When people grow old, they can truly understand the truth of the phrase "young couples are old companions". Many elderly people want to find a partner again and experience the taste of love again, but their hearts are full of worries and hesitations. Women, in particular, feel that it is a "shameless" thing for them to think about remarrying at their age, so even if they have such a demand in their hearts, they often do not show it. At the same time, many elderly people will also worry about the evaluation of relatives and friends and the pressure of social circles, and feel that it is very difficult to bring a stranger into their own world. They are afraid that others will not understand their choice, and they are also worried that it will cause trouble and criticism to those who love them.
One of the things that worries me the most is what my children think. Many children are willing to spend money and time to care for and spend time with their parents, but they cannot accept having another stepfather or stepmother and feel unable to get along with them. Some children also feel that their mother's behavior is unfair to their deceased father, and that their mother should start from the beginning, and they don't want their mother to cause trouble again, but just want her to live a simple and peaceful lifelife
XiujuAuntieThere is a special affection for a man, but they only dare to meet secretly because both of them are worried about other people's eyes and discussions. However, XiujuAuntie's daughter-in-law, Yuehua, unexpectedly bumped into their date, after which she tried to talk to her mother-in-law to support and understand her wishes. This case shows the intimacy between the mother-in-law and the mother-in-law's inner struggle. The mother-in-law is afraid that her remarriage will cause distress and trouble to her family and social circle, while the daughter-in-law tries to persuade and help the mother-in-law realize her wishes.
1. Self-acceptance and courage to take the first step
Older people need to accept their desire to remarry first and not feel ashamed or hesitant because of their age. They need to understand that the pursuit of happiness is everyone's right, regardless of age.
2. Understand the concerns and doubts of others
Older people need to understand the concerns and concerns of others, especially the resistance of their children to remarry. Try to communicate with your children and explain your own inner thoughts and needs, rather than sacrificing your own happiness to meet their expectations.
3. A social circle for support and understanding:
Older people can try to find some supportive and understanding friends in their social circles and share their inner struggles and hesitations with them. You can also expand your social circle by participating in some social activities or joining some organizations of the elderly.
4. Respect and be considerate of each other's point of view
Whether it is for the concerns of the elderly themselves or for the concerns of their children, we need to respect and be considerate of each other's views. Try to communicate on an equal footing to find a mutually acceptable solution.
5. Balance the needs and expectations of both parties
When considering remarriage, older people need to consider their own needs and expectations, as well as the opinions and perspectives of their children. Try to find a balance, maintain good communication and intimacy.