It is often said that women do not worry about getting married, and this is a well-established fact. However, we often see many men playing singles, and women don't seem to be single easily. This is indeed an interesting phenomenon. In a society where there are more men than women, men who have not yet found a partner are desperately looking for their significant other, even at great cost. In this case, women seem to possess a great sense of superiority.
Ms. Li comes from a rural area and her family conditions are average. After graduating from high school, she chose to work in the city, although her education and ability were limited, but with her own hard work and perseverance, as well as her unique advantages, she found a place in the city life. She has a good figure, outstanding looks, is good at grooming, always smiling, and has an innate charm in her conversation.
At work, Ms. Li is always able to easily attract the attention of others. She doesn't need to work too hard to get better treatment than those mediocre-looking women. She likes to use the money she earns to dress herself up and enjoy the bustle and color of city life. Her wish was to marry a city man and live that privileged, comfortable, and easy life.
Ms. Lee's beauty makes her very popular among men. Many men courted her, hoping to win her heart. However, Ms. Li is very sober and knows what she wants. Her criteria for choosing a mate are very clear: the other party must own a house and have enough financial strength to meet her material needs and ensure that she and her children have no worries. She believes that only in this way can she truly deserve her beauty and charm. Ms. Li finally got her wish and married her ex-husband, and her life in those years seemed to be in a honey pot, happy and happy. However, the good times did not last long, and the failure of her ex-husband's business made her quality of life take a sharp turn for the worse. Faced with the dilemma, Ms. Li lost confidence in her ex-husband and decisively filed for divorce.
After the divorce, Ms. Li, with three children, fell into chaos. Without a stable life** and no regular income, she couldn't get a foothold in the city. So, she could only take her three children and return to the countryside to seek refuge with her parents. Although she has the protection of her parents, Ms. Li is well aware that the expenses for herself and her children are huge and their parents cannot afford it. For this reason, her parents have been urging her to remarry.
Loneliness and stress caused Ms. Li to go on frequent blind dates. Although she is divorced and has three children, she is not low in demand. She hopes that the other party will have a house and a car, a deposit of more than 500,000 yuan, and be handsome and strong. At the same time, she hopes that the other party will treat her sincerely, be willing to raise her for a lifetime, and be able to accept and raise her three children.
There was an endless stream of men who came to visit on a blind date, and they came to visit with large bags and small bags, hoping to win the favor of Ms. Li. But Ms. Li is always picky, either disgusted with people's parents, or disgusted with other people's poor family background, feeling that they can't afford her future. In the end, she rejected them all.
Ms. Li said frankly: "Being young and beautiful is my capital, and I will definitely be able to marry a perfect man and live a comfortable life!"She was convinced of this.
Some people think that Ms. Li's conditions are not excellent, and it is good to have a man willing to marry her. But she feels very good about herself and thinks that her greatest asset is to be young and beautiful. She firmly believes that with her outstanding looks, she can marry a rich man and live a comfortable life. 
However, she was advised to be pragmatic and not to harbor unrealistic illusions. Find a man with similar conditions to marry and live a normal life. But Ms. Li disagreed, saying: "I am only 25 years old, and I can still get married and have children, and provide men with a happy family and a happy marriage." I have the capital to choose the right man, and I can also have a wonderful life. The incident sparked heated discussions, and some people agreed with Ms. Li's view that women have the right to choose their preferred male partner to provide security for her life, especially young and beautiful women.
However, there are also those who accuse Ms. Li of being too idealistic and not realizing her own shortcomings. She is divorced and has three children, and she is financially burdened, but she intends to rely on men to support her. This is quite stressful for men. She is unaware of her own flaws, but she demands from men like an unmarried woman, and dislikes men for not meeting her psychological expectations, which is simply unreasonable!
Some netizens ridiculed: "Ms. Li can find a man she likes and live a good life, but it depends on how fast she finds it, or how fast she ages!."”
So, do you agree with Ms. Li's view on mate selection?Do you dare to ask for such a woman?Will Ms. Li be able to find a suitable male partner?Feel free to leave your valuable views.