Home is the backing of warmth
It is a haven for the tired mind
It is the foundation of social harmony
The Anti-Domestic Violence Law of the People's Republic of China clearly stipulates that domestic violence is an illegal and criminal act, and the state prohibits any form of domestic violence.
In order to promote family harmony and social stability, Yiwu "Family Affairs and Sisters" Studio has long been committed to helping victims of domestic violence protect their legitimate rights and interests and enhance the public's awareness of anti-domestic violence. Recently, the studio received a request for help from a young woman, saying that she had been abused by the family, and usually people's first reaction was: "Was it beaten by her husband?".When I heard the lady accuse herself of being abused by her mother, it was embarrassing.
The lady told us that she has lived under the control of her mother for a long time, and her mother has decided at any time since she was a child, and she cannot have the idea of disobeying herUnder the mother's verbal violence and mental torture, he has suffered from depression + mania, but his mother turned a blind eye, and last year his mother introduced an object to himself, "Originally, I didn't like it, and I was persuaded by my mother to be together, and then I slowly had feelings and wanted to settle down, so I proposed marriage to my parents, but my mother firmly disagreed, and thought that I was drugged by the other party, saying that I was upside down, undignified, and cheap, and if I wanted to get married, I would die with us!."I feel like I'm on the verge of collapse. After listening to her words, we were deeply sympathetic and immediately contacted her mother to mediate for both parties. In later mediation work, we found that the mother has a very typical borderline personality disorder (BPD), which is very prone to mental violence against others, and often has very serious consequences!
What are the manifestations of borderline personality disorder (BPD?).
Patients with borderline type behave normally in their interactions with other people, especially in a work environment, and are confident and organized. But in intimate relationships, she is nervous and incapacitated, even capricious. There will be sudden shifts in emotions, self-destructive behavior, distortions due to paranoia, and compulsive repetitive thoughts.
People with borderline have a distorted perception of reality and create their own real world, a world that is difficult for others to identify with. No matter how absurd, uninhibited, and borderline people may punish their children or partners for expressing autonomous opinions, beliefs, and feelings.
People with borderline may behave in exaggerated or hysterical behavior, use denigration of their children or partner as a form of instruction, and believe that they have absolute control over their children and make them follow their wishes, and if the other person does not obey, they will have a severe sense of abandonment. In addition, borderline patients experience anxiety, insecurity, extreme sensitivity to criticism, and so on.
Family affairs and sister's "righteousness" heart for her
Finally, remember that when the situation has developed beyond the scope of your own handling, first protect your personal safety and seek help from the people around you and the relevant departments in time, you are not alone!
* |Yiwu women.
Edit |Bao Jiahui.
First instance |Chen Bo.
Second instance |Chen Yao.
Final Judgment |Song Lixia.