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Xiaofang and I met on a blind date. At that time, I had only been working for two or three years, and my parents began to worry about me getting married and having children. That day, I was drinking tea and chatting with a college classmate at a teahouse near my home, and he suddenly mysteriously told me that he had introduced me to a girl, his cousin, and asked me to meet her on the weekend. I hesitated a little and said, "I haven't made any mental preparations for such a sudden blind date." The classmate smiled and said, "Don't worry, my cousin is beautiful and cute, has a good personality, has no worries about food and clothing, and is a very competent future wife." It's better for you to meet than your parents to arrange a blind date for you. If you can talk about it, you can continue to develop, and if it is not suitable, it is better than doing nothing. You should just come out and relax. ”
Hearing him say that, I think so. After working for a while, you can think about the object. So he agreed to meet his cousin. "Hello, my name is Li Xiaofang. Nice to meet you. I was a little flustered, and immediately stood up, and some hurriedly pulled out a chair for her to sit down: "Hello hello, please sit down." I'm Zhang Fenghuang. Nice to meet you. ”
Xiaofang sat down with a smile and said, "Hello, hello, my name is Li Xiaofang." I'm glad to have met you. I looked at her carefully, and I have to say that my classmates didn't brag, Xiaofang is indeed very beautiful, fair-skinned, big eyes, a very straight nose, and delicate lips. Coupled with light makeup, the whole person exudes a quiet temperament. "What do you want to drink?"I was a little embarrassed and quickly flipped through the menu. "I can do it all, you decide. Xiaofang was still smiling. 
The atmosphere was a little awkward, and the two of us silently sipped coffee. Wanting to break the silence, I cleared my throat and took the initiative to ask, "Xiaofang, I heard my cousin say that you work in the city?"What do you do?"I design for a clothing company. Xiaofang replied with a smile, "I am mainly responsible for fashion design." What about you?"I work as a structural engineer for a construction company. I said a little shyly, "The main work is the design and construction of some buildings. "Wow, that sounds amazing!Xiaofang was sincerely amazed. 
I was a little embarrassed, and my face flushed slightly: "*It's just an ordinary job." You're so creative, fashion design is so creative. "Why don't we talk about something else?"Xiaofang saw that I was a little shy, and took the initiative to divert the topic. "Okay!I hurriedly said, "By the way, do you usually have any hobbies?""I love to travel and get to know different places and cultures. A flash of excitement flashed in Xiaofang's eyes, "What about you?"”
I like sports, especially playing. Speaking of this, I came to the spirit and gushed endlessly, "I was the main force of our department's basketball team when I was a student!."I often lead the team to play against other departments, and I, a three-point shooter, catch up with the score with a bang, which is the most blood-pumping!"I didn't expect to be so excited when it comes to basketball, it's a bit too gaffe. I quickly stopped talking and looked at Xiaofang, for fear that she would think I was too noisy. Unexpectedly, Xiaofang didn't mind at all, but listened with relish: "You must be very handsome when you play!."Why don't you take me to see you play?"Okay!"I didn't expect her to be so interested, I said happily. And so we talked. It turned out that her hometown was from Shanxi. After going to college, I came to live in the city by myself. The personality is very cheerful and generous, and I can talk to me unexpectedly. Before we knew it, we sat in the café and chatted for three hours, talking about each other's families, jobs, friends, and various social phenomena. 
Xiaofang smiled and nodded: "I also think we are quite close." Let's just have a formal relationship. "After getting married, Xiaofang moved her hukou to me, and the two of us lived in a new three-bedroom house. When we first got married, life was very sweet, we would cook together, watch TV or chat together in the evenings, and often go out on trips. Xiaofang's temper gradually became a little irritable, but I didn't take it to heart. As long as we're together, I feel very satisfied. Unfortunately, we don't have children. At first, I didn't care, thinking that there would be fate. But after a few years, Xiaofang's patience seems to have been exhausted, and she often looks melancholy, talks less, and always looks listless. For some reason, she became more and more dissatisfied with this childless life. 
During the Chinese New Year this year, my parents gave us 50,000 yuan as New Year's money. I happily bought them a lot of supplements, and Xiaofang was very happy. But not long after the New Year, less than a month after returning home, she suddenly filed for divorce. I was surprised, but I endured my reluctance and grief, and begged her to think again. But Xiaofang has already made up her mind, the reason is that the emotional foundation between us is not strong, and she can no longer see the point of continuing with me. I agreed to her demands for children and finances, but I still couldn't impress her. This knife cut me all over in blood. I desperately tried to salvage this relationship, but found that Xiaofang was packing her bags in the room where we lived, and her attitude was becoming more and more decisive. For the divorce agreement she filed, she asked me to sign it within a week. It was a bolt from the blue for me. My whole being was on the verge of collapse and despair, and I could no longer eat or sleep. My parents visited me many times and advised me to cheer up and convince me not to do anything stupid. But all this didn't help, Xiaofang's position was determined to divorce me. 
In the month since Xiaofang decided to divorce, my whole body was on the verge of collapse. I took a week-long leave of absence and stayed home alone, leaning on the balcony for long periods of time. Sometimes I cried, sometimes I cursed the injustice of fate, and my mind was full of bits and pieces with Xiaofang. Those precious memories have now become the blade that torments me, and I am in pain. A few close friends came to see me at home when they found out about my situation. "Lao Tie, there are many encounters in life, don't blame yourself too much. "Marriage is consensual, and since she has changed her mind, you can't do anything about it. "It's important to look forward and live each day well. Wouldn't it be better to let go and live happily?"My parents are even more distressed about my state. They came here several times and persuaded again and again: "Son, you are only in your early thirties now, and you have a great future ahead of you." The idea of a daughter's home is always elusive, and you shouldn't be too upset. "You are torturing yourself like this now, and we are distressed to see it. In any case, your body is still important, remember to take care of yourself, our old bones can rest assured!”