One day in October 1987, when Xiao Hua was washing Zhang Yimou's clothes, he took out a love letter written by Gong Li to him from his pocket.
The content of the love letter is roughly like this: "You are gone, and you have taken my heart with you, and we have endless words to talk about together......”
There are many bold and bold places in the letter.
Xiao Hua looked at this love letter and couldn't help shedding a few lines of tears, because she knew that her husband had betrayed the relationship between the two.
Subsequently, Xiao Hua ran to question Zhang Yimou.
In the quarrel, Zhang Yimou rushed out of the door, and soon after the love letter was **, Zhang Yimou returned home and questioned Xiao Hua angrily.
He pointed at Xiao Hua and said: "Did you poke this matter out, do you know that this will ruin a person's future." ”
Xiao Hua denied it, but Zhang Yimou didn't believe it at all.
In the end, Zhang Yimou's words made her disheartened and agreed to the divorce.
He said: "The union of the two of us was a misunderstanding when cutting in line. "A love letter of more than 40 pages, in the end, it turned out to be a misunderstanding?
Damn my heart!
After the divorce, Zhang Yimou and Gong Li got together as he wished.
At that time, Gong Li was in her prime, immersed in romantic fantasies, and she hoped to have a fair and honest love with Zhang Yimou.
Of course, she wants not only love, but also marriage.
But after the relationship between the two, they were opposed by the people around them, and it is said that Gong Li's boyfriend at the time also made a move on her.
Gong Li's parents rushed to Beijing from Jinan and scolded her: "He has a wife and a daughter, how can you destroy other people's families?"”
No matter how others persuade her, Gong Li is determined to be with Zhang Yimou, and she firmly believes that this man will definitely marry her.
In the years that followed, Gong Li and Zhang Yimou collaborated together on works such as "Qiu Ju Fights a Lawsuit" and "The Red Lantern Hangs High".
Gong Li and Zhang Yimou created a myth in the film industry that belonged to them together, won countless flowers and honors, and won awards softly.
However, Gong Li has been with Zhang Yimou for 8 years, but she has never waited for the marriage letter, and she also waited for his words.
Zhang Yimou said: "Marriage is just a piece of paper, why be persistent." ”
After filming "Shake, Shake, Shake to Grandma's Bridge", Zhang Yimou officially announced the news of breaking up with Gong Li, and the 8-year relationship came to an end.
A year after the breakup, Gong Li married Huang Hexiang, president of the tobacco company Asia Pacific.
For the sake of her family, she once wanted to quit the entertainment industry, but later for various reasons, Gong Li continued to participate in activities and shoot film and television dramas.
As an actor, it is inevitable to stay in the crew for a long time, which means that Gong Li and Huang Hexiang are often separated.
After a long time of gathering less and leaving more, the relationship between the two cracked, and finally this marriage, which lasted for 14 years, ended in failure.
The emotional trauma made Gong Li vulnerable, and it took her a few years to get out of the shadow of divorce.
In 2019, Gong Li found her love home again and entered into marriage with Michel, a 71-year-old French electronic master.
Now Gong Li still hasn't given birth to children, but Zhang Yimou and Chen Ting have three in one go, both children and winners.
When talking about Zhang Yimou again, Gong Li said: "He knows what I want. "The two of them achieve each other but can't have each other.
Many times, feelings are like this, and they can't ask for it.
However, Gong Li is over 57 years old, but she does not dare to get old, because she still has a very important task, not only to take care of her 98-year-old mother.
She also has to take care of her three older brothers, as well as the family of her deceased sister.
Gong Li grew up in a Kochi family, her father was a professor at a university, and her mother, Zhao Ying, worked in finance at a cotton mill in Jinan.
She has 5 brothers and sisters, three brothers and one sister, Gong Li is the youngest, and the youngest brother in the family is 14 years older than her.
Because there are many brothers and sisters in the family, Gong Li's family conditions were not very good when she was a child, but she was good at singing and dancing since she was a child, and she was often invited to perform on TV stations.
Since then, Gong Li has planted a seed in her heart to be an actor, and she enjoys the feeling of standing on the stage very much.
