When we were children, our parents often took us to visit the homes of relatives and friends, and we knew some etiquette for dealing with people. Now that we have grown up, we rarely go to our friends' houses as guests, and we rarely invite friends to our homes. Even during the Chinese New Year, the juniors don't communicate much together, and sometimes they don't even say hello to the elders. Wrong**?Why has there been such a big change in just twenty years?
There are always good reasons, life is too tiring, and I want to rest more;Too little time;The home is so big, it is difficult for a few more people to turn around;After enumerating it, the reasons are indeed sufficient. The favor will slowly fade. If the favor is weakened, it will have a great impact on the child. Without this environment, it is impossible to subtly learn how to treat people Xi under the influence of ears and eyes. Their behavior becomes more "independent", but when they grow up, work requires teamwork, and the two are completely opposite.
This responsibility is not on the children, but on us. Home, interaction is the subject. But we have turned our home into a place of personal rest. There is less interaction between family members, let alone communication between friends. How can such an environment train children to be in good faith?
Home is first and foremost an interactive space, and with interaction, we can work together and become a whole. Home design should be based on the core concept of interaction. The main space embodies the interactive function, which is large and transparent, which can constitute a large communication salon or form multiple small gatherings freely.
The home is followed by a resting space. Rest, i.e., sleep, is static and takes up a limited amount of time. The space should be as small as possible, and the bedroom space should be used extremely much to give more space to interaction.
Tea and wine are full of seven points, these etiquettes are useless, and more practice will be. It's always true that the environment makes people!