The Theory of Life Fifty-One
Tanabata has a feeling book.
Zhou Beichen. This book was written before it was hurt and the soul was not **, and now it seems that it is full of desolation, whining and mourning!
One of the foundations and principles of the worldly law lies in loyalty, and loyalty is one of the reasons why this world can be sustained.
Everyone has feelings, for example, your wife, after you die, you don't have an affair for decades, and you don't get in touch with new feelings, then your soul will feel that this relationship is very precious, and you still have to be happy in the next world, because you can't give it up, because this is the only thing you owe in life.
And if after you die, your wife, an affair, and a new love, then your soul will feel that this relationship is not necessary, and there is nothing you value in the world, so why come to the world again?Loyalty is the last trace of whiteness in this world, and it is also the most important factor that can be developed. Lu Xun said that the festival is fierce, is it bitter?It's very hard, but if it's not temperary, there will be no motivation for the world to develop.
For example, if a man and a woman fall in love, and you leave me, you never fall in love with anyone else, then this relationship will be precious, that is, something that I use to die and I want to protect. And if you also fall in love with other people, even if it's only once, it proves that you don't have to be me. If your last relationship was not mine, even if you don't fall in love for many years, you can only say that you won't love for life because of others.
So if you haven't been in love with anyone else, then I can follow the way of Confucius of Zhou Gong, remake etiquette and music, and make this world continue to exist, because I still have something precious in my heart, and something that I can continue to live, and there is a whiteness that I must protect, and I will not hesitate to reincarnate for eternity.
And if you are also in love with other people, it only proves that I don't matter, I have worked hard for so many years, written so many love poems, and there is no good result for it. Of course, I don't kidnap you, in line with morality, I can only follow the way of Lao Zhuang and Shakyamuni, spend your life, and transcend reincarnation, but if you want to recreate the universe, there is no such energy. If I work hard for thousands of years, and the result is just that when I am weak, you fall in love with others, then what's the point of my existence?
It's like brewing a jar of daughter red, to be buried in the ground for eighteen years, if someone digs it up in the middle and drinks a few sips, even if it is buried again, it will be buried for eighteen years, but in people's hearts, it is not that taste after all.
What's more, this scene started with you, and took the initiative to ask others for me**, send me a text message, not by me, because I didn't dare, I knew in my dark that once I came into contact with you, it would be a tribulation of hundreds of billions of eons.
Later, the more I practiced, the more I read the books of the sages, the more I loved you, and the more I longed for courtesy, happiness, benevolence, and harmony, the more you had a great influence on me. Because of your world, I dare not fall into human desire, I am afraid that you will be implicated, so I want to leave the last trace of whiteness, especially since you I have not been in a relationship, so this feeling, will grow infinitely, at the beginning like spider silk, but at the end it is like steel tenacity, and it is so strong that the whole world may not tolerate it. If this is a love catastrophe, I can't get through it unless I die.
And the more I respect you, the heavier my love will be, and the result is that the more love poems I write for you, and the more love poems I have, on the contrary, it proves how pure my love for you is. People in the world have evil desires for men and women, and if they go with them, the animalistic nature will deepen and the love and respect will be reduced, so they can't write any love poems, because they don't understand love at all, love is the heart and soul, desire is the body and the lower body, love and desire are two different things at all, don't mix it up in the name of love. Therefore, it is difficult for many people to write love poems, and only when they break off human desires, think about the spirit and soul, and move towards benevolence, righteousness, and courtesy, can they write good love poems.
Since ancient times, those who can write love poems, Cangyang Gyatso, Nalan Rongruo, Huang Zhongze, Su Shi, Li Shangyin, are all high personality and brilliant literature, and if the saint is emotional, I am afraid that it is not much better than them, and there is still a victory, its love and righteousness, Lei Lei Ran Xuan Heaven and Earth, Heng Shilin, and the sky and other tall, and the thunder and wind galloping, and the poetry and books are inseparable, this saint's intentions are also.
Therefore, it also made me understand that there is a way to transcend men and womenIf you are not moved by men and women, you are virtuous;There is no evil desire of men and women, it is called benevolence;Men do not commit adultery, women do not deceive, and they are called righteous;Affection and etiquette are called rules;Desire is confined to the husband and wife, called ceremony;Thinking beyond husband and wife is against human ethics, and only then do we truly understand what morality, benevolence, righteousness and propriety are.
Lao Tzu said that the process of losing morality and then virtue, losing virtue and then righteousness, and losing righteousness and then etiquette, is that ordinary beings obey human desires and yearn for sex between men and women, which is the process of losing morality and disrespecting etiquette step by step, disturbing benevolence and righteousness.
Whether Confucianism talks about poetry, books, etiquette, music, Yi Spring and Autumn Period, or etiquette, music, benevolence, and harmony, in fact, the key is to talk about people's interactions, not about the system of the state and society, because the foundation of all systems is people. Therefore, the rites and music are benevolent, and the poems and books are actually a way for men and women to come and go. All behaviors stop at etiquette, etiquette is elegant, express feelings with **, declare and reconcile feelings, there is no evil desire in exchanges, beautify its influence, call benevolence, men and women can respect these points, then the society will be harmonious, and the country will be stable. It is generally called Lile Renhe, on the contrary, it is all kinds of derailment, ** private life is chaotic, that is, the consequences of not cultivating Lile and not talking about benevolence and righteousness.
In order to maintain the avenue of men and women, to be polite, to make the world orderly, so that this world can exist, there is a trace of whiteness, so that men and women other than husband and wife should try not to interact, no matter what kind of relatives. Since ancient times, the royal family, concubines and concubines, can not be raised in person, one or two months, is the nursing mother to support, because the mother and son are too close, the result is not the mother and child love, but the mother and child desire, any too deep contact, will produce greed, this is the nature of people, non-husband and wife are not close, so relatives are absolutely and people are happy, etiquette and music.
The mother of the father-in-law, Wenbo, is Ji Kangzi's uncle and grandmother. Ji Kangzi went to visit her, and she opened the door to talk to Ji Kangzi, and neither of them crossed the threshold. When Zhong Ni heard it, he thought it was different from the gift of men and women. The reason why every precaution is for the harmony of husband and wife, and when people don't cultivate morality and don't talk about etiquette and music, it actually means that all living beings are about to disappear. If there is something precious in this world, then this world will exist, and if there is nothing precious left, what is the need to exist?
Or I shouldn't have thought I was too careful, I shouldn't have been so harsh on you, you didn't behave excessively, and you didn't go beyond the rules, just empathy, not married, why should it be!It's just that there is something wrong with me, once I conclude a contract between men and women, I will not abandon it, I will not give up, and I will not change my mind. What the saint asks for is not a year or two, nor is it any sexual behavior, just a pure love, so the spiritual derailment is also very painful, mourning the withering of yellow flowers, and sighing that the old man is gone. Therefore, I can't forget the photo of you and others, if it is a relationship between men and women, then I have no other way out than to be shameless and spend a game with you?
Yellow flowers are everywhere, the wind is slightly cool, today a heavy rain, but it is finally washed some of the heat, it is difficult to maintain health on a hot day, the stomach is not good, forget you well, don't think about it, Chen Bai.