The war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the conflict between husband and wife, seem to make us commonplace. Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and family problems are indeed not easy to solve. A smart person can turn a big thing into a small thing, and a small thing into a small thing;Foolish people will magnify small things, and the consequences will be serious. Generally speaking, the family that will coax the daughter-in-law and children to be more harmonious and quarrel less.
Coaxing a daughter-in-law is also an art job!
Xiao Zhang and Xiao Wang have been arguing for two days because of a major event, and Xiao Zhang is so angry that he accidentally beats his wife Xiao Wang. It's a hornet's nest. Xiao Wang tore his throat and scolded the eight generations of ancestors, and scolded until he was exhausted and couldn't shout anymore, so he sadly got into the quilt and wept silently. The mother-in-law went to the door, and when she heard her son say that there was something at home, she hurried home to comfort her daughter-in-law, and made something to eat, if you don't eat, ignore it!The mother-in-law beat and scolded her son and made her daughter-in-law angry. Then he called his daughter-in-law to get up: Let's go, go back with my mother. Still can't afford it!When I think about it, I curse for a while. The mother-in-law really had no tricks, so she went back to make a bowl of poached eggs, added two spoons of sugar, and brought it to the side of the daughter-in-law's bed: Child, he should scold, but you don't eat or drink like this, can you have the strength to scold him?Mom makes you a bowl of egg tea, you drink it energetically and then scold, Mom supports you!When the daughter-in-law heard this, she was embarrassed to scold again.
Daqiang and Chunhong were arguing hotly, and Chunhong was dancing and scolding while arguing, and soon he was out of breath. Daqiang seemed to remember something, and suddenly "the power went out" and there was no sound. Chunhong pressed on: Are you roaring?Why don't you roar?Daqiang moved a big chair and put it in front of his daughter-in-law, glared and said: I am a man, I have energy, I stand and argue. You're a woman, sit down and make noise. Otherwise, I feel uncomfortable seeing you so tired. The daughter-in-law was wondering, and then she laughed: I hate it!
The eldest cousin's daughter-in-law and son didn't know when they began to get angry, the eldest cousin opened the door and entered the house after returning home, just when she heard the daughter-in-law scolding her mother angrily, the son was arguing in the room, and the daughter-in-law was scolding in the living room. After listening to it for a while, the eldest cousin, who has always been smart, said to her son: Shut up, what's so noisy?I don't think there's anything wrong with thatThen he turned to his daughter-in-law and said: Xiaoli, don't be angry, aren't you two a mother?It's okay if you scold him, or if he scolds you, it's not all scolding me!It's all I spoiled him, I should scold!But our business is good today, I'm really tired, Xiaoli, you usually know that you feel sorry for me, just dissipate your anger today, let me rest for a while, and clean him up another day!Xiaoli listened to these words, and she couldn't scold anymore, so she had to keep silent.
I thought my eldest cousin was quite humorous, but when I told my mother about it before going to bed at night, I saw my eldest cousin crying and sighing, and I realized that the old man didn't care about anything, but didn't dare to care!It seems that even a wise and capable mother-in-law like the eldest cousin can't play the art of coaxing her daughter-in-law, let alone an ordinary person
In this world, is it difficult for a daughter-in-law or a mother-in-law?Can anyone give an answer?