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In today's society, the definitions and perceptions of love and marriage are constantly changing, making it easier for people to fall into emotional distress. Sometimes, we find ourselves unwittingly caught up in someone else's lover role.
In the eyes of some people, as long as they can get what they want, even if they are lovers, they will not hesitate to do so. They think that being a lover is also a shortcut, giving some youth in exchange for ten years less struggle.
In fact, being a lover is far from being as simple as they think, it's like a job, and when you don't want to do it, you can leave and start a new life.
Being someone else's lover is like seeking the skin of a tiger, you think of getting wealth and status opportunities, and what others want may be your life.
There are too many women who are confused and become other people's lovers, and in the end they all "lose" in these 3 points.
01: Deceived by lies
Some people don't take the initiative to become someone else's lover. They don't know each other's true marital status until they get involved in the relationship.
These women were also very innocent at first. They thought they were just in love, a serious relationship, but they unknowingly became someone else's junior.
If a woman can make up her mind to end this wrong relationship after knowing that she is "being a junior", then there is still room for redemption.
But some women are deceived by men's rhetoric with a fluke mentality, thinking that men will give them an explanation and give them a good ending.
Women should always remember that a man who can deceive you as a lover is not sincere towards you at all. They're just greedy for your freshness.
When they get tired of it, these women will not wait for the good ending they want, they will only be ruthlessly abandoned.
02: No property
Some women see being a lover as a way to amass money. They don't seek sincerity or eternity, they just want to exchange their youth for wealth.
They have their own wishful thinking, but men are not fools to give what they want.
Men also have their inferior roots, and even if he is not serious about you, he hopes that you can be serious about him. No man wants to see a woman with him just for money, even if it's just a lover.
Men who can support lovers have a certain career foundation to some extent, and men who can build their own careers will not be straw bales, and they also have their own calculations.
Women have paid for their youth and flesh, but they have not gotten the wealth they want in the various skills of men, and in the end they are empty.
03: No escape
Some things are easy to start with, but it's not necessarily that simple to get out.
Being someone else's lover is one such thing, and once you're on that path, it's hard for you to want to start over.
After a man finds a lover, what they want is to maintain stability, that is, they want to drag you and him together for no apparent reason, and satisfy their desire to control. Unless they lose interest in you, they won't be willing to end the relationship easily.
They will trap you in a variety of ways, such as grabbing your handle, cutting off your social sphere, controlling your economy, etc.
Once you are trapped by a man, the price to pay for wanting to get out of it all is very large.
When a woman becomes a lover, she is often on the fringe of morality and ethics. Not only will she hurt her original partner, but she will also ignore her conscience and moral code.
We should be clear about our attitude towards love and marriage and stick to our bottom line. If we find ourselves in an emotional entanglement, we should look back in time, re-examine our choices and make the right decisions.
Don't gamble your youth on tomorrow, love yourself well, and refuse to be the woman who can't see the light behind that man.
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