When your husband no longer takes the initiative to talk to you, you may feel troubled and upset. This situation may mean that he is no longer as interested in you or has something to say about as he used to. However, dealing with the situation requires patience and understanding rather than an immediate reaction.
First of all, you can try to take the initiative to communicate with your hubby. Express to him that you are feeling upset and troubled and ask him if there is anything upset or problems that need to be addressed. Sometimes, he may need some time to think and process his emotions. Give him some space and time and give him the opportunity to handle the situation on his own.
If proactive communication doesn't work, you can try to change your attitude. Don't take his silence and inactivity as directed at you personally, maybe he is facing some stress or distress. In this case, you can try to face him with a positive attitude, such as giving him some support and encouragement to make him feel that you care and support.
Alternatively, you can try to change the way you interact with each other. For example, you can offer to do something he enjoys together or participate in some fun activities together. This will increase the interaction and communication between you and will also help to ease the tension.
Finally, if none of the above works, you may consider seeking professional help. A marriage counselor or psychologist can provide more specific advice and guidance to help you resolve communication issues and restore mutual understanding and trust.
In short, dealing with situations where your husband doesn't take the initiative to chat with you requires patience and understanding. By proactively communicating, changing your attitudes, changing the way you interact, or seeking professional help, you can help you improve your communication and restore contact with each other.