"Our family has four generations in the same house, it is a warm family, and the family style of filial piety and love for relatives has been passed down from generation to generation. Speaking of family, Chang Xiaoqing said proudly, "I have read from my parents what 'filial piety comes first'." ”
Chang Xiaoqing is a teacher of Yifu Hui Primary School in Qiaoxi District, she has a cheerful personality, often smiling, in education and teaching, always take morality as the foundation, take quality first, she often will be grateful to her parents, upward and kind feelings into the classroom, subtly influence students to pay attention to family, pay attention to family affection.
The reason why Chang Xiaoqing attaches so much importance to her family is inseparable from her original family.
Chang Xiaoqing is a native of Wei County and has lived with his parents in Wei County since he was a child. During her college years, her grandmother, grandfather, and grandmother were all old and needed to be taken care of. But grandma and grandpa live in Zhangjiakou City, and grandma lives in Wei County, what should I do?Chang Xiaoqing's parents made a decision to buy a house in the city as soon as they discussed it. They spent all their savings to buy a house upstairs from their grandmother's unit. In this way, it is convenient to take care of the elderly, but Chang Xiaoqing's parents have to run at both ends.
After graduating from university, he returned to Zhangjiakou to work, and he was close to his family, so Chang Xiaoqing naturally joined the ranks of taking care of the elderly.
Buying food for the elderly, buying new clothes, and accompanying the elderly out have become Chang Xiaoqing's main tasks after work. Chang Xiaoqing, who lives in the urban area, has fewer opportunities to meet her grandmother, so she calls her grandmother a ** every day, which has become her habit for many years.
Time passed, a few years passed in a blink of an eye, and Chang Xiaoqing also got married, had a happy little family, and had a pair of children. Like her mother's original decision, Chang Xiaoqing bought the wedding house near her mother's house, which made it more convenient for her to visit her mother and grandmother at any time.
There is an old family like a treasure, and now the elders in the family are left with grandma, and our family loves her even more and cares for her. Chang Xiaoqing said, "Grandma has five children, so she takes turns to accompany her, and her mother takes care of her more delicately." ”
The family is happy and can fulfill filial piety well, which is inseparable from the husband and wife working together. In the matter of honoring the elderly, Chang Xiaoqing's lover Feng Tao is also careful and thoughtful.
When there is something at home that needs manpower, and Chang Xiaoqing can't leave because of work, Feng Tao will take the initiative to help with all his might. Usually, Chang Xiaoqing will also try her best to be a good daughter-in-law, she knows that it is not easy for her in-laws to help watch the children, and whenever she has time, she takes her in-laws shopping and buying clothes. On weekends and holidays, when Chang Xiaoqing wanted to take the old people out to play, Feng Tao played the role of driver and housekeeper again, busy running back and forth.
It is precisely because of the love and respect of parents for their elders every day that Chang Xiaoqing's 9-year-old daughter and 4-year-old son have known the truth of respecting their elders since they were young. When they were eating, the elders did not eat, and they never touched the dishes and chopsticks;The family will take the initiative to say thank you for the delicious food;When eating, it will be distributed to the elders first.
Seeing the children's performance, Chang Xiaoqing was very pleased, she said: "The original family style of filial piety and love for relatives, mutual respect and love has taken deep root in the hearts of young children!”
Chang Xiaoqing's family was also rated as "Civilized Family of Hebei Province".
Heshan News reporter Zhang Fengyan).
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