Some people are always able to find their way out of difficult situations.
They may not be geniuses, but they always have a determined spirit of not giving up on chasing their dreams.
Even, perseverance and courage can often achieve oneself and open a new chapter in life.
Xiao Dongpo is a person who has dreams and struggles constantly.
Although his life was not all smooth sailing, he made his life colorful and meaningful with his own efforts.
What is Xiao Dongpo's firm belief that makes him not give up chasing his dreams even after encountering setbacks?
How did he get out of the shadow of a failed marriage and move towards the happy life he is now?
Xiao Dongpo was born in 1969, although he was born in Shandong, he has lived with his grandmother in Harbin since he was a child.
Xiao Dongpo may have been influenced by the enthusiastic and optimistic personality of Northeast people, so he has been very lively and cheerful since he was a child.
Grandma is a famous "matchmaker", coupled with her help, he has had extensive contact since he was a child and learned to communicate with people vividly.
Although Xiao Dongpo is naughty, his academic Xi grades have always been good when he grows up.
At the suggestion of his family, he decided to study architecture with a promising future.
Xiao Dongpo didn't like his current job after graduation, he was eager to work in something more interesting and be able to make the most of his language talent.
By chance, Xiao Dongpo was able to join the job of Shandong Jiaotong Hospital.
Although this job is a stable job within the system, Xiao Dongpo has lost interest in it.
In 1994, when Xiao Dongpo learned that Shandong TV was recruiting hosts for the society, he did not hesitate to ask for leave to participate in the interview.
He originally just planned to give it a try, but he didn't expect to successfully pass the interview of Shandong Station and be hired!
After Xiao Dongpo entered Shandong TV, he hosted many programs, and at the same time studied part-time Xi producer, choreographer and other positions.
In the past 10 years, Xiao Dongpo has experienced rapid growth and accumulated rich experience in program production and hosting.
He is particularly familiar with programs with rural themes, as if he is a fish in water.
In 2003, he joined CCTV, which laid a solid foundation for his development in this field.
In 2003, ** TV Station No. 7 was looking for a host who could master rural themes and have the ability to go deep into rural interview materials.
When Xiao Dongpo learned the news, he was overjoyed.
He understands that this is a rare opportunity and must be seized!Although he is about to leave his hometown where he has worked in Shandong for many years, Xiao Dongpo knows what it means for a host to enter CCTV.
For him, Shandong Tai is like a warm mother, providing the soil he needs to grow;And CCTV is a window to a wider world.
This will provide Xiao Dongpo with a broader stage for him to realize his ambitions.
As an individual with extraordinary ambitions, Xiao Dongpo resolutely made this choice.
His wife strongly opposed this, believing that Xiao Dongpo was doing well in Shandong and did not need to go to Beijing to develop. This led to a serious rift between the two.
Xiao Dongpo felt in his heart that his wife was a civil servant and lived a comfortable and accustomed life, how could he understand the importance of CCTV to a host?
This is a rare opportunity, be sure to go to Beijing!
Xiao Dongpo decided to go for an interview first, but was unexpectedly hired by CCTV and became the host.
The wife insisted on not wanting to go north, which led to the separation of the two places and the relationship gradually drifted apart.
Because he was busy with his career, Xiao Dongpo couldn't take care of his family, until the two finally divorced in 2007.
Despite the regrets, Xiao Dongpo was not discouraged.
At CCTV, he worked diligently and hosted the "Township Covenant" with great success, so he was known as "China's No. 1 Farmer Friend".
Xiao Dongpo also reflected on his unhappy marriage, eager to find new love and build a happy family.
He still has expectations for a relationship.
The reason for the breakdown of the marriage was that his first wife objected to him going to work at CCTV in Beijing.
In 1997, 28-year-old Xiao Dongpo was introduced by a friend and met a girl known as the "school flower" of Shandong Normal University at a party.
Xiao Dongpo immediately pursued it after falling in love at first sight, and he impressed the other party with his humor and career success.
