In 1997, Li Na became a superstar in the music scene in the 90s with "Qinghai-Tibet Plateau". However, she suddenly broke off her love, gave up her worldly fame and fortune, and announced that she would shave her hair and spend the rest of her life with the green lights of the temple.
The mother was far away on the other side of the ocean, and returned to China overnight after learning of her daughter's crazy decision. After finding Li Na, she fell to her knees and cried bitterly, just hoping that her daughter would change her mind, return home, and live an ordinary life.
Not only the family, but also thousands of fans are trying to keep it. However, Li Na's attitude was unwavering, leaving only one sentence: "I have returned home, and you should also find your own home." ”
What was it that made a famous singer who had attracted a lot of attention resolutely choose to become a monk?It's been 25 years, and now does she regret it?
Perhaps, Li Na's childhood regrets and those two unforgettable emotional pains were the key to her amazing moves.
Obviously a single-parent family, but Li Na lives like an orphan. Before dawn all day, she ran to the stove a little higher than her to fry wild vegetables, plus three overnight cakes. After eating, she wiped her mouth and put on her satchel to go to school.
Compared with Li Na, my sister is luckier. was abandoned by his father at the age of waiting to be fed, and he only knew that he was lying in his mother's arms and sleeping soundly, and when he was older, it became a habit to stick to his mother, and he was even more unscrupulous.
Li Na was never jealous, she understood that after her father left, her sister became the only pistachio and was responsible for making her mother happy. And she became a little hero, taking care of the family. However, the neighbors did not let go of the mother and daughter, and always chewed their tongues, saying that there must be something wrong with the woman before letting the man leave.
Under the influence of adults, the children made up such a smooth sentence: "The two children of the Li family, there is a mother and no father, haha, if you want to ask whose fault, the old man picks it up in front of the door." Every time Li Na was trapped in the classroom by many children and forced to listen to these vulgar and bad words, she couldn't suppress the grievances in her heart. Her little mouth pursed, her eyes closed, and tears as big as beans fell.
However, Mom didn't care, she thought it was just children's play and didn't have to worry about it. This attitude made Li Na realize for the first time that she was different from ordinary children, she had to be more sensible and not cause trouble to her mother. Because of this, when her mother dropped out of school because of saving money, and sent her to the Yu Opera Troupe in Henan, a place where she ate, lived, and learned art, she didn't say a word, directly picked up the little baggage, and officially started her journey away from her hometown at the age of 12.
The life of the Yu Opera Troupe was not easy, and they could only eat three cornmeal buns a day, which was far from enough to fill their stomachs. Some students couldn't stand it and quit school halfway, and some of them had food and drink brought by their families every evening.
And Li Na can only drink some water to fill her stomach when she is hungry, and hide in the bed and cry secretly when she is tired.
After three years of patience, she finally became an official actress and could get a salary of more than a dozen yuan a month. Occasionally, she would represent the troupe in competitions in major provincial capitals, and she would always go all out to win the first place, because the first place was awarded 50 yuan.
Every time Li Na saves up for half a year, she mails a letter home. Although my sister is illiterate, she knows money very well. The mother also saw the hard work of the eldest daughter in the struggle through letters and a bunch of scattered gross tickets.
In 1988, Li Na went on a business trip to Shenzhen, and it was rare to have free time. However, her colleague dragged her shopping, and she was not interested. She walked street after street until she noticed a poster for the National Singer Contest. Instinctively, she leaned in.
This contest is a contest of popular songs, and the winner will receive 300 yuan and a floor fan.
Li Na remembered the scorching heat in her hometown, where her mother and sister lived in an adobe house, and because there were no fans, sweat would soak through the backs of their clothes in the middle of the night.
If she can get the first place, she can improve the living environment of her family.
It is not difficult to cross over from Henan opera to pop music, and Li Na knows this. In general, the pitch of opera is an octave higher than that of pop songs, so she spent half a month lowering the pitch and waiting until the high-pitched part to use falsetto again.
She was surprised to find that her voice was louder and more penetrating than the average person.
On the day of the official competition, she sang a song "It's Not Easy to Live", which shocked the entire venue and won the first place in one fell swoop.
