Originally, it was time for the deceased to rest in peace. But I saw a couple of questions like this:
is to the effect that Zhou Haimei, as an actor, is not worthy of mourning like this, which is beyond the standard.
Let's talk calmly and talk about two small things first:
I have a friend's child who attends elementary school abroad, and recently the whole school celebrated Taylor Swift's birthday. The school cafeteria was unashamedly decorated for Taylor, a female singer, and the children were happy to share birthday cakes and sing her songs together.
According to the logic of this person, with this kind of work, why don't you mourn Kissinger?
In Japan next door, last year, the whole people mourned a monk Mochizuki Chongying. This monk is a dervishes, he doesn't have any administrative level, and he doesn't live in a famous mountain and a big temple, and he is not a royal brother.
Their nonsensical and indiscriminate distinction does not affect their scientific research and winning Nobel Prizes.
Our problem may not be that there are too many people laughing and laughing, but that there are too many people who love to hold the banner at every turn and make normal things abnormal.
This friend is worried that if this is done, the dead actor will be commemorated, and it will be messed up, and he will post obituaries every day. (The original word is "supplementary notice", but the original intention is that it should be an obituary.) ）
Why commemorate an actor?The answer is simple, I'm willing. I'm willing, he's willing, everybody is willing, and the more people are willing, the more people will seem.
For some people, the three words "I am willing" are difficult to accept, and even poisonous snakes and beasts are disapproved by the world. How can I be "willing"?You have to be willing to organize, superiors to be willing, documents to be willing, and others to be willing for you, so that you can be happy.
In fact, in modern society, the word "I will" is precious, and it means: you can choose who you remember.
We are an affirmative society today, not a privileged society. A privileged society is a society in which everything talks about level and arrangement, and we have also had it in the past history, what level can borrow books, what level can watch movies, what level can eat what kind of food, what level can marry a wife. It's not extinct now, to sing KTV, it's all in strict accordance with the size of the official position, and the official is sung first;In the running competition, the county party secretary was the first and the county magistrate was second;To play basketball, Boss Xu must win the scoring title.
Even at the extreme, even the order of escape and the order of the disaster must be talked about and the arrangements must be heard. Haven't you had enough of all this?Why are you still addicted?
In the matter of mourning whom, let everyone choose, let everyone choose one that is pleasing to the eye, cute-looking, has filled the gap of their youth, enriched their youth, and given them feelings about love and growth, isn't it, everyone is dead, what's not to do?
When Yao Beina died, I wrote an article called "We mourn Cheng Lingsu, and we always mourn more than Wang Chongyang." We mourn Yue Lingshan, always more than mourningWe mourn Azhu more than we mourn Abbot Xuanci;We mourn Ji Xiaofu more than Master Jueyuan. Even the pain brought to us by the little sister Guo Xiang's lifelong loneliness surpassed the death of Hong Qigong on Huashan;Even the sourness brought to us by Huo Qingtong's non-people exceeded Chen Jialuo's ambition.
If a person runs out and says that her mother Cheng Lingsu is dead, you cry, how can you not cry if the poison medicine king contributes more to society. Are you stupid or not?Believe it or not, even if it is placed in the Tang Dynasty, Li Guinian died, and there will be more people mourning him than mourning Li Qi, the king of Qi. Do you know who Li Qi is?The upright king has also put down the rebellion.
Some people always feel that the country has to rate everyone a "contribution value", and the big contribution value will be mourned first. How to evaluate the contribution value?What has Lin Daiyu contributed to the society, is it to kill the enemy or pity the poor and old, in "Dream of Red Mansions", is Lin Daiyu more tear-jerking, or is Prince Yizhong more tear-jerking?Why did Cao Xueqin write "Dream of Red Mansions" instead of "Yizhong Soul", why did she cry Xiaoxiang Pavilion, instead of crying the coffin board of Prince Yizhong's old thousand-year-old.
If you feel that any important person has been ignored and has not been duly commemorated, whether it is a scientist or any other family, then what you should do is to tell more of his story and discover his deeds, instead of deliberately running to others to engage in confrontation and go to the Xiaoxiang Pavilion.
Many prejudices like to use scientists as a shield, as if they care more about scientists. IMHO, what a lot of people really care about is just scientists who feel like they can give them a long face.
Who are the people who invented vaccinia, the people who invented the nuclear magnetic resonance, and the people who invented the HPV vaccine, and these people who benefit all the people, do they really care?
I like to say "I am Great China", of course, it is very good, but I am Great China, and I am a living person with emotions.