After going to high school, Gong Li told her parents about her dream, but she didn't expect her to be reprimanded by her parents.
In that era, stars and actors were not favored by others, and were generally considered to be "dramas", and they were not respected.
Gong Li's parents are intellectuals, how could they let their daughter become an actress. They strongly objected, and she dismissed the idea.
In order to stop her daughter, Gong Li's parents also stopped her pocket money, but Gong Li still refused to compromise and secretly enrolled in an art school.
But fate seems to be deliberately trying to trick Gong Li, she applied for the exam again and again, but failed again and again, and looked at the parents of her lost daughter and softened.
They found Yin Dawei, the head of the Jinan Song and Dance Troupe, through their relationship, and with his recognition and help, Gong Li's life took a turn.
In 1985, Gong Li was exceptionally admitted to Chinese opera.
During her studies in Chinese opera, her parents were happy for their daughter and worried because tuition fees were a big problem for them.
Although Gong Li's parents both have jobs, they are also responsible for the food, clothing, housing and transportation of a large family, and they can't make ends meet with that salary.
At the critical moment, Gong Li's sister Gong Wen stood up.
She took out her dowry, stuffed it into her sister to use it as tuition, and promised Gong Li that she would definitely be able to finish college.
With the help of her sister, Gong Li was able to study smoothly.
It can be said that without Gong Wen, there would be no Gong Li today, which is why Gong Li later took care of her sister's two children.
In 1987, Gong Li, who was still a sophomore, was favored by Zhang Yimou and let her play "Jiu'er" in the movie "Red Sorghum".
This movie has also become a love work for the two.
The movie was a great success after its release, Zhang Yimou established his status in the director's circle in one fell swoop, and the heroine Gong Li also became famous overnight.
After getting paid, Gong Li didn't think of herself at first time, but her family. She bought gifts for everyone in the family.
The father was given an electric razor, the mother was a cashmere scarf, the sister was a down jacket, and the three brothers each had a pair of cowhide shoes.
After receiving Gong Li's gift, the family was so happy that they talked and laughed together, full of warmth and happiness.
Soon, however, the family couldn't laugh anymore.
Because Gong Li and Zhang Yimou have been in love for a long time, she still secretly walked with him when she knew that he had a family.
After Gong Li's parents learned the news, they were so angry that they couldn't sleep well for a few days, they taught and educated people all their lives, and they would never allow their daughter to break morals.
Mother Zhao Ying took her eldest daughter Gong Wen to find Gong Li, and when they met, they were scolded, and they couldn't wait to go up and slap Gong Li.
Zhao Ying said to Gong Li: "Don't you know that he is married?"If you insist on staying with him, you will be poked in the back. ”
Sister Gong Wen loves Gong Li the most, and she doesn't want to see her sister take the wrong path, so she persuades her to restrain herself from the precipice and plot a clear line with Zhang Yi.
But Gong Li didn't refute it, just shed tears.
Mother and sister said ruthlessly, so she locked herself in the house, not eating or drinking, in order to show her **.
Later, Gong Wen began to feel sorry for her sister, so she secretly persuaded her mother to give her some time to think about it and stop scolding her.
Zhao Ying left with Gong Wen with a stomach. Later, they turned a blind eye to Gong Li and Zhang Yimou's affairs.
Later, Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua divorced in a showdown, and Gong Li finally stood by his side openly and entered the pair together.
Seeing this, the family had no choice but to acquiesce in the relationship between the two.
In 1991, during the filming of "Qiu Ju's Lawsuit", Gong Li suddenly received a call from her mother, telling her that Gong Wen had breast cancer.
After Gong Li heard the news, she took the train back to her hometown overnight, when she saw the shapeless Gong Wen who was suffering from illness in the hospital.
Gong Li threw herself on her sister and cried bitterly.
In order to treat her sister, Gong Li found the best hospital and the best doctor, and just wanted her sister to get up.
During her sister's treatment, Gong Li was taking care of her in the hospital while filming, and she told her sister: "When this drama is finished, I will take you abroad."
However, Gong Wen finally passed away, Gong Li couldn't accept the fact that her sister had passed away, she couldn't cry herself.
