Blessed do not need to be busy or unblessed, and being able to spend a smooth career, family harmony, and filial piety of children in life is the concrete embodiment of good fortune. On the contrary, if life is rough and unsmooth, always encountering twists and turns, no job to settle, and marriage is not satisfactory, then this is a blessing that has not arrived.
Why is it that the gap between the rich and the poor is so large, but the good fortune cannot be evenly distributed?Buddhism has a saying that cause and effect lead to three lives, and if you want to know the cause of the past life, you will receive things in this lifeIf you want to know the consequences of the future, this is a matter of this life. It can be seen from this that good fortune is obtained by one's own cultivation, not by heaven.
It is also said in the Book of Changes that the house of goodness must have afterglow. If we understand the cause and effect of good fortune, it is no longer difficult to accumulate good deeds. Plant good causes, and after a long period of accumulation, your fate will naturally change.
Filial piety to one's parents is the first great blessing field for accumulating good fortune, and its good fortune is as good as the merit of offering to the Buddha.
Of course, young people are under a lot of pressure at work, and the question of sending their parents to nursing homes for good fortune has been raised. For thousands of years, the Chinese nation has admired filial piety, and the eaves are dripping, which means that everyone should consciously achieve filial piety. However, the problem now is that it is difficult to balance parents and children due to their busy schedules and tight schedules. If there are many siblings, parents will need to take care of each other.
Faced with such a situation, the first thing to do is to reflect on how you really want your family to beWhat kind of future do you want your child to have?Undoubtedly, most people would answer yes. If you want your family to be happy and your children to be excellent, then please stop complaining.
As brothers and sisters, we should not worry about whose filial piety is the case, because if this is the case, the good fortune will run to whose house. The elderly are like the cash cow at home, they are like the roots of a big tree, only when the roots are watered well, can the branches flourish. This is the law of cause and effect. However, many people are stupid, and there is a god of wealth in the family, but instead of filial piety to their parents, they go to the gods and worship the Buddha every day.
In fact, as long as you take good care of your parents, children will naturally be smart and smart, because they can only flourish when they are rooted. Filial piety to parents does not necessarily need to burn incense far away, as the old saying goes, "Filial sons are filial, and filial children are the most valuable." "Nowadays, many people are doing a full moon, entertaining, celebrating birthdays, and holding banquets for their children, but they don't know that these are all detrimental to their children's good fortune and consume good fortune.
In ancient times, the old man often said, "Parents sit on the kang head and press the department store", this sentence has woken up many people. Because his career is not going well, he is calculated by the villain, all because he owes his parents. There is a cycle of cause and effect, who does the sky forgive?Everyone should understand the law of karma. Taking care of one's parents is to cultivate a blessed field, which is more conducive to accumulating merit than praying to God and worshipping Buddha. Parents are the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas in the family, and taking care of them can eliminate disasters and avoid difficulties for the family, increase good fortune, and bless children and grandchildren, and the good fortune cannot be calculated.
In practicing filial piety, we should be worthy of our ancestors and ancestors, and worthy of future generations. This is the key to opening the door to wealth and happiness in life. May the public do good deeds, pay attention to filial piety, refrain from all evil, be safe in the years, and practice all good. May everyone be happy. In a person's life, there is no one who has the deepest affection for himself than his parents. I hope that every parent is healthy and has a place to come in lifeWhen our parents leave us, there is only a way back in life. Therefore, no matter how much money you make, no matter how big an official you are, it is not as good as having your parents by your side.
They love their children selflessly and fearlessly, giving unreservedly and without regrets. However, as the lamb kneels and the crow feeds back, as sons of man, we should give more respect and care to our parents. However, the way we treat our parents is often disappointing, and some even want to send them to nursing homes. Honoring one's parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation.
However, in today's society, we can't just see the models of filial piety such as Wang Xiang lying on the ice to seek reason, traveling hundreds of miles to rice, and Emperor Wen of the Han Dynasty pouring his intestines into medicine. In many news reports, the lack of filial piety of many people is chilling. An old father wanted to see his son before he died, but the son only took a week's bereavement leave, impatiently urging his father to die early. What's more, some children even take the initiative to force their parents to death. An elderly man who was paralyzed in bed, at the end of the year, was deprived of water and food by his children, hoping to die before the year.
raising children to prevent old age", this sentence seems particularly ironic to some people. When did filial piety to parents become a burden for everyone?We are too busy with work as an excuse to support and honor our parents, so that once many elderly people lose the ability to work and take care of themselves, the situation will be very miserable. Some families choose to send their elderly to nursing homes in the hope that they will be cared for there. However, if you don't even have time to be filial to your parents, then even if your career is successful, you will be an unhappy person.
