On December 18, a shocking incident occurred, 27-year-old Malaysian female singer Xu Jialing was stabbed eight times by an avid male fan and unfortunately died.
The male fan in his 40s has pestered Xu Jialing for 2 years. Xu Jialing was soft-hearted and met with him, but left after a quarrel, but was brutally attacked by male fans and was fatally injured in the heart. The male fan even carried the body into the car and took it home.
* quickly intervened, issued a wanted warrant, arrested ** within three hours, and found the body.
Xu Jialing's boyfriend said that they had just taken wedding photos the day before, but he didn't expect his marriage dream to be shattered, and he was grief-stricken.
Xu Jialing's younger brother said that the funeral will be held on the 21st, and he hopes that his sister will go all the way.
The ancients said well, you can't harm people, but you must also guard against people. We need to stay away from paranoia.
Trust your instincts, and if it doesn't feel right, you're protecting yourself. First impressions matter.
This male fan is not a real fan, he is an illegitimate child and is extremely obsessed with idols.
Bastards are terrible, they will constantly follow their idols, their psychology has been twisted, and they are extremely possessive.
Possessiveness is not love, and true love is not possession. The act of eating illegitimate meals is a common problem in the entertainment industry.
Xu Jialing may be inexperienced, and if she doesn't go to the meeting, she may be able to avoid the tragedy.
Paranoia is very scary, do you remember Chen Xiang's six and a half o'clock actress legs?
In 2017, Leg Leg and her boyfriend met a drunk man in the hospital, and after an argument, Leg Leg was cut off and unfortunately died.
This is another serious incident, Chen Xiang lost an excellent actor at half past six, and his legged boyfriend lost his lover.
They had just finished taking wedding photos, and they originally planned to get married, but they were separated forever.
When you go out, you should control your temper and protect yourself, especially with strangers.
There is a word on the Internet called "garbage man", and once the negative emotions that have been suppressed for a long time explode, it will bring disaster.
In 2017, the owner of a noodle restaurant at the Wuhan railway station was brutally killed because of a one-yuan dispute.
In this case, a head-on conflict should be avoided.
The outcome of a head-on conflict can be serious, and it is better to choose to avoid it.
There is also a similar incident in the entertainment industry, singer Xiao Jingteng once met a rich woman fan, in order to get close to him, she spent a lot of money to buy a house, and knocked on his door at night, so scared that he didn't dare to open the door.
This fan hated because of love, and even poured feces on Xiao Jingteng when he went out. They ended up in a lawsuit.
These examples teach us to be careful in our relationships with strangers.
We should be strict with ourselves and tolerant of others.
For the information on the network, the well-intentioned ones can be seen, and the malicious ones can be directly blocked.
In life, if you encounter dangerous people, try to avoid them and don't be reckless.
The Tao Te Ching says that strength is easy to break, and weakness lasts forever. In interpersonal interactions, you should be understanding and tolerant of others, and don't get angry easily.
The power of softness can have a huge effect.
Overcoming the strong with softness and overcoming the strong with weakness is the wisdom left to us by the ancients.
There is a saying in "Guarding the Weak", the strong guard the weak, and the strong will always be strong;The weak guard the weak, from the weak to the strong.
We should not be strong, we must learn to show weakness, which can save lives at critical moments.
We regret the tragedy of Xu Jialing. May she rest in peace in heaven and go all the way!