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Many people feel that the biggest tragedy in love is "he doesn't love me".
But in fact, the most regrettable and sad thing in love is not that the love given is not reciprocated, but that two people who clearly love each other can't be together by accident.
It is a blessing to meet the right person at the right time. But if you meet the right person at the wrong time, it can only be a sigh.
If a man and a woman are in love together, but each has a family, remember these 3 points, and they will be happy.
01: Responsibility is more important than love
Love is beautiful, but love also needs to shoulder responsibility. If you really love someone, you have a responsibility to make the other person better, not to put him in criticism and pain.
When you already have a family, but you are in love with someone else, whether it is your partner or your lover, you are failing your responsibilities.
For your partner, you have violated your duty of marital fidelity and failed in your responsibilities to the family.
For your lover, you did not control your feelings, let this love that should not happen, put him in the position of a third party, and did not fulfill your responsibility to love him.
It is in the nature of a person to be responsible. If your lover is not responsible and he will fail in the marriage, then even if he chooses to be with you now, he is likely to betray again.
Love without responsibility is like a mirror, it only takes a small pebble and it will be broken immediately.
02: Momentary passion is not true love
Love comes in many ways, and there are many disguises. Sometimes we can't tell what true love is.
The trivialities of firewood, rice, oil, salt, and salt in marriage will consume our enthusiasm. You find that the passionate and romantic boy before the marriage has become a philistine shrewd uncle, and the fresh and refined girl has become a calculating woman.
You feel that this is no longer what you love each other, and that your marriage is no longer loveless. At this time, you meet that different person outside the siege of marriage, and you think this is true love.
But you may have forgotten that your passion at the moment is what you have in your partner. You were also once an enviable fairy couple, but the appearance of love was covered up in the fireworks of life.
Don't mistake a momentary passion for love, the passion will fade, but the person who is waiting for you to come home at home is your eternal harbor.
03: Adults are responsible for their own choices
Although we all know that love with each family is immoral, there will always be some people who value love above all else. They would rather betray their family than choose to be with their lovers.
For such a choice, we can only say that the choice of the individual is respected. But adults must learn to be responsible for their own choices.
If you choose to betray your family and marriage, then it is not only the verbal criticism in the social network, the blame and spurning of your relatives and friends, but also the more realistic price you should pay in the matter of property.
These are the things you have to face, because you have chosen this path yourself.
Even if you are willing to pay these costs, is your lover willing to pay such a big price to be with you?
It is inevitable that there will be friction between two people, and once there is friction, will you think about the price you paid for each other, and will you regret such a choice?
There are so many hidden dangers and unstable factors in a relationship, can your "love" really be strong and long-lasting?
Love is beautiful, but no matter how beautiful immoral love is, it is an illusion and cannot be blessed.
I hope that everyone can manage their own hearts, nip the feelings that should not happen in the bud in time, and protect their families and the person who is truly worthy of love.
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