Have you ever heard of someone who "borrows" someone else's wife to get a marriage license?
Xu Peidong once did a very strange thing.
Xu Peidong, who was once known as the "Gold Medal Producer" and the "Godfather of Chinese Music", has created many classic works of stars. However, on the road to pursuing true love, he has also experienced twists and turns.
One day, in the early 80s of the last century, the young composer Xu Peidong proposed to his long-cherished girlfriend, but the girlfriend failed to make it back to Dalian in time to attend their wedding.
In an urgent situation, Xu Peidong came up with a bold and unusual idea: borrowing the wife of a comrade-in-arms to "cheat" the marriage certificate!
What is the story behind this special marriage?
How did they survive more than 40 years of ups and downs together and become an enviable model couple?
Xu Peidong showed an unusual love for **.
When he was in elementary school, Xu Peidong was praised as "** genius" by his teachers and classmates.
Some of his classmates were well-off enough to receive formal training in musical instruments, but their parents did not allow him to learn Xi because of their poor family background.
In order to chase his dream, Xu Peidong resolutely decided to launch to the south despite being a northerner. He began to think for himself.
Due to his inability to adapt to the local climate, many pimples appeared on his **, which made him feel very itchy and even pus.
Although Xu Peidong did not complain, he still insisted on participating in training and work.
Xu Peidong once applied a hot towel to the prickly heat on his face, which resulted in suppuration and pus. The leader saw that he did not complain too much and still worked normally the next day, and was deeply impressed by his hard-working quality.
The weather also prompted Xu Peidong to decide to leave the south.
After graduation, Xu Peidong returned to Beijing and participated in the rehearsal of the large-scale musical "Baolian Lantern". During this time, he noticed Cui Jing, an elegant female performer at the Cabaret Theater.
They gradually went from being colleagues who performed together in a musical and dance theater to being good friends who knew each other.
At first, Cui Jing was apprehensive about Xu Peidong's confession, because she was worried that the long-distance relationship would not last long.
In the end, Xu Peidong's sincere confession "I will regret it" moved him.
Finally, these two handsome guys and beauties in the ** world came together, and the interesting things that happened when Xu Peidong received the certificate were really shocking.
Many couples seem to find that in the seventies and eighties of the last century, time and space became the biggest obstacle between them.
Xu Peidong and his lover Cui Jing both have strong beliefs, and they did not back down because of this, but overcame many difficulties with their ingenuity and finally succeeded in coming together.
When the art troupe was studying, Xu Peidong was at that time.
Once, while listening to the performance of the Chinese soprano Guo Lanying, he noticed a beautiful girl playing the accordion on the side.
Cui Jing is one of the main members of the team.
Xu Peidong has developed a deep affection for this talented girl, but he also knows that the gap between them is a problem.
Although he believes that their relationship will not be affected by returning to Fuzhou, Cui Jing has a different opinion.
Xu Peidong did not give up because of this, but persevered in his efforts to win Cui Jing's heart.
Subsequently, the team prepared a large-scale dance repertoire performance, and Xu Peidong served as the chief director.
Since Cui Jing is an important member of the folk band, this collaboration provides them with more opportunities to communicate.
During this time, they began a long-distance love affair across time and space, constantly exchanging letters with each other, sharing the joys and sorrows of each other's daily lives.
Until one day, Cui Jing received an invitation to perform in Dalian, and they discussed getting married there, and then moved their hukou to Dalian.
However, it was not easy to put this idea into practice, because someone had to go to Fuzhou in person, and the hukou had to be taken into account.
Some friends suggested that they could consider using ** person to get a marriage certificate, perhaps so that it would not be easy to be found during the review.
Xu Peidong only hesitated for a moment, and then decided to seek the help of his comrades and find a young woman to assist him in completing the task.
They are lucky because the same-sex couple is willing to help them, convinced that true love can conquer everything.
Because of this, Xu Peidong was able to successfully marry his wife.
A few years later, Xu Peidong was transferred to another job, and since then he has been traveling back and forth between Beijing and Shanghai.
During this time, they welcomed a new member and named him Xu Sing.
Cui Jing's body is gradually**, which allows her to spend more time with her husband and children.
Although there were many setbacks, this did not have any negative impact on Xu Peidong and Cui Jing. On the contrary, they cherish every moment with each other even more, slowly moving towards eternity.
They have now achieved more on the stage and worked hard together for their families.
The experience was full of frustrations and hardships, but it gave them a glimpse of what it means to be truly "once in a lifetime".
Although the road is rough, Xu Peidong and Cui Jing find their own love in an extraordinary way.
In that era, the story of Xu Peidong and Cui Jing was like a real and moving movie, showing us the beauty of human nature and daring to face various challenges.
As long as sincerity and enthusiasm exist, things will move in a better direction, regardless of time and place.
In addition, Xu Peidong also played a breathtaking role as a "matchmaker" ......
