Earlier I said in the article that I went to Japan once, it was to attend my classmate's wedding, and he is now living in Japan, and he is living a good life!In the blink of an eye, five years have passed, and he has two children, the eldest is four years old, and the younger is two years oldWhat surprised me was that his children basically didn't have to spend any money, and then I thought about my daughter who was five years old, and now she went to kindergarten for more than 30,000 a year, which really made me unbearable, and I couldn't help but feel that our children were raised by themselves, and the children in Japan were raised by the state!Today I would like to share with you the cost gap in raising a child!
Speaking of Japan, I believe that many people will have a sense of hostility, and this is an indelible memory of history!But in today's era of peace, we are more concerned about our own lives, and there is a lot to learn from Japan Xi relatively speaking!In recent years, many people from Japan have immigrated to Japan or are working in Japan!I heard my classmates say that there are many Chinese in Japan, about 1.8 million, of course, most of them go to work there, after all, the salary is much higher than in China!There are also many people who get married and have children over there, which is really cost-effective compared to China, and when you have a child, you will be given a subsidy of 42-600,000 yen (about 30,000 yuan)!So as long as you dare to give birth, it can be said that it is basically free, and the child can still "receive a salary" every month, which is a subsidy for the child!
My classmate is doing electronic products over there, with a monthly salary of more than 20,000 yuan, and a good life, he has two children, it can really be described as a child, the child basically has no expenses every month, and the white-collar worker is about 4,000 yuan a month, and the child is usually free when he is sick or something!If we really don't dare to think about these things, you must know that if we raise two children, the pressure is not something ordinary people can afford!Japan's child-raising policy is quite good, it can be said that before the age of 18 is equivalent to the state to help you raise, basically do not have to spend any money yourself, their birth, Xi, medical care are free, and you can also receive subsidies every month, the more children you receive, so the news many times can see that Japanese families with several children are normal, compared to us not to mention two children, one child is not daring to give birth, because it is really unaffordable!
If you raise a child in China, the cost from birth to college graduation is almost one million, what a huge number, but in Japan these money basically do not need to be spent, to be honest, I am quite envious, after all, for us, children are all we have, our children are raised by ourselves, and other people's children are raised by the state, this is a world of difference!Sometimes my classmates joke with me that you should come to Japan to marry a daughter-in-law and have more children!Moreover, Japanese education is different from ours, their children are very independent, very literate and capable, which is more meaningful than our pampering and test-oriented education!
In recent years, aging and declining birthrate are the problem of the global population, many countries are encouraging childbearing, have formulated some policies to raise children, such as Japan is relatively good, the full exemption of children for ordinary families is to reduce half of the pressure, the other half is the house!But why can't Japan's good policies change the declining birthrate?This is determined by the environment and culture in which people live, Japan is a developed country, and now Japan is saturated, and people have entered the era of low desire, so whether to have children or not is not important in many people's hearts, just like us, we dare not give birth because of pressure, they are not willing to give birth because they are Xi to the current lifestyle!
Many people say that the decline in newborns in Japan is serious, but you must know that the Japanese population is only 1200 million, they have a million newborns every year, and our 1.4 billion people have less than 10 million newborns, so you can know the high and low in comparison!Children are the future of the country, if no one in a country wants to have children, then the future can be imagined!Children are the treasure of parents, for a healthy family who does not want to have their own children, so that it can be considered a complete life, but the reality of the current many families is incomplete, do not want children for nothing more than three reasons:
The first is that both parents cannot have children due to physical reasons!
The second is the open-minded Dink family who doesn't want children or some asexuals!
The third is that the pressure of raising a child is too great, and I can't afford to give birth to it!
In addition to the above three reasons, I believe that any parent wants to have their own children, especially in our country with a traditional ideology, that is, "there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is the greatest"!But at present, there are many people who do not get married, do not have children, this phenomenon is becoming more and more serious, this is a social problem worth pondering, try to ask if we live well, who does not want to have children, have a few more children, so that the family can be happy, but the reality does not allow it!
I raise a child (girl) is not as good as my classmates raising two children in Japan, count my daughter is five years old, at least spend 200,000 yuan, but look at my classmates in addition to not spending money, people can also white-collar thousands of dollars every month, there is really no comparison, there is no harm!Although my country has now started some birth policies, it is a drop in the bucket compared to others, because the fundamental gap has not been solved!To put it mildly, if I am in Japan, then I must have a few more, anyway, someone will help me raise, but in the country I can't afford to give birth to one, how dare I have a second or third child, everyone is right?
Conclusion: I wonder how many children you have nowFeeling stressed?If you were given two thousand a month, would you be willing to give birth?