But seeing the two young children left by her sister, she wiped away her tears again, and vowed in her heart that she must raise the children.
to repay my sister's kindness.
After my sister left, my mother and father couldn't bear the pain of losing their daughter, and for a long time they washed their faces with tears and were depressed.
Gong Li looked at her elderly parents and felt more and more precious that family affection was precious.
She took the hands of her three sisters-in-law and said, "I will call your sister in the future, and this family will rely on a few of us to support it in the future." ”
A few sisters-in-law nodded tearfully.
They said to Gong Li: "You can rest assured that your father and mother will be taken care of by us, and they will definitely enjoy their old age in peace." ”
With the support of her brother and sister-in-law, Gong Li devoted herself to her acting career, and her career has also reached a higher level.
Gong Li attaches great importance to family affection, although she has become a well-known star, she still does her filial piety as a child.
No matter how busy she is, Gong Li will also go home every day, cheer with her family, and understand the situation of her parents.
In order to make the family live more comfortably, Gong Li also bought a house in a high-end community in his hometown, with more than 200 square meters.
Gong Li's second brother deliberately moved to live with his parents, and he rarely went out because of his filial piety, and spent most of his time taking care of his parents.
Unless she encounters special circumstances, as long as it is the Spring Festival, she will definitely go back to her hometown for the New Year.
It's a pity that Gong Li's father has never been able to get out of the pain of losing his daughter, Gong Wen died less than two years ago, and his father also passed away.
When his father was alive, Gong Li had a plan to take the family abroad to see the outside world, but it backfired.
Before Gong Li finished his work, his father passed away.
Gong Li always remembered the call her father gave her when she was seriously ill, and asked her several times in **: "Can you come back?".”
In the end, her father comforted her again: "It's okay if you can't come back, you are busy with work first." ”
The tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, the son wants to raise but the parent is not there, this sentence is used to describe Gong Li, and the death of her father is the biggest regret for her.
After his father left, his mother lost her daughter and husband successively, and her whole person collapsed, and there was no longer the same look in her eyes.
The hair is almost completely white.
Every grass and tree in the house, a small object has the shadow of her father, Gong Li couldn't bear to see her mother and think about people, so she took her to her side.
Gong Li took her mother around, bought her all kinds of delicacies, and took her mother to major places of interest in Beijing.
She was afraid that her mother would feel lonely when she was not at home, so Gong Li specially bought a small pet dog for her mother to accompany her.
My mother was overjoyed.
Under Gong Li's care, her mother gradually walked out of the pain, her face regained her former look, and her mood was much brighter.
However, Gong Li encountered another problem here.
In 1995, Gong Li once again asked Zhang Yimou to get married, but Zhang Yimou refused on the grounds that his daughter was young.
When she returned home, Gong Li couldn't help crying.
Zhao Ying couldn't bear to be sad after learning the reason, so she put down her son and took the initiative to contact Zhang Yimou, hoping that he would not disappoint Gong Li.
Unexpectedly, Zhang Yimou's attitude was tough, and he also said: "Marriage is a piece of paper, and I don't want to get married now".
Gong Li was disappointed, and the relationship between the two came to an end.
In 1995, under the recommendation of a friend, Gong Li met Huang Hexiang, president of the tobacco company in the Asia-Pacific region, and he fell in love with Gong Li at first sight.
A passionate pursuit ensued.
Gong Li has just experienced a failed romance and no longer has hope in her relationship, and her attitude towards Huang Hexiang has always been lukewarm.
But Huang Hexiang did not flinch, he chased Gong Li wherever he went, and even chased Gong Li's hometown Jinan with gifts.
Huang Hexiang knew that Gong Li valued her family very seriously, so he started with her mother and brother and sister-in-law and attacked them one by one.
In the end, under the persuasion of her mother and sister-in-law, Gong Li agreed to Huang Hexiang's pursuit, and the two entered into marriage in 1996.
However, this marriage ended in failure for various reasons, and Gong Li was afraid that her family would worry and concealed the truth of the divorce.
But the paper couldn't hold the fire, and Gong Li's brother still knew about it. It didn't take long for everyone to know that Gong Li was divorced.
Zhao Ying was angry and painful to Gong Li, choked up and asked her: "You are not young anymore, why are you still so willful about feelings?".”