However, there was a small episode in which one of the judges was not convinced, believing that her singing skills with a playful tone were rustic and only suitable for humming in the field, rather than on the big stage.
Fortunately, this little episode did not affect Li Na's self-confidence, she finally got the reward she coveted and successfully entered the entertainment industry, becoming an ace singer in the 90s in just two years.
In 1994, with a song "Qinghai-Tibet Plateau", Li Na officially embarked on the road to the peak, but at the same time, it also opened the beginning of her tragic life!
* When Zhang Qianyi traveled to the Qinghai-Tibet Plateau, he was deeply attracted by the magnificent beauty.
Standing at the foot of the mountain, looking up at the majestic and magnificent snowy area, the white snow seems to turn into a song, and the peak movement is played in the hearts of the people.
He tried to find nearly 100 ** people, but no one was competent, unable to sing that sincere emotion and chant that windy melody.
At this time, Li Na had already raised money for her sister to study abroad with her own efforts. The mother was worried that her little daughter would go overseas alone, so she went to Canada with her luggage to accompany her.
With the departure of relatives in China, she simply immersed herself in work all day long, and occasionally went to concerts held by other singers in Qinghai-Tibet to avoid loneliness.
When Zhang Qianyi learned that a superstar was going to put on a performance, he set up a tent during the day and crowded into the front row as soon as the evening began.
At the beginning of the concert, Li Na did not care about altitude sickness and showed a mellow and simple voice that is rare for women. Zhang Qianyi listened carefully throughout the whole process, unable to suppress the surging of inspiration in his heart. He found out that the person he was looking for was her!
That night, he immediately found Li Na's agent and handed over an invitation letter for cooperation.
At this time, Li Na's reputation in the music world continued to rise, and she received countless notices, and her remuneration was even more ridiculous. It stands to reason that she wouldn't fall in love with the work of a little songwriter.
However, as soon as she heard the style of the song and saw the lyrics, Li Na was deeply attracted and desperately wanted to invite Zhang Qianyi over. After talking for most of the day, the two decided to work together.
But when she was heading to the recording studio, Li Na suddenly fell into deep thought.
The song "Qinghai-Tibet Plateau" is indeed excellent, but the affectionate meaning contained in it is like the fiery feelings expressed by a young girl in Huaichun to her sweetheart.
However, Li Na herself has never been in love, and if she keeps working behind closed doors, she will not be able to sing the soul of this song at all. So, she came up with a bold idea.
Since she became popular, there are not many suitors around her, and she can choose one at will to taste the taste of love and enrich her life experience.
As a result, a 41-year-old man from the Northeast became the lucky one, he was ten years older than Li Na, and he was delicate and methodical.
In the process of pursuing Li Na, he prepared in advance, and learned that she had no father since she was a child, so he took the initiative to play the role of a father.
Whenever Li Na encountered setbacks in life and career problems, he always used his past experience to help her and solve her problems.
Originally, she just wanted to fall in love, but she didn't expect to experience a kind of "fatherly love" that she had never felt before, so Li Na quickly fell into it.
After tasting the taste of love, she successfully survived the dilemma of singing and firmly mastered "Qinghai-Tibet Plateau", which also became Li Na's immortal pinnacle.
When Li Na's mother learned that her eldest daughter had a boyfriend, she called her overnight and told her: "Be smart, don't be deceived by bad men, it's not easy for you to make money."
Li Na, who was carried away by love, did not hesitate to refuse her mother's kindness. She feels that she is already an adult, has the right to choose who to love, and has the ability to distinguish other people's character.
However, it turns out that the mother was right. When the reporters learned that the popular singer was actually married to the opposite sex ten years older than themselves, they began to uncover the story behind it out of a gossip mentality.
Unexpectedly, this revelation really unearthed a lot of heavy information, this man is actually married and already has a daughter.
fell into the abyss of "Little Three" in an instant from the sweet love stage, and Li Na was stupid.
In order not to cause harm to other people's families, Li Na took the initiative to break up, which was only the end of free and easy, and it did not mean that her seriously injured heart was healed.