A year later, they successfully entered the palace of marriage and ushered in the birth of their daughter Xiaoqian.
Xiao Dongpo had a successful career at that time and was full of charm.
His friends also jokingly called him "flowers on cow dung" because he was very happy that he had found such a gentle and virtuous wife.
Until Xiao Dongpo decided to go to Beijing for development, the husband and wife also lived a sweet and warm life.
The wife felt very rational, she thought that she had a good job in Shandong, and Xiao Dongpo was also doing well, so there was no need to go north to work hard.
She worries that her husband will neglect his family when he goes to Beijing, and at the same time she is unwilling to give up her career for it.
The two eventually had to choose a divorce because of serious differences.
After Xiao Dongpo divorced, he devoted himself to his work.
In CCTV, he became famous in one fell swoop, thanks to the great success of the "Township Covenant" he hosted.
However, what he didn't expect was that just when his career was at its peak, his wife chose to leave.
After a long time of struggle and waiting, in the end, only one was empty.
Xiao Dongpo had to admit that even if his career was successful, losing the support and love of his family made him feel a little empty and lonely.
In his spare time outside of work, Xiao Dongpo will call his ex-wife from time to time, hoping to restore the relationship between the two.
He admitted his mistake to his ex-wife and expressed his sincere desire to be together again.
The ex-wife has long been heartbroken, mercilessly scolding him for "deserving" and being cold and ruthless to him.
Only then did I realize that I had paid too much for this, but I had lost the most important thing.
This became a huge regret in his life.
Fortunately, those who work hard will eventually be favored by fate.
Just when Xiao Dongpo was deeply caught in the double blow of emotion and marriage, and his life and mood were at their lowest point, he met another woman, Zhu Yanxia.
Maybe what Xiao Dongpo has experienced, this is the comfort that God has given him.
His second wife got married to him within 55 days, and her understanding and support helped him develop his career.
After the divorce in 2007, Xiao Dongpo began to introduce blind dates through friends, hoping to find a suitable other half.
At a social event, he met Zhu Yanxia, a businesswoman from other places.
The two hit it off at first sight, had a heart-to-heart connection, and soon fell in love.
Zhu Yanxia is different from her ex-wife, she does not have a fixed job, she is a person who drifted from the north and also works hard here.
She deeply realized the hardships of Xiao Dongpo's career, and it was precisely because of this experience.
The two have similar personalities, and Zhu Yanxia soon agreed to marry Xiao Dongpo.
Zhu Yanxia's performance after marriage is more considerate than that of her ex-wife.
She gladly accepted everything about Xiao Dongpo, even his daughter Xiaoqian.
Zhu Yanxia took on the heavy responsibility of the family and let Xiao Dongpo work with peace of mind.
Despite his busy schedule, Xiao Dongpo has learned his lesson and arranges time to spend with his family every week.
Under Zhu Yanxia's careful care, Xiao Dongpo's career flourished.
He made a name for himself in the industry, as his host of "Happy and Happy" also became a ratings hit.
In daily life, Zhu Yanxia also welcomed their second daughter, which made the family of four more warm and happy.
Now, they have gone through more than 10 years of ups and downs together, and their relationship is even stronger and deeper.
Xiao Dongpo felt that Zhu Yanxia's appearance was like a beam of light projected into the trough of his life.
Xiao Dongpo was greatly hurt by the departure of his ex-wife, and once doubted whether he could still usher in a happy marriage.
Without Zhu Yanxia's unreserved support, Xiao Dongpo might not be sure how long he would be able to hold out.
Nowadays, with a balance between career and family, it is an enviable happy life.
52-year-old Xiao Dongpo is still active on the screen, serving as the host of a blind date show.
He is already a high-profile figure in this circle and is known as the "first matchmaker".
Xiao Dongpo lives happily with his second wife and two daughters in private.
Although he went through the twists and turns of two marriages, he eventually found true love.
Although Xiao Dongpo's life was not smooth, he made it colorful with his own efforts.
Despite the double blow he suffered both professionally and emotionally, he persevered and eventually got to where he is now.