The educationalist Ushinsky said: "Compulsory Xi without the slightest interest will stifle the desire of students to seek the truth." "The most important thing to cultivate children's interest in learning Xi is to keep them curious.
Curiosity is the learning of knowledge Xi an inner desire for learning, that is, a love of learning, children can only "learn well" if they have a continuous internal desire to acquire knowledge and good grades.
However, many parents ignore their children's own feelings, as Plato's theory of education once said"What is compulsorily Xi is not kept in the heart. "
The child sees the birthday cake that the parents boughtCrying on the spot
Not long ago, there was such a cake that became popular, not because of how beautiful and delicate it is, but because it is so special!
The child came back from school, waiting for his parents to surprise his birthday, and saw his father take out a cake box, the child was excited, but the moment he opened the box, he completely collapsed.
I saw that the cake was impressively written: "If the earth is not destroyed for a day, you have to do your homework." ”
There are also math books, language books, and English books on it, and when I saw such a cake, the child cried on the spot, I really didn't expect the long-awaited birthday cake to be like this, it was too hard to swallow!
This cake is also known as the "most cruel cake", and since then it has become popular all over the Internet, and many parents have followed suit, adhering to the concept of "why give birth if you don't play with your child", and have set such a birthday cake for your child.
For this "most cruel cake".Netizens have expressed their opinions
@琪琪不吃糖:"This is completely unaffected for my baby, she will only say, can mom eat?”
@小馒头直立行走:"It's really the cruelest cake in history, but why should parents do this, it's too cruel, if someone celebrates your birthday, order a message with "One day the earth will not be destroyed, car loans, housing loans, medical care, and insurance for the elderly will cost money, hurry up and make money", how do you feel?Parents also need to know how to empathize. ”
Why does the birthday cake change its taste?
1. Parents' expectations
Many parents have high expectations for their children"Hope that the son will become a dragon and the daughter will become a phoenix"It is the ideological concept of many parents.
Under the influence of this concept, when a child's grades are not satisfactory, parents will immediately investigate the cause harshly. Over time, children do not dare to ask their parents when they encounter problems in school Xi, for fear that they will be blamed.
Therefore, the excessive psychological pressure of children is greatly related to the strict requirements of parents. 2. Environmental competition
With the popularization of education, society attaches more and more importance to education. The tasks of the child's age are all placed on Xi. Students spend most of the day Xi school, and children at this stage are often compared by their Xi grades.
They are worried that their grades are worse than others, so their self-requirements are relatively high, which is also an important reason for their inner pressure.
Keep your child Xi enthusiastic about learning"Tips"
1. Appropriate rest time
Under the extremely high pressure of Xi, children's emotions are easy to become more negative, and creativity and independence will also be affected to a certain extent. Psychologically more irritable, over time, children will be bored with school and other emotions.
Therefore, parents should give their children appropriate time to relax, so that children can do what they like, such as watching cartoons, shopping with friends, etc. This time period is fully allocated by the children themselves, which is conducive to their bad emotions being effectively alleviated.
2. Focus on praise
In the process of learning Xi, parents should learn to praise their children more, rather than only looking at their children's efforts based on their Xi grades.
Appropriate praise can motivate children's self-confidence in learning Xi and help improve children's Xi efficiency. When a child's Xi performance declines, parents should patiently help their child find the reason and encourage the child to continue to work hard, rather than blindly criticizing and criticizing.
In this way, children dare to take the initiative to communicate with their parents when they encounter difficulties in learning Xi, which can also maintain children's enthusiasm for learning Xi.
Write at the end:
Interest is the best teacher for children, so parents should not only pay too much attention to their children's academic Xi in the process of their children's growth, but should learn to mobilize their children's interest in learning Xi, so that they can feel the power of knowledge happily.
In this way, the child will be able to fully absorb the knowledge and exert its power.