"I want to change the world, I want to make tens of millions, I want to travel the world. I believe this is what most people have thought before.
And I'm no exception. When I was in college, I was an innocent and romantic little girl who thought she had the ability to save the world.
Entering the University of Society, I was hit in many ways.
But those blows did not affect my blind self-confidence, and I still have an arrogant attitude towards life.
Until half a year ago, I found that the people around me understood more than me and spoke better than me, and I couldn't insert a word anywhere.
That's when I realized my problem, and my mind started to change, and I wanted to be like them and fit in.
So, started my learning journey.
Recognize that money is hard to come by
Since I was a child, my family has opened a store, and for business, my parents are very busy all day long, and they are so busy that they don't have time to care about me.
Although it is very hard to make money, they never mention to me that it is not easy, and they never give me less food and drink.
Therefore, I have no concept of money, and I spend it like dirt.
This also leads to my current state of life, which is very passive.
It wasn't until half a year ago that I started studying again.
The first thing is to sort out my property, I have a lot of debts, but I have a direction, I know that money is hard to come by, and I want to use it in the right place.
As long as you have a goal and a direction, this is your greatest wealth.
Understand the importance of knowledge
Come on and study and get admitted to a good university", this sentence of my parents has been heard since I was a child.
But even if the ears are calloused, and even if they are immune to this sentence, they have never understood the true meaning of this sentence.
In the past, I was very superficial, thinking that a beautiful face could change the world.
Blind self-confidence, always let others see jokes, and to this day my husband still laughs at me with his old jokes.
After studying, I realized that what is really beautiful about a person is the connotation and ability.
Now I have a strong heart and tenacious willpower, and I can handle things safely, which is my cognitive improvement.
A person's cognition can determine his height, only by thinking, can he do it, if he can't think of it, how can he do it.
Take the initiative to unlock the sophistication of human feelings
Isn't it good that I didn't understand why someone should be sophisticated and do what they love?
Half a year ago, I didn't know what kind of responsibility and responsibility I should shoulder, and I thought that I had done enough at home, and I had done well enough.
In fact, everything at home has been done by my mother-in-law, and when my husband and I get home, we are in a state of lying flatPlaying with his mobile phone, he has to bring his meals to his hands, but he is still pointing fingers, saying this and that, without self-knowledge.
30+ people, can't they be like this all their lives?
Young people, don't you know how to do anything, don't you need to do anything?
Finally, half a year ago, I broke this law with my own hands, learned to take my own responsibility, learned to be independent, and learned to be good to others.
I understood the difficulties of my mother-in-law, took over all the work of my mother-in-law, and was grateful for everything my mother-in-law had done for us before.
From blind self-confidence to real self-confidence, it took me a little time, and it took about a third of my life to realize what my responsibilities and responsibilities were, but fortunately, I have already understood.
Now I am no longer the talkative little girl who can be bullied, nor is I the person who can be deceived by others with a few words and can be controlled at will.
Nowadays, I can tell some truth in everything.
The change in the trajectory of my life began when I met Mr. Jiang Wumo, because of Mr. Jiang Wumo, I exuded the charm of self-confidence from the inside out, which is my own beauty.
Author丨Min Xiaoxi.
Editor丨Jiang Wumo.