A few days ago, my husband told me that he found that the child got up very quickly in the morning, and he woke up after calling once.
And recently, my brother basically doesn't have to scream, and he wakes up every day when his time is up (sometimes earlier than me). Of course, there is a reason why children can behave like this. And it's multi-sided. To summarize my secrets, I hope to give you some inspiration.
Do not rush the child.
Children from kindergarten to elementary school basically wake up with my shouting, and usually wake up naturally. But I have the impression that I rarely remind my children to hurry up. (only a handful). In general, I'm telling the truth. Let your child know when he wakes up, when he starts school, and then tell him it's almost 7 o'clock (he starts getting dressed at about 6:50 every day). If you always remind your child to hurry up, your child will feel controlled. Resistance control is in everyone's nature, so the child will be slower and slower.
This is a great test of parents' determination. And you have to stick to it to see obvious results. This is also what we have always emphasized that education is a matter of slow work and meticulous work.
Including eating, take the same attitude of not rushing. If the child is really slow one day, I won't urge him, just let him be late, there must be such trial and error in the process of growing up.
And the younger you are, the lower the cost of trial and error. As long as you believe in the child's natural upward nature, you will know that no child wants to be late every day, and slowly he will adjust his pace. Since he has not been urged since he was a child, the child is now getting faster and faster, and the total departure time from getting up to eating and finally starting from dinner is half an hour every day.
I have observed that children will look at the clock to see if the time is almost up, and then adjust their meal time.
Occasionally, the child does not finish eating, but when it is time to leave, the child is not entangled and will take the food to eat on the road (convenient to carry). 2.Guarantee a pleasant mood before bed.
I didn't prescribe a sleep time for my child, but I suggested that I go to bed at 9 o'clock, and the child often plays until 10 o'clock, it doesn't matter, as long as the child is in a good mood, the quality of sleep will not be bad.
Read together before bed to build a connection with your child. Let your child sleep more peacefully. In my memory, the child did not seem to have nightmares, and sometimes he giggled at night.
Here again, the importance of freedom is demonstrated. In a free environment, even if the child sleeps for an hour less, his body and state are much better.
Before going to bed, you can also confirm with your child what to eat for breakfast the next day, so that your child can make their own choices and expectations. 3.Perimeter help.
It's winter, and the temperature is slowly dropping, so if it's too cold indoors in the morning, it will be more difficult to get out of bed.
So when the temperature is low, I will warm up the children's clothes in advance (with the help of bath bombs).
I remember when I was a child in my hometown, the family would use a fire bucket every winter, and my father would always get up early in the morning to light the fire, and then my mother would put our children's clothes in the fire bucket to bake them hot, and it would always be warm to wear. In addition, the air in the south is humid and cold in winter, and the clothes will be damp, so it is better for the body to dry and wear them.
We also read at breakfast, and we read interesting books, so that the children will be in a good mood and will do things faster. On weekend mornings, I would take my kids to the morning market. There are a lot of fish and shrimp in the morning market, which children especially like. At the same time, I also want to take my children to experience this kind of fireworks and see so many people getting up early.
Nowadays, many children are out of touch with life, because they are seriously arranged, they have too little experience, and their cognition will be very limited. This is not conducive to the development of children. Finally, I would like to emphasize once again that although I have put a lot of effort into this, the issue of education is definitely not something that can be viewed in isolation. Chances are you're trying to make it to these kids still lie in bed. We have to see if we trust our children and whether we truly accept them. Is there a chance for children to try and make mistakes. There is no good role model. Only when parents have a complete underlying logic of family education can they be comfortable in specific details.