Some parents told me that since their children entered high school, they are more anxious than their children, and they will go crazy at the slightest hint of trouble.
In fact, parents' emotions can easily affect children's emotions, I said that the college entrance examination is a family business, and parents should become their children's helpers rather than resistors.
The reason for the deviation of parents' mentality: lack of clear understanding of high school, lack of clear understanding of high school subjects, and lack of clear understanding of college entrance examinations.
In the final analysis, there is a problem with cognition, because the understanding is not thorough, so I feel panicked, and only with enough understanding can I not panic.
1. Grades.
Parents should not overly pursue perfect scores. Taking high school physics as an example, the normal large-scale test results already mean that the child has studied seriously, and there is no problem with the Xi learning attitude and listening to the class, but there is a lack of methods.
In addition, many stage tests, monthly and weekly, are not too referential, which can only show how well the child learns at a certain stage, and cannot represent the overall situation.
2. Homework. Some parents just keep an eye on getting their children to finish their homework, no matter how late it is. In high school, if you only focus on the content of your homework, the best result in the college entrance examination is average.
Homework can help children if it is used well, and if it is not used well, it is a stumbling block that hinders children's progress.
But the reality is that most homework is a stumbling block, because there are many children who spend all their spare time coping with homework, lack of thinking, lack of organization, and lack of review.
If you think about it, if you can get good results by listening carefully to the teacher's class and completing homework carefully in high school, then why do so many children complain that they can't learn?
It can be seen that the role of homework is limited, and it is more of a work outside of work.
Like physics, understanding and memorizing what the teacher has said during the day, repeating the process of the teacher's lecture yourself, and classifying the problems you have done are all effective means of improvement.
3. Between subjects.
The college entrance examination is a comprehensive strength, how to raise the comprehensive score of the six subjects higher, which subject can open a bigger gap, which subject can not open what gap these are all parents need to understand, according to these parents can better help their children allocate time.
Based on my experience, I would like to give parents a reference: mathematics, physics, English, chemistry, Chinese, subject selection, and the duration of learning between subjects Xi from long to short.
Mathematics and physics are subjects that improve slowly and quickly, in addition to the correct method and the blessing of a good teacher, the necessary learning time must be guaranteed if you want to learn well Xi Mathematics is studied for less than 2 hours a day, Xi is difficult to pass, and physics also requires at least 15 hours.
High School Physics