"Yang Goods Seventeenth".
17.25 The son said, "Only women and villains are difficult to raise." If you are near, you will not be grandson (xùn), and if you are far away, you will be resentful. "Resolution.
First of all, I issued a statement on behalf of Confucius: Confucius never discriminated against women, because Confucius lost his father when he was a child, and his mother single-handedly raised him, and it was impossible for him to discriminate against anyone.
Regard women!Secondly, the word "villain" is sometimes based on virtue and sometimes on position, which does not mean that the mention of "villain" is derogatory, let alone that it is not sensitively considered that the juxtaposition of "woman" and "villain" means it.
to belittle women.
In fact, in ancient Chinese society, due to the influence of the productive forces and production relations in a specific historical stage, "women and villains" have long been in the position of disadvantaged groups. Judging from Confucius's idea of benevolence, "women and villains" should not be discriminated against, but should be given more care.
In view of the characteristics of women who value "love" and villains who value "profit", when treating the two, we must not only give them the necessary sense of gain and satisfaction through full care and care, but also consider them.
In the case of a serious lack of educational opportunities, how can we know "reason" while moving with "affection", and at the same time express "righteousness" with "benefit". So that it does not indulge in.
Love", do not get lost in "profit", get closer to them, they will not be familiar and rude, do not know how to cherish;Stay away from them, and they won't feel loss and resentment. This is a long-term, complex and arduous project, so it is called "difficult to maintain". For Confucius, it is difficult to be a man, it is even more difficult to be a man, and it is even more difficult to be a man who wants to care for "women and villains" in place!