Gong Li didn't know how to explain it, so she just cried blindly.
Zhao Ying was unwilling to divorce Gong Li like this, she personally called Huang Hexiang **, and asked euphemistically if the two had a chance to get back together.
But Huang Hexiang refused, he comforted Zhao Ying: "Even if you divorce Gong Li, the two are still friends and will help each other." ”
The matter has come to this point, and Zhao Ying can only accept the facts.
In fact, the divorce also hit Gong Li very hard, she once thought that she was a failed woman, unable to keep love, and unable to keep her marriage.
The brother and sister-in-law saw Gong Li's thoughts, and they discussed together to help their sister come out of the shadows and let her regain her happiness.
The three sisters-in-law rushed to let Gong Li go to live in their own house, they cleaned the house and bought all kinds of green plants to decorate the room.
Gong Li accepted the kindness of her brother and sister-in-law, and she took turns to live in several brothers' houses, staying in this house for a few days and that home for a few days.
The sisters-in-law regarded Gong Li as their own sister, took her out to buy vegetables together, and unceremoniously arranged for her to help cook when they got home.
After eating, the sister-in-law was responsible for cleaning, and Gong Li took the initiative to go to the kitchen to wash the dishes, and then the family went downstairs for a walk.
The companionship of family affection dispelled the haze of Gong Li.
A few months later, Gong Li regained her former self-confidence, and after saying goodbye to her brother and sister-in-law, she threw herself into work again.
This time, she took a casual attitude towards love, and Gong Li knew that there would always be someone who was suitable for her.
After being single for 10 years, Gong Li finally met her French boyfriend Michelle, the difference between the two is 18 years old, and many people are not optimistic about the relationship.
But Gong Li was moved by Michelle's true feelings.
In 2019, the two registered their marriage, and after marriage, Gong Li was spoiled as a little woman, almost wherever she went, Michelle followed.
The two held hands, looking at each other's eyes full of love, they had been married for many years, and the happiness on Gong Li's face couldn't be stopped.
After going around for decades, Gong Li finally found his true love.
Gong Li found happiness, and nothing was happier than her mother and brother and sister-in-law, and now they finally breathed a sigh of relief.
Don't worry about Gong Li's marriage.
Now that Gong Li is happily married and has a successful career, she has no regrets except for not having children of her own.
However, Gong Li didn't dare to relax herself, because she still had to take care of her family and her 98-year-old mother.
Since her sister Gong Wen left, Gong Li has treated her sister's two children as her own and often gives financial and living assistance.
Most of the expenses for the two children to go to school and get married are borne by Gong Li, and in her opinion, all this should be done.
Gong Li is a very generous woman, she encouraged her brother-in-law to find her other half, and after her brother-in-law remarried, their family relationship was not broken.
Gong Li has also been helping her three elder brothers, and her brother and sister-in-law all have jobs, but their family conditions are very average, and they are not very rich.
Although there is a celebrity sister, my brother and sister-in-law have always been very low-key and never use my sister's fame to gain benefits.
There were reporters who wanted to interview them, but they were also refused.
In the eyes of her brother and sister-in-law, her sister's achievements today are due to her own efforts, and the only thing she can do as a family member is support.
Gong Li sees the efforts of her brother and sister-in-law, she knows that when she fights for her career, it is her brother and sister-in-law who are taking care of her mother.
This made her have no worries.
Therefore, Gong Li tried her best not to hurt her brother and sister-in-law's self-esteem, and weaved various reasons to provide them with financial assistance.
Whenever my brother and sister-in-law didn't want to go, Gong Li replied in one sentence: "We are all a family, don't be polite to me." ”
After many times, my brother and sister-in-law accepted Gong Li's kindness.
Several children are sensible, filial, and have a happy family, the family is happy, and Zhao Ying is the happiest in his later years.
Although her husband and eldest daughter died one after another, she suffered the pain of losing her relatives, and she was heartbroken for her youngest daughter Gong Li's feelings.
But fortunately, everything is fine.
In her later years, she had three sons, three caring daughters-in-law, and a filial and successful daughter to give her filial piety, Zhao Ying was blessed.