As the Jizo Sutra says, the greatest beneficiary of honoring one's parents is oneself, not one's parents. During a Q&A session at a traditional cultural exchange conference in 2019, a woman mentioned that her mother was unwell but had a good ability to take care of herself. Due to her busy schedule, she had to take care of her children and father, and her other siblings were not cared for, so she considered sending her mother to a nursing home with better conditions. To this, I asked, "Do you want your home to be well?".Do you want your child to have a good time?"If the answer is yes, then I tell you, if you can take on the responsibility of caring for your parents on your own, regardless of past suspicions, you should do the same, no matter how your siblings treat your parents.
I responsibly tell you that the blessings of your family will follow. Your brothers and sisters have only one father and one mother, and this is the old root of your family's cash cow. Whoever is filial to his parents will prosper. If you can take care of not only your mother, but also your in-laws, your child will be smart and worry-free. Your children will become virtuous and filial descendants.
In front of your children, you should treat the elderly with a pleasant face and provide them with good food and drink. Tell the child that he can't eat first, he must give it to his grandparents first, and he must give it to his grandparents first. Just imagine, today's old man is tomorrow's you. When you are old, your children will also let you eat first. In fact, many people now go outside to find teachers to teach their children Xi filial piety, but they don't know that the best teacher is actually themselves. Filial piety is the foundation of virtue, and a person of great filial piety must be a person of great virtue. And the mean tells us that people with great virtue will inevitably get corresponding social status, wealth, fame and longevity.
Filial piety is the key that opens the door to one's own happiness. Those who are filial to their parents are in a good situation and have a prosperous career. On the contrary, those who are not filial to their parents will not be in a good situation. People who don't understand filial piety are useless even if they ask God and worship Buddha. Because they don't understand that our parents are the Buddhas we should respect the most. In fact, parents are our first blessing. Planting a blessed field is like planting crops, and parents are like fertile fields. The kind of seed you sow in this field will reap the same kind of fruit. Therefore, there is a world of difference between the situation of those who honor their parents and those who do not understand filial piety. Therefore, we should always remember that our parents are the Buddhas we should respect the most.
Parents are here, and there is still a place to come in life;When your parents go, there is only one way back in life. There are thousands of people in the world, filial piety is the most precious, and filial piety is the most worthwhile.
The so-called "closer to home is more timid, I don't know what Yanbo River is", thousands of miles to burn incense, but also can not withstand the careful care of parents at home. Taking care of the elderly seems to be something we give them, but in fact, the elderly at home will also bring us many blessings. There are four most common types of good fortune.
The first kind of blessing is family harmony and filial piety. When the elderly are taken into their homes for support, the relationship between family members will become closer. An experienced elderly person can often help his children through many difficulties and make the family more harmonious.
The elderly play a pivotal role in the family, and their rich life experiences are the most valuable asset in the family. Spending time with the elderly can often give children a lot of valuable experience and wisdom.
The second type of blessing is the deepening of the relationship between husband and wife. The happiness index of your relationship largely determines the quality of your life and the level of focus on your career. If you are very filial to the elderly in the family and treat both parents with great respect, your wife will naturally like a responsible person like you and will do her best to take care of your parents.
At the same time, seeing that you praise your wife for her virtuousness, and that the atmosphere in which the two of you are satisfied with each other is the best conjugal relationship.
The third type of good fortune is that children can have good character. Every parent wants their children to become dragons and phoenixes, but how to educate their children is a difficult problem. Parents' behavior is the object of imitation by children, so parents should lead by example and teach their children how to behave.
The fourth type of good fortune is to be recognized by those around you. In ancient times, there was a system of selecting talents in the imperial court called "filial piety and honesty", and a filial and honest person could be recognized by the people around him, and he also had the opportunity to enter the court as an official. A filial person has a very good reputation and reputation, and he can often get the support and help of many people when he needs help in life.
Therefore, the most important thing to live in a lifetime is filial piety, and the most important thing to do is filial piety. Don't wait until you lose to know how to cherish, don't think they are clumsy, be a little more patient, a little more caring, and let them know that you are always there for them. Because my parents are here, there is still a place to come in life;When your parents go, there is only one way back in life.