Children who enter the rebellious period often have conflicts with their parents due to some trivial things, parents should understand the children at this stage, and do not think that the children are disobedient because of the children's resistance. At this stage, children have their own considerations and ways of judging, and will no longer obey the discipline of their parents in everything, and parents should respect their children's choices and do not do everything.
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What should parents do when their children are in a rebellious period
1. Encourage and recognize children appropriately.
Children crave the approval of adults. Even if they're doing a job that you don't think is right. You might as well do the opposite, first approve of his ideas and practices, and then wait for him to calm down before expressing your opinion and saying what you think is the right thing to do. That is, the "delaying strategy", giving the child a certain moment of calm, and then recognizing and encouraging him, may receive a different effect.
2. Get to know your child.
Everyone comes from this age, so we should know enough that some of the behaviors of children in the rebellious period are due to the changes in the psychology of adolescence, which has caused them to have some changes. Don't think that these changes in children are an unreasonable work, we must know that this is the only way for children to grow, and it is also a process that everyone will experience. Only by understanding the child can we get into the child and better help the child overcome the problem of the rebellious period!
3. Don't blindly deny your child.
Don't blindly treat rebellious children with negative concepts and moods, in fact, sometimes the tougher the suppression, the more it will cause the child's rebellion. As long as it is not a violation of principles and major issues of right and wrong, parents can make appropriate concessions, but the condition is that the communication and communication with their children should be done at the same time, so that children can understand their parents' intentions and let their parents understand that their parents support them.
4. Understand and respect.
Mom and dad should respect their children at all times. Some parents will think that they are parents and their children should respect themselves, but they don't realize that their children also need respect. Especially when children reach adolescence, their self-esteem becomes intense, they have their own ideas, they want to be respected, they don't like to be ignored, and they don't want to be treated as children all the time.
What are the manifestations of the child during the rebellious period?
1. Love to shirk responsibility.
Children will often make mistakes in the rebellious period, and after the child makes a mistake, he will not admit his mistakes, even if he is caught by his parents, but the child will still find some reasons to excuse himself, the child becomes fond of shirking responsibility, and does not want to bear the consequences for his mistakes, and parents will be more angry when they see their children's behavior, and they will not be able to educate their children calmly, resulting in children becoming more rebellious and entering a dead loop.
2. I hate that Mom and Dad talk too much.
Moms and dads should know that the rebellious children themselves are relatively weak in emotional control, and if mom and dad always like to talk too much around their children, in their opinion, this is a sign of distrust. They think that they are now grown up and can make good arrangements for their own time and work. They will feel very irritable about their parents' advice, and even have a fierce resistance mood.