A man who wants to leave your performance 3 hints

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Men are very direct in the face of feelings, love and non-love!

However, when a man makes a decision to terminate a relationship, he reacts very differently for the following reasons:

1: Take the initiative to mention separation, it is able to completely grasp the woman, and will not entangle yourself anymore;

2: Forcing women to separate is to give themselves no longer entangled and find better room.

In a relationship, a woman's self-righteousness is the root cause of her gains and losses and self-consumption in the wrong person.

Generally speaking, a man who takes the initiative to mention separation can be regarded as the last mercy to a woman. At the very least, he was the first to tell you that we don't have a future.

And those men who don't want to take the responsibility of breaking up and force women to separate in order to avoid women pestering themselves are the most vicious!

This kind of man will not directly mention separation, but the details are full of impatience to leave!

If you are by the side of a man, the happy and down-to-earth experience is becoming blurred, and you clearly feel the indifference and disregard of the man, remember to leave him as soon as possible!

Half a minute of hesitation, it's all your sin of being rude!

A man who wants to leave your performance 3 hints

In the maintenance of the relationship between men and women, you will find that men will always appropriately use the word initiative at first sight or in the process of long-term identification, which is easy for women to experience a sense of steadiness and security!

When men begin to transform from active to passive, and from passive to play lost, women should wake up:

You are no longer his important person.

Some men will use busy work as an excuse and tiredness as an excuse to explain their passive contact and loss of contact ......

But in fact, at this moment when the mobile phone is not in your hand, if you really believe that a person will be so busy that he forgets to contact you, forget to reply to you, and forget your ......

Then you really don't know what a healthy relationship is!

A healthy relationship may not always be a man who takes the initiative, and the message that the man replies to may not be timely enough, but it will definitely not be without the initiative, selective reply, and disconnection!

Men have changed from active to passive, from passive to often disconnected, with only one purpose: to force you to stand it and separate!

Maybe for many women, they think that a man is always enthusiastic and clingy to himself, which is the happiness of being loved!

In fact, there is a word called "hot violence" in sexual interactions, which is mainly manifested in the following forms:

When I was a little unhappy, I repeatedly **, and the message "bombed";

When you say you're busy, repeatedly, the message "bombs", and even goes to your unit

Show distrust of you all the time and ask you to care;

Will be 24 hours a day uninterrupted to ask for warmth, make a lot of emotions to be cared about;

After reading these points, smart people will have a very clear understanding of hot violence:

The so-called hot violence is the opposite of cold violence - making the other party feel "suffocated" and thus proposing to break up.

Thermal violence is essentially a conflict between the two demands of "independence" and "integration".

When a man fully shows his passion, it's not that he really cares about you, but in a way that he ignores your feelings and situations even though he cares, forcing you to separate!

A man's identification of a woman must be related to the rest of his life in the future!

When a woman asks a man about the plan for the common future of the two people, the man has been vague and has not answered positively, in fact, he tells the woman in the most explicit attitude:

We only care about the present, and I don't think I'll be with you in the future!

The reason why I still have a relationship with you at the moment is because you are what I just need at the moment, and I haven't found a good next home yet!

However, the real psychology of a man does not mean that he wants to keep a woman at the moment, and gradually has expectations for the future together. But it is acceptable for a woman to separate at any time, or to give a woman a reassurance at this moment:

We can't be together after all, don't hope for me!

One of the most common things that scumbags say is, it's good that we are happy at this moment, and we do a fixed framework plan for the future, which is really unnecessary!

Actually, it's just that I didn't recognize and didn't take you to heart!

In a sense, there is no difference between a spare tire or a play, it's just an emotional deception!

If you are smart enough and know how to love yourself enough, I advise you to be a wise woman:

1: Don't take ambiguity for love;

2: Don't take your unfulfilled promises seriously;

3: When the perception of imbalance becomes clearer, remember to let go in time;

4: It's better to trust your instincts than to expect from a man who is full of lies;

5: Learn to love yourself first, then keep your sanity and sobriety and love others!

I'm a high-quality affective writer who has provided valuable and meaningful help to many counselors. I have rich experience in marriage, relationships, interpersonal relationships, etc., if you have any emotional confusion, please feel free to consult me.

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Negative emotions are common to all, and when you are willing to put them aside, you can not be bound by them. Ultimately, it's up to you to do that!