Your ex-girlfriend says "we're done", do you think the sky is falling?
I want to get back together, but her attitude is like an iceberg, making you feel like it's out of play?
Don't worry, I'll tell you, in fact, there is still a chance.
There is no ruthless woman in the world, and there is no relationship that has no chance at all.
It's not that she doesn't love you, it's that you don't know how to make her change her mind.
It's not that you don't have feelings between you, the key is to find that reason to make her heart move.
How?Simple: Create opportunities for her to make the right choice at the right time.
Don't think that if a woman says "impossible", it is really impossible, she is dissuading you, and at the same time she is being cruel to herself.
But as long as you use the right method and seize the opportunity, the right time and place are right, and reunion is not a dream.
Don't rush into action yet, you have to figure out first, why is she so ruthless?
First of all, it is important to understand that when a woman says "impossible", it may just be her feelings in the moment.
She may have accumulated too much disappointment or was just impulsive.
But that doesn't mean it's forever. The things in a woman's heart change as fast as the weather on an April day.
First, you have to know why she is so ruthless.
It could be because of what you've done to disappoint her, or because there's some misunderstanding between you.
This requires you to think back and figure out what the problem is. Remember, if you don't change your problems, everything will be in vain.
The first step is to change.
It's not that you pretend to change, but you do.
For example, if you weren't considerate enough before, learn to be considerate.
You didn't understand her before, then try to understand her.
Change doesn't happen overnight and takes time and patience.
But as long as you're sincere, she'll feel it sooner or later.
The first step is to create opportunities to show your difference.
It's not to let you pester her every day, but to let her see a different you at the right time.
For example, occasionally sharing your new life in the circle of friends, or showing your growth in front of mutual friends.
A woman is perceptive, and she will slowly notice changes in you.
The first step is to be patient.
Changed, also shown, all that remains is to give her time and space.
Don't rush to get back together, and don't message her every day to ask how she feels.
Give her time to feel the change in you and let her make her own decisions.
You may encounter a lot of problems and setbacks along the way.
For example, she may ignore you at all at first, or be dismissive of your changes.
At this time, you have to be patient and confident.
This is the time to test you, and your persistence may be the key to making her reconsider.
You have to understand that getting back together is not the goal, the real goal is whether you can rebuild a healthy relationship.
Even if you don't get back together, your change is also an improvement for yourself.
These ascensions will play a role in any relationship in the future.
Don't use compounding as a measure of your self-worth.
You are an independent individual, and you are not only valuable if you are reunited.
Whatever the outcome, you have to learn to accept it and move on.
In the process, you may find that you yourself are also changing.
You begin to know yourself better and know more about how to love and be loved.
In fact, it is particularly important to note that there is no definite impossibility in love.
You may feel like the sky is falling right now, but as long as you're willing to change and are willing to wait, there's always a silver lining.
Regardless of whether she turns back or not, your change and growth are real.
These will make you a better person, both for yourself and for the other she you meet in the future.
Now, I want to ask you: if your ex-girlfriend saw you now, would she regret her decision?
If you haven't become that yet, keep trying.
If you've done it, then, whatever her choice, you've already won.
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