What makes people comfortable at the beginning must be words, and then what makes people comfortable must be character.
In this life, normal people are inseparable from this law when dealing with people:
It starts with appearance, respects talent, fits character, lasts longer than kindness, and finally character.
Between people, no matter who we associate with, we always put character first.
People with poor character, we don't choose to interact.
Ordinary women with poor character like to say the following 3 sentences!
Arrogant looks down on other people's mean words
There is a kind of woman who likes to rub salt on other people's wounds.
Speak as if she has no brains, she nagging what others mind, and what she says when others are suffering.
She is proud to see others hurt, to see others being ridiculed, to be unhappy, and to be happy.
Most people with poor character are like this, and they always have no one in their sights.
Obviously, I don't have much energy, but I feel that everyone is worse than me, and I feel that everyone is not worthy of me.
If you have such a person around, you must not get used to it, because the more you give in, the more he has to advance.
And don't make friends with such people, you won't get any happy experience.
There is no evidence behind the backs to orchestrate other people's gossip
As the saying goes: to judge whether a woman is cultivated or not, you don't need to look at what she does, you just need to listen to what she says.
There is a kind of woman in life who likes to gossip behind her back and gossip without evidence.
I never care about the rumors, whether they are grounded, whether they will hurt others, and only care about the happiness of what I say.
The source of many misunderstandings and malice in this world is because of the existence of such people.
When you meet such a person, you must retreat, otherwise you will easily provoke yourself into a commotion.
Because they play right and wrong every day, reverse black and white, have no bottom line, no principles, and no morality.
Complaints full of negative energy
There is a magnetic field between people, and a comfortable person will produce a comfortable magnetic field.
Like, with beautiful people, you will become more and more beautiful, with sunny people will become more and more positive, with smart people will become more and more alert, and with people full of negative energy, you will become more and more negative and painful.
But in life, more or less you will encounter a woman who will only complain about her husband if her life is not going well, a woman who will only blame her boss and colleagues if her work is not going well, and a woman who will only complain about God's injustice when her life is not satisfactory.
Most of them are a few people, and their hearts are not bad, but they are full of negative energy and will subtly hurt the people around them.
After all, everyone's life is not easy, and no one wants to get along with the "plague god".
All in all, the human tongue is both a good thing and the worst thing, and the lower the level, the more the tongue likes to play with right and wrong and bring disaster to itself.
And a smart woman knows that silence is a blessing for Jin, knows how to use the wisdom of others to repair herself, and knows how to use her good character to open the way for herself.
Therefore, regardless of men and women, when getting along with others, it is best not to say the above three sentences casually!