Everyone hopes that they have a happy family and a marriage that grows old together, but the reality is cruel, some people enter the palace of marriage, after having children, in the face of trivial things in life, or emotional changes, many couples who are full of a bright future for marriage end up in divorce.
However, when the fate of the husband and wife has chosen to divorce, the children have become the most injured people in this failed marriage after becoming some divorced couples. After some couples divorce, for their own freedom, they give up the custody of their children, and they are even more unwilling to pay child support, so they will ignore the children, and even do not look at the children for several years, so that the children lose their father's love or mother's love since childhood.
There is such a couple in our village, the man is called Ah Feng, the female is called Ah Ying, Ah Feng and A Ying met through the matchmaker's introduction, Ah Feng was 24 years old at that time, Ah Ying was 23 years old, under the matchmaker's matchmaking, Ah Feng and Ah Ying got married after less than a year, and Ah Ying gave birth to a daughter when Ah Ying was 24 years old. Ah Feng and Ah Ying faced the arrival of their child, they were very happy as parents for the first time, and the couple named the child Fei Fei.
Since Ah Feng and Ah Ying are both from the countryside, the family conditions are not very good, and the birth of their daughter has made the burden on the couple heavier all of a sudden. In order to have a good living environment for the child in the future, Ah Feng decided to go out to work after Ah Ying was confined to a full month, due to the limitation of cultural level, Ah Feng found a physical job on the construction site, although he was very tired every day, but the monthly salary of nearly 10,000 yuan made Ah Feng very motivated.
Ah Feng works diligently on the construction site every day, and every time he pays his salary, Ah Feng sends most of his salary to Ah Ying, so that Ah Ying can take care of the children at home, and he is responsible for making money to support his family. A-Ying has been at home with the child for half a year, and when the child is seven months old, A-Ying will hand over the child to her in-laws, and she will also prepare to go out to work to make money.
However, A-Ying's trip became the fuse for the breakdown of her and Ah Feng's marriage.
A-Ying handed over the child to her in-laws, and she went south to work in a garment factory in Guangdong, so she and A-Feng lived separately, and the couple had little time to meet. Later, A-Ying met a single fashion designer in a garment factory, and the two slowly developed a relationship after going back and forth, and finally A-Ying failed to control her bottom line, regardless of the young children at home, and finally betrayed her marriage with Ah Feng, and fell into a sweet love with the fashion designer.
Not long after A-Ying and the costume designer were together, she and the costume designer had a crystallization of love.
However, there is no impermeable wall in the world, and Ah Ying and the costume designer finally let Ah Feng know. When Ah Feng knew that Ah Ying was pregnant with the fashion designer's child, he could only grit his teeth and choose to divorce.
In order to be with the fashion designer, A-Ying not only took the initiative to give up the custody of her daughter Feifei, who had just turned one year old at the time, but also told Ah Feng that in order not to affect her current family, she was not willing to pay child support. Ah Feng faced A-Ying's relentless request, and he was heartbroken and gladly accepted A-Ying's conditions and chose to raise the child alone.
After A-Ying and A-Feng went through the divorce procedures, A-Ying left with the fashion designer, after A-Ying and A-Feng divorced, at the beginning, A-Ying still went back to see Fei Fei from time to time, and later Fei Fei went to kindergarten, and A-Ying also contacted the child. But later, A-Ying's fashion designer didn't let her contact Fei Fei, and even used Fei Fei as an excuse to use A-Ying as a family cold-hearted.
Later, according to insiders, after A-Ying and the fashion designer got together, she gave birth to two daughters, but the fashion designer's patriarchal thinking was very serious, and she was forced to give birth to three children and still did not get her wish. Now Fei Fei is 12 years old and about to graduate from primary school, she has not seen her mother A-Ying since she was 4 years old, and A-Ying has not contacted Fei Fei for 8 consecutive years, let alone went back to visit Fei Fei.
Through the failed marriage of A-Ying and A-Feng, the most injured person must be the young Fei Fei, who has lost his complete family since he was a child and lost his mother's love, although A-Ying had contact with the child a few years before the divorce, but this kind of gathering less and leaving more days made Fei Fei suffer how much loneliness of losing her mother's love.
And after Fei Fei was four years old, in the past 8 years, she has never been visited by her mother A-Ying, nor has she received a word of comfort from her mother, so you can imagine how hurt her young heart is.
Ah Ying and Ah Feng's marriage broke up, and Fei Fei's happy and complete home was also dissolved.
But no matter what, Fei Fei should not be a victim of this divorce, A-Ying, as Fei Fei's mother, should not have ignored Fei Fei for so many years, after all, the child is innocent, he should not pay for the failed marriage of adults, let alone be the one who suffers harm between two adults.
I hope that A-Ying can go back to see Fei Fei in the future, give Fei Fei more companionship and care, let her know that even if her parents are divorced, Abba and her mother still love her very much, so that Fei Fei can grow up healthily in a caring environment.