"If you don't have love in junior high school, you don't need to worry too much, it's just a group of naïve children."
The gap between people is indeed very large, and the most obvious is in the junior high school stage. At that time, the students showed their truest side, and the parents were concerned about different things.
Some students behave like high school students in junior high school, while others act like elementary school students. This refers not to academic Xi grades, but to the student's "emotional maturity." Some teachers say that whether or not students have "emotional maturity" in junior high school determines whether they have entered adolescence, whether their thoughts are stuck in elementary school, or whether they have already entered adolescence. This mainly refers to boys, who usually mature early, while boys have a relatively late "emotional maturity".
A junior high school teacher shared her observation that the performance of her classmates at school perfectly illustrates the difference between "emotional maturity" and immaturity.
In the class, there is a girl in the first year of junior high school who has liked the boy in the same class for 4 years and pursues success. The two were called to the office in the first year of junior high school because of their early love.
Boys with "emotional maturity" are worried that the teacher is looking for their parents, thinking that the teacher's understanding of love may not be accurate. But the boys whose "emotional maturity" is not enlightened, seven or eight get together to catch snails on the playground.
On one side, the two of them stood together, and on the other side, they carefully held a plastic box to catch snails. The teacher also mentioned that some boys were misunderstood for early love because of scandals.
At this time, the behavior of the unenlightened boy is completely different from the real relationship. They are not worried about being known by their parents, nor are they worried about the girls who spread the scandal, but they are so angry that the macho man cried, which was completely the tears of grievance after being wronged.
Emotional maturity" enlightened boys will secretly tidy up their bangs, for fear of a bad image. And the unenlightened boy will desperately hide the small water gun, for fear of being discovered by the teacher.
Some boys are looking for horns to go on a date, and some boys are smiling like little fools with their faces facing the sun on the wall. Or chase and fight, and be caught by the teaching director, and can't understand the bitterness of love at all.
At this time, the unenlightened students do not understand many things. We can't understand them with the thinking of adults, and the world of children is sometimes a fixed pattern of simplicity.
Some teachers said that she had been a homeroom teacher in the fifth grade. When the boy saw her with her partner, he couldn't understand why the girl and the boy became friends. When the girl saw the teacher dressed up beautifully, her first reaction was to go out and seduce someone.
It is also obvious whether he has "emotional maturity" in junior high school. For example, usually everyone plays together, and those who are already "emotionally mature" may have secretly dated, but those who are not "emotionally mature" will only think, what's the matter with the two of you, why don't you take me to play?
Thinking about things is completely different, just like some boys think about how to make their girlfriends happy, while some boys think about how to run to the supermarket as quickly as possible after class and grab the bursting barbecued sausage.
Although the grilled sausages are really delicious, the two are completely different worlds. Although they are in the same class and the same dormitory, the things in their minds are very different.
If there are parents whose children are late to enlightenment, there is no need to worry too much about it. These children may be the kind of children who simply don't understand what puppy love is, because their thinking is relatively simple.
Even if they are outstanding-looking and are pursued, their first reaction is not to fall in love, but may be worried that it will affect their Xi. These children are usually typical good children, who teach whatever the teacher wants, and there are no other superfluous ideas.
By the time these children react, they may already be in college. If you don't believe it, you can see if there are people around you who still think that falling in love will only affect their Xi when they are in college, and the goal is to study hard and Xi and go to graduate school.
Author's message: The students' love and enlightenment time are different, and there is no good or bad, they are all part of youth. Some students' youth is pain literature, while others' youth is like a fairy tale.
Parents may need more attention if they are enlightened early. Puppy love in students is wonderful, but it can also be complicated. In the process, it's easy to get students' minds off track, which can lead to depression or loss of interest in their studies.
At this time, parents need to clearly tell their children what is most important. But in the process of communication, don't show intense emotions. If you adopt a confrontational attitude, you may instead push two people together.
Precocious students need more parental care and guidance, especially in secondary school. Parents can pay more attention to the situation of their students at school, communicate more with teachers, and understand each other's needs.
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