After South Korea's **Kim Dae-jung officially took office, he publicly entertained his four predecessors in the **Mansion**. He defused political hatred with concrete actions and demonstrated great forgiveness. In the sensational Gwangju trial, he was sentenced to death by **, when he made a will asking his family and comrades not to take revenge and let the political ** end there. His broad mind and great sentiments have won the respect of countless people in the world. To forgive others is to be kind to yourself, and tolerance is a virtue. Of course, it is not easy to forgive those who have hurt oneself, and it does take great courage and open-mindedness to drive resentment and even hatred out of one's heart. As a book says, our hearts are like a container, when there is more and more love, hatred will be squeezed out, we don't need to blindly, deliberately to eliminate hatred, but continue to fill our hearts with love, with care to nourish our hearts, hatred naturally has no place. Why don't we leave our hatred and anger behind and be kind to ourselves.
What about it?Gongsun Hong of the Han Dynasty was poor when he was young, and later became a prime minister, but his life was still very frugal, with only one meat dish for dinner, and only ordinary quilts for sleep. Because of this, the minister Ji Huang sent a copy to Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, criticizing Gongsun Hong for being the third duke, having a considerable amount of money, but only covering ordinary quilts, in essence, to deceive the reputation of his living name, in order to deceive the reputation of frugality and honesty.
Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty asked Gongsun Hong:"Is what Ji Di said true?
Gongsun Hong replied:"Ji Di is right. Among the ministers of the Manchu Dynasty, he had the best friendship with me and knew me best. Today, when he accused me in front of everyone, he hit the nail on the head. I'm in the know
The three princes only covered with quilts, and their living standards were the same as ordinary people, and they did deliberately pretend to be honest in order to gain fame. If it weren't for Ji Di's loyalty, how could His Majesty have heard such criticism of me?"Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty listened to Gongsun Hong's words, but felt that he was humble, so he respected him even more.
In the face of Ji Di's accusations and Emperor Wu of Han's inquiry, Gongsun Hong did not defend a word, and all of them admitted that this is a kind of wisdom!Ki Dian blamed him"Fraud to sell fame and reputation"No matter how much he argues, onlookers have a preconceived idea that he may be continuing"Fraud"。Gongsun Hong was well aware of the weight of this accusation, and adopted a very clever move, without making any excuses, admitting that he was selling his reputation. This actually shows itself at least"There is no deception now"。Due to"There is no deception now"Both the accused and the bystanders agreed, and the weight of the charge was reduced. Gongsun Hong's cleverness also lies in praising the people who accuse him and thinking that he is"Loyal"。In this way, the emperor and his colleagues were given the impression that Gongsun Hong was indeed there"The prime minister can hold the boat in his belly"。Since everyone has such a mentality, then Gongsun Hong doesn't need to defend his fame and reputation, because this is not a political ambition, it is not a threat to the emperor, and it is not a harm to his colleagues, it is just a personal habit of clearing his name, which is harmless.