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At the university level, students often enjoy a lot of freedom and relaxation, and they can spend each day according to their preferences without the strict requirements of parents and teachers in high school. However, university life is not completely free, and counsellors play an important role in managing students' affairs. In most cases, there is a good interaction and relationship between the counselor and the student. However, there are also occasional students who disrespect the counselor, which often leads to hilarious stories.
Once, a college student asked a counselor for a leave of absence and planned to go home early to catch the train. The student made the request with a smell of "arrogance" and impatience. He told the counselor: "I have already bought a ticket, but there is still an English class in the afternoon. Counselor, when will you have time to approve my fake slip?"From a student's point of view, this request seems reasonable, but in reality it is full of loopholes. Why should students buy tickets in advance when they know they have a class in the afternoon?The counselor bluntly said, "Do you think I'll approve this fake note?"However, the student got angry and angrily asked, "Do you think it's great to be a counselor?"Superior?This scene is so hilarious that it seems that just because the counselor didn't approve the leave, the student thinks the counselor is amazing. But should the counsellor accommodate the students and not allow them to take leave?In addition, the order of a student to buy a ticket and then ask for leave is unacceptable to anyone. The counselor also said: "As long as you tell me in advance, I will approve the leave." "If the student had informed the counselor in advance of the difficulty in buying a ticket and explained his or her behavior, I believe the counselor would not have prevented the student from going home. However, the student not only wanted to skip class, but also managed to get the counselor to take the responsibility for him, and completely devoid of basic politeness and humility. Should counselors put up with students' anger?Respect should be mutual.
During college, the student's relationship with the counselor is very important. Although counselors usually do not attend classes, they provide students with professional knowledge and mindset development, especially when it comes to employment issues, they give guidance. They are not as easy as students think. While many students rarely communicate with a counselor, that doesn't mean they aren't managed by a counselor. College students should understand the meaning and truth of the words "treat others with sincerity", especially when dealing with counselors, they should be proactive, and treat their position and attitude correctly. They should not put themselves in a position of superiority, and the counselor is not a nanny, let alone spoil the "princess disease" of the student. College students should avoid asking for trouble.
In conclusion, maintaining a good relationship with a counselor is very important for college students. This is not to let students "pat on the back", but to keep a low profile and humble attitude, and treat the counselor as a teacher and friend. College students should not be blind to no one, nor should they reflect their own qualities too obviously. Otherwise, they won't be able to make a good impression. Learning to live in harmony with a counselor is a necessary ability in college life that will have a positive impact on the development and growth of college students.
When I was in college, I also had some arguments with counselors. At the time, I was not satisfied with the counselor's decision on the course schedule and felt that I had been treated unfairly. So, I impulsively questioned it and claimed that I was right. However, such actions did not lead to good results. I realized that my attitude was wrong, that the counselor was just doing her job, and that my complaints only added to the conflict. After that, I reached out to the counselor, expressed my wishes and confusions, and made adjustments. The counsellor accepted my advice and gave me constructive guidance. From this experience, I learned the importance of maintaining a good relationship with my counsellor and at the same time realized my own shortcomings in communication. Through interacting with my counsellors, I have learned to understand and respect others better and to be more cautious and rational in communicating with others. This has been a positive factor in my growth and development.
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