thank you shyly. You will feel very bored and helpless. ”
Men always want women to stay away from him, because it can boost their morale and give them a sense of inner satisfaction.
But for Jiang Miaomiao, Song Siming couldn't feel all this. Because Jiang Miaomiao looked at him, she always had a sense of superiority among her children;
And every time Song Siming sees Jiang Miaomiao, he always recalls that gray past, and the shame of marrying Jiang Miaomiao for the future.
In the eyes of some, the last thing they want to see after success is the familiarity of the poor period. Because their very existence is like a "thorn" that stings those who have just been thrown off poverty, and awakens those who sit on the top of the clouds.
Whether it is a friend or a husband and wife, they will feel that they have seen the poorest side of him and are still willing to be by his side, which is benevolence and love.
So you have "immunity".No matter how unscrupulous and extravagant you are, immunity will always exist in his heart and will not be replaced by others.
As everyone knows, for him, your appearance itself is a "shame", and it is also the "gray memory" that he wants to destroy the most after becoming famous.
2.A woman who accompanies a man through hardships is easily despised.
When Jiang Miaomiao and her best friend were shopping, they saw a European-style furniture and liked it very much, and they couldn't wait to buy it home immediately.
But when the waiter stepped forward to sign the order, Jiang Miaomiao hesitated.
Because she thought of her family's cramped dining room, it was estimated that it was not worthy of a graceful and luxurious table.
The place where Jiang Miaomiao and Song Siming live is the house assigned by the unit. Although she kept saying that she wanted to change to a bigger one, she was scolded by Song Siming every time.
Jiang Miaomiao felt very aggrieved, just to become Song Siming's "wife", she spent most of her life hard.
In Song Siming's poorest period, Jiang Miaomiao, in order to save money, took her daughter back to her parents' house to eat and drink, and took care of Song Siming's parents while also taking care of all the housework at home.
However, Jiang Miaomiao did achieve a certain social status because of Song Siming. But compared with these "false names", Jiang Miaomiao prefers to live in a "big house" and use "good furniture".
But this desire is a fantasy in Song Siming's eyes.
Song Siming said to Jiang Miaomiao: "If you really enjoy life so much, you can carry my head." Don't forget your position. You are my wife!”
Song Siming expected that Jiang Miaomiao would not dare to sacrifice her career to satisfy herself. Because she is a woman who accompanies Song Siming to endure hardships, the greater the "sunk cost" paid, the smaller the probability of ruining Song Siming.
When getting married, once there is a game between the husband and wife. In the end, it will definitely become a matter of grasping and being manipulated. Song Siming and Jiang Miaomiao are like this, the former doesn't care about what the latter wants, and he just wants to use Jiang Miaomiao as an "old mother" around his family, children and husband.
Not only that, Song Siming shamelessly asked Jiang Miaomiao to endure his cheating.
Jiang Miaomiao knew that Song Siming had deceived herself, and Song Siming quibbled: Everything is just a joke.
Jiang Miaomiao knew that Seaweed was pregnant, and Song Siming added
Originally, I should not ask you to ask anyone for this matter, but I thought about it for a long time, and the only person who can be trusted and invited in this life is you. She was pregnant with a child, a boy, and this was the only male in our Song family. Can you?
Song Siming choked hypocritically, he looked at Jiang Miaomiao pitifully, and was sure that she would take care of the past feelings, hold back the seaweed, and don't care how much torture this is for Jiang Miaomiao.
In a man who doesn't love himself, no matter how much he tries to please the other party, he can't get love. Because love itself is not flattered in exchange, and flattery is not exchanged for love, but contempt. ”
After Jiang Miaomiao got married, she has been around Song Siming, she is afraid of having her own wishes, afraid of shouting bitterness and tiredness, but she didn't expect that the consequence of blindly currying favor was actually Song Siming's betrayal and contempt.
In fact, women really don't need to be too sensible when they get married.
Because you are also a human being, and you also have a temper and a need. So in fact, there is no need to sacrifice happiness to please your husband.
If you are bitter, you will shout bitterness, if you are tired, you will say that you are tired, you will refuse when you should refuse, and when you should let go, only in this way will you always maintain your assertiveness and will not let people look down on it too lightly.
3.After the bitterness comes, the man cheats with revenge.
There are all kinds of women in Song Siming's pen, and those women are either charming or lovely.
They surrounded Song Siming in order to get their wish, but Song Siming didn't want to see them, because he only had a career in his eyes and no love between men and women.
For more than ten years, although Jiang Miaomiao has lived a hard life with him, her heart has always been very warm, because she knows that Song Siming only belongs to herself.
But the existence of seaweed has taken over the fruits of Jiang Miaomiao's hard work.
Song Siming is like a ghost, and he can't wait to give his life to seaweed.
Jiang Miaomiao was puzzled, she thought that seaweed had three heads and six arms, which could fascinate Song Siming, but she didn't know that Song Siming's love for seaweed was just a long-suppressed revenge release of "white moonlight".
In everyone's heart, there is always an irreplaceable "white moonlight".Of course, Song Siming is no exception.
When Song Siming was just a poor student from a poor family, he fell in love with Su Hui, the daughter of a professor.
Su Hui is beautiful and pure, as sacred as a white white lotus. But Song Siming has no power, he is as low as an ant, and he knows that he is not worthy of Su Hui's love, so he can only bury this love deep in his heart.
Later, Su Hui died of illness.
Song Siming cried bitterly for a long time, regretting that he didn't say "I love you" to Su Hui, and even more regretted that he didn't give Su Hui the best things in the best years.
Therefore, Song Siming secretly vowed to achieve a career, and then find a woman like Su Hui to talk about a powerful love.
However, when she walked out of the campus and entered the society, Song Siming found that it was really difficult for a poor boy with no background to get out of the way.
In order to achieve his goal quickly, Song Siming just married Jiang Miaomiao, the daughter of the ** family.
With the heritage and resources of Jiang Miaomiao's family, Song Siming changed from a poor boy to Secretary Song, and achieved the goal of soaring life.
Therefore, Song Siming, who is "clean and self-conscious", is no longer willing to restrain himself.
In the eyes of some people, the more repressed they are, the more frenzied they become, even if they know their mistakes, the suppressed desire shakes the earth at the moment of liberation. The same is true of Song Siming's seaweed, 3 points of motivation and 7 points of "revenge".
Sadly, this kind of "revenge" is not only in TV dramas, but also in life. The reason for this is not that some people use marriage as a "ladder" to successful people.
This marriage is not lacking in calculation but lacking in love;The man who chooses this marriage is often a "white-eyed wolf".Even if you give him your life, you can't get back the slightest touch from him.
They are usually breathless, and the more forbearant they are when they are down, the more they will tear your heart apart and make you feel painful.
4.Wrote to the end.
Some people say that a man must cherish this woman who has accompanied you through hardships and hardships, because she has given up the real good time in front of you for the uncertain future.
But those who have experienced it know that some men are "white-eyed wolves" who can't be fed, and the more you suffer with him, the more he wants you to eat dirt in the future.
Therefore, it is never necessary to accompany a man to suffer at will.