After the death of his mother-in-law, his father-in-law was alone and his life was overshadowed.
Xu Peidong and his wife Cui Jing deeply felt sorry for their father-in-law's loneliness, and they offered to help find a new partner who could accompany their father-in-law.
It happened that his aunt was also alone, so Xu Peidong matched the two together.
Under Xu Peidong's careful planning, the father-in-law and aunt gradually developed a relationship.
He often takes his father-in-law out for a walk, while Cui Jing concentrates on taking care of his aunt's emotions.
Gradually, the father-in-law and sister-in-law fell in love with each other and decided to spend the rest of their lives together.
Xu Peidong is very pleased with this, because he feels that his efforts have been duly rewarded.
A couple of newcomers found mutual support, which made Xu Peidong finally breathe a sigh of relief.
He often brought his wife home to visit the two elderly people, and his father-in-law treated him as his own.
The marriage of the father-in-law and the aunt made the family atmosphere more harmonious, and the two would cook together, stroll and chat, and share the moments of life with each other.
Xu Peidong and his wife Cui Jing were deeply happy because they saw the two old men so affectionate.
In addition, Xu Peidong also extended this love to his parents.
Xu Peidong knows that the elderly need care and companionship, so he decided to bring his parents into his home to live with him to show his care and respect for them.
In 2012, Xu Peidong bought two houses in Beijing, one for his parents and the other for his younger siblings, so that they could take care of each other in the same community.
Xu Peidong also sends money home regularly, and uses his free time to return to Dalian to visit his parents.
This method has proven to be extremely effective, and the elderly have been able to live happily ever after, and Xu Peidong has been able to devote himself to filial piety.
While Xu Peidong took care of his family relationship, he never neglected his work.
He has made brilliant achievements in the field, and his works such as "Asian Heroes", "Hot Girls" and "Love My China" have become the precious wealth of Chinese.
Xu Peidong plays a loving father in the family role, he attaches great importance to his daughter's growth, and actively encourages her to continue to move forward in the field.
His ** talent was inherited by his daughter Xu Sing, and she became an excellent singer.
For the sake of his studies, Xu Sing chose to temporarily put down his ** career and go abroad to study.
She chose to work as a teacher at the university to pass on what she had learned to more people, based on the education she received after returning to China.
Although she did not get ahead like her father in the ** world, she received Xu Peidong's understanding and support, which is an affirmation of her choice.
Xu Peidong, 69, and his wife, Cui Jing, have been working together for more than 40 years.
Through his deep love for his wife and daughter, his career success, his filial piety to his parents, and his careful care of his father-in-law and aunt, Xu Peidong has practiced the true meaning of being a "perfect man".
His family was harmonious and warm, as if it was overflowing with tenderness.
Now in his twilight years, Xu Peidong's greatest wish is to be able to accompany his wife through the rest of his life and share the joy of family life with the whole family.
In 1984, Xu Peidong was transferred to Beijing to reunite with his wife after being discharged from the army.
Cui Jing, who was pregnant, and her husband were looking forward to a reunion for a long time, which made their lives glow with unprecedented colors.
The little princess Xu Sing soon came into this world, and the family of three spent a short but warm time together.
Xu Sing showed a gentle and intelligent temperament after he was born, and he became interested in ** at the age of three, and often played simple tunes with his mother in front of the piano.
When Xu Sing was 4 years old, her parents specially produced and released a personal ** for her, which included many songs suitable for children to sing, many of which were composed by Xu Peidong himself. It all happened in 1989.
The immature singing voice of the little idol was sung in the north and south of the country, and it became the focus of the industry as a "little genius" for a while.
When his career was thriving, a virtuous helper always supported him silently behind him, and at the same time, Xu Peidong composed the well-known children's song "Planting the Sun".
Cui Jing is a genius and smart, and she showed extraordinary talent when she was a child, and she is good at playing the piano.
She often provided pertinent advice to Xu Peidong's creation, corrected his mistakes word by word, and became the most important spiritual support in his career.
After Xu Peidong left the army and came to Beijing, his creative opportunities greatly increased. Under the meticulous care of his wife, he gradually gained popularity and popularity.
Whenever he was busy recording, his wife would always bring warm meals and patiently accompany him;Whenever he was exhausted, she would always hand him a cup of hot tea and take care of his daily life.
The birth of her daughter has further shortened the spiritual distance between the two, and every classic song created by Xu Peidong contains Cui Jing's intentions and affection.
Walking in the park and chatting with the family while enjoying the flowers is the greatest joy for them, and the comfort and comfort have become the most precious memories of their lives.
Xu Peidong's story is undoubtedly an inspiring and motivating story, and his original protection, sincere emotions and selfless dedication are deeply admirable.
Through his unremitting efforts, he has also made more excellent songs to be sung.
Let's look forward to the emergence of more outstanding talents like Xu Peidong in the future.