In a fast-spinning society, it is becoming increasingly rare to actually sit back and enjoy a delicate love, leading many young people to choose blind dates as a way to find a partner when they reach marriageable age. The sharing of various blind date experiences on the Internet has sparked heated discussions, and one of the women's bizarre blind date experience is thought-provoking.
Wang Yilan, 25 years old, from Chongqing, assisted her mother in running a clothing store. After a sibling relationship, she thinks that the other person is not mature enough, so she turns to looking for an older, more stable and mature partner.
She was introduced to Feng Lu, a 34-year-old from Xinjiang who was in the building materials business in Chongqing. According to the matchmaker, Feng Lu's family is well-off, with an annual income of more than 100,000 yuan, a house in Chongqing, and a joint venture mining company in Yunnan. Despite the superior conditions, Feng Lu asked the matchmaker to introduce him in a low-key manner, especially not to reveal his high income.
Feng Lu claims to be emotionally single-minded, and he will not see strange thoughts, nor will he be machismo. His requirement for the blind date is that the woman is financially independent. The matchmaker introduced Wang Yilan to him, and when the two met for the first time, Feng Lu gave a carton of milk and a carton of Red Bull as a meeting gift, which was really a clear stream in the blind date world.
However, as the relationship deepened, Wang Yilan found that Feng Lu was not as generous as the matchmaker said. The two had lunch together, and Feng Lu seemed very concerned about the cost, which greatly reduced Wang Yilan's first impression. Although Wang Yilan understood and reduced the order, it only cost 123 yuan for a meal.
During the exchange between meals, Feng Lu introduced his own industry, which was actually his sister's. Talking about the garage, Feng Lu said that he has a car and a house, but he does not pursue material luxury. When the topic turned to deposits, Feng Lu began to appear inconsistent, emotional, and suddenly became irritable, saying that he wanted to go home, and insulted Wang Yilan in public for being thin and inappropriate.
Wang Yilan was shocked and angry by this, and asked why Feng Lu was disrespectful. The matchmaker hurriedly intervened to mediate, and Feng Lu finally apologized, saying that he had not rested well and was emotionally out of control. But he left without waiting for Wang Yilan's response.
This incident is a reminder that one should be sincere when going on a blind date and should not exaggerate or disguise one's conditions. I hope that people who go on blind dates in the future can take this as a warning, treat each other sincerely, and carefully identify each other.