Around noon, I was sleeping soundly when I was awakened by a noise from a friend. **, she cried and almost collapsed. Here's what she had to say:
I've always put my family first. Although I did a good job at work, I gave up a series of promotions in order to take care of my family. But lately my heart has become cold.
I've been sick for a week, and I haven't even been able to make it to class. But he didn't leave a single meal behind when he cooked for his son. My son is also catching a cold. Looking at his uncomfortable appearance, I felt distressed. I seek medical advice every day, and then I think about making him something nutritious and digestible, plus he is a picky eater, so I put a lot of effort into cooking.
For the past week, I have been accompanying him every night to do my homework, and I have gotten up early in the morning to prepare breakfast. When he went to school, I had to do the laundry and mop the floor, and then I wondered what to eat for lunch. If it's just physical exertion, I'll be able to endure it. The most worrying thing is how to make this lunch?Often after a morning of preparation, the effect is not good.
My friend continued to confide in me, although I was still having a fever this morning, the weather was very cold outside, and I stayed up half the night yesterday, but I thought about my son and it was just as hard. She still braved the cold to buy various ingredients according to the tutorial on the little **. As soon as I got home, I kept doing it according to the little **. Her friend said aggrievedly, "Even though it was home-cooked, I tried my best!."I was already unwell, and by the time the meal was ready, I was tired and paralyzed. "When my son came back, he couldn't get used to the home-cooked food I cooked. I have repeatedly explained that this is because I am not in good health during this time and cannot eat too stimulating food......At that time, my friend had some grievances on his face. After all, she is working alone at home and abroad. The body is really a little unbearable. But the son said she was disgusting with him......After the son finished eating and left, the poor friend's tears could not stop flowing down. A handful of snot and a handful of tears, clutching his chest that was shaken by coughing, kept asking himself: "Is it worth it?"Hao Tao cried for a while, and no one cared.
So, she dialed my **.
We are both parents of an adolescent child, and I can relate to what happened to her. What else can I say?Thinking back to my experience in the past few years, it is also a sigh!After that, I was often ashamed of my self-pity. After venting, life has to go on.
Luckily, my friend and I have similar personalities and are able to help each other. We talked about the dedication, harvest, and perception over the years, recognized the current situation, and cheered each other up.
We will vent one by one, and we may have become the housewife that we even look down on before we know it. But we never complained. It's just that there will be a trace of grievance and helplessness in my heart after being tired. Isn't that human nature?There's obviously one more person in the family!I really never complained about anything. It's just a little grievance, but he says I hate him. Maybe it's time for me to improve myself. Although I have been improving, I am only relieved that I still like to beg people in terms of behavior, and I am not calm and free enough. Putting too much emphasis on some things. Okay, let go of what should be put down. Since I don't need to do anything, then I'll be myself. I don't have to care about them. You don't have to expect anything in return for what you do for them. Now, we're just middle-aged women in our 40s, and the one we need to care about may be myself. It is impossible for a child to be hostile to me, but he just doesn't like my frustration and cowardice. Children like positive and optimistic mothers, not mothers who care too much about him.
There are two kinds of orchid flowers, one is fragrant and the other is smelly. Pandan grass really everyone likes it, and it is also very valuable. The color of stinky orchid grass is black, although it will also emit the fragrance of orchid, but it is lower than pandan grass in **. A lot of times we think of a withdrawn, overly realistic woman like me as a stinky orchid. No matter how enthusiastic you are about people and how down-to-earth you are, you are still alone in the end, and few people care about you, even if you are a loved one at home. But we can't change our identity. Since we can't get approval from others, we have to please ourselves. Hold on to your individuality, no matter what, we can't change our nature. Then don't struggle with the pain. All we can do is elevate our inner self. Don't take everything seriously, look a little away.
Everything in the world is a floating cloud. The more serious you are, the more it screws you up. The less you care, the better things will be. Standing between heaven and earth, you can say what you can say, and scatter if you can't say it. There's no need to be too serious for anyone. Since the personalities are different, let's say a few words. If you don't save yourself, who can save you?If you don't want to open a point yourself, then let yourself be angry, no one will pay for your self-pity and sadness alone.