However, fortunately, another man appeared just in time to save Li Na from the predicament of falling out of love.
This man and Li Na are both ** people, and the two have the same ideal goals, but unfortunately, the talent of this so-called "true genius" is not outstanding.
In order to help her boyfriend, Li Na paid a lot of resources, but just before this boyfriend achieved something, history repeated itself again, **again** his identity as a "family".
Li Na was resentful of his sudden disappearance, and she longed to sit down with him and talk. However, the other party played and disappeared out of thin air.
In order to find her boyfriend's whereabouts, Li Na worked tirelessly to go to every corner where the two had been together, and finally even took the train for three days in a row to her boyfriend's hometown.
In that place, she really witnessed him with her own eyes, however, before Li Na had time to seek justice for herself, her boyfriend was the first to speak brazenly: "Your fame is too great, and it has had a serious impact on my life, so I fled back to my hometown to seek purity."
As for his already family status, he admitted it bluntly, and said unequivocally: "If you are willing to give up your career, become a virtuous housewife, and take care of my daughter and parents for the rest of your life, I can consider divorce".
Her psyche was traumatized. The once sweet-talking lover was so heartless that she couldn't believe it was real.
In order to heal the pain in her heart, Li Na began to like the activity of mountain climbing. She often went into the valley alone, quietly feeling the singing of the birds and the flow of the springs, and touching the wild dandelion leaves moistened by the nectar.
As she ascended the mountain, the fresh morning breeze enveloped her cheeks, bringing a sense of relief and relief. Occasionally, she also returns to Qinghai-Tibet, where she first started, away from the hustle and bustle of the city, away from the strife of the world, where Li Na finds true peace.
In order to maintain this state of tranquility, Li Na made an unexpected decision, she decided to become a monk. She chose this unusual path in search of true peace of mind.
03. After 25 years of becoming a monk, does she regret it?
After the news of "the music superstar shaved his hair", it immediately attracted the extreme attention of thousands of fans.
In order to make the idol change his mind, many fans even set up tents halfway up Wutai Mountain and lived for half a month.
They looked forward to the day when Li Na would come down from the mountain with her luggage and tell everyone, "I'm just joking, let's leave together." ”
But in fact, after half a year, Li Na still practiced firmly and officially experienced the "shaving" ceremony.
At this time, the mother who was far away in Canada did not know the deeds of her eldest daughter because of the inconvenience of communication at home and abroad and the lack of news. It wasn't until a letter came home that my mother flew back to China in a panic.
The moment she saw Li Na, Li's mother knelt directly on her knees, hugged her legs, and wailed and begged her to return to vulgarity and not abandon her and her sister.
Seeing this, Li Na shook her head slightly, squatted down on one knee to help her mother up, and then turned around and returned to the wing, closing the door without opening.
Li's mother hid her face again and cried bitterly, and kept banging on her daughter's door until her voice was almost hoarse, Li Na opened the deadbolt and let her mother in, but that was all.
Since the daughter has made up her mind, it will be in vain for her to ask for more, but as a mother, she can't watch the girl cut off the dust, so she also stays with her, for two reasons:
First, I can accompany my eldest daughter, who has been independent since she was a child and is not valued and pampered by herself, and second, I hope she can see in her own face, change her mind as soon as possible, and go home with herself.
It has been 25 years since Li Na officially became a monk, but she has no regrets at all, and left Wutai Mountain early in the morning to go to a foreign temple to cultivate.
There was no gossip and no point-and-finger from the gossip press, and she was truly at peace and freedom.
As for Li Na's mother, even though she is now eighty years old, she still accompanies her daughter to cultivate in the temple.
The youngest daughter wanted to take her home, but Li's mother refused, she said: If I leave, there will be no one around my daughter, and I can't leave her.
Li Na has lived a very fulfilling life, and she has tried everything she should try, whether it is the peak of her career or that unforgettable love. Although she did not marry and have children, she has no regrets.
That's why she said, "The temple is not chosen to stay away from the world, but to go home." ”
The aura in full swing, fame and fortune, this is a very beautiful and rich life for singers.
But for the life she really pursues in her heart, it is not a real belonging, let alone her home.