Every year when spring goes to spring, flowers bloom and nature grows endlessly.
People on the earth come and go, the long-lived ones are like Peng Zu, the short-lived ones are like the dead children, life and death are intertwined, and human beings are endless.
According to statistics, millions of people leave this world every day, leaving life to fall silent and everything to its original state.
Every day millions of people are also born, and they come into this world naked, and they come into this world with the joyful smiles and cries of millions of parents.
What happens before and after death has nothing to do with us, and in a long period of time, what we have is only a very brief moment between life and death. For this world, we are just a passerby who once lived in the world, and when we live in the world, we decorate the world to our heart's content, we sculpt the world, and choose to shape the way we live according to what we like or dislike, or be shaped by life into a certain way.
Whatever the outcome, it's just a group of sojourners, constantly doing strange things.
In the end, the world is still the same world, but the passers-by have no passer-by calmness.
When I was a child, I read a poem: In the world of life, suddenly like a traveler.
It's just that I didn't understand the true meaning of this poem until now, and I gradually understood it.
What do you understand?
We are guests of this world.
Although we often think of ourselves as masters and use our identity as masters to transform the environment we live in, we don't have it, we just experience it.
Maybe you will be confused, I bought a house, isn't the house still mine?I bought a car, isn't it still mine?
I will tell you that when you buy a house, the law will stipulate that you have the right to use the house, that is, you can use the more than 100 square meters of space at will.
But is that what it is?Not necessarily, the house will last for 70 years, and after 70 years, it will no longer be yours, it may be demolished, and then a new room will appear.
When you can only find that house in your memories, will you still feel that it belongs to you?
Or, after a hundred years, you leave this world, and if it belongs to you, can you take him with you?If you can't take it away, he'll welcome him and welcome the people who live in it, and it's the same for everyone.
From an outsider's point of view, the house is a passer-by for you, and you are a passer-by for the house.
The same is true of this world, every day the sun will welcome countless new lives, will send away countless lives, each life seems to have him, but it has never had him.
We just lived in this world for a while, did some things, saw some landscapes, and that's it.
Gu Cheng said:"You say you don't like to plant flowers, because you're afraid to see the petals fall away one by one. Yes, in order to avoid the end of everything, you avoid all the beginnings. ”
Yes, we can't stop loving the world just because we will all end up losing. Just as we can't choose not to live just because we die at the end of our lives.
Since we have come to this world, life is an established fact, and "death is a festival that will inevitably come", between life and death, how to live the short and hasty process between life and death is what we should think about the most.
How to give birth?
What kind of attitude should we use to face the world, and what kind of attitude should we use to treat ourselves?
For the former, we are passers-by.
For the latter, we are the hosts.
Passers-by need to be calm, and the host needs to have the appearance of the host.
It's just that between the passer-by and the host, we are often prone to imbalance, so the passer-by loses the calmness of the passer-by and becomes hideous;The master has lost the appearance of the master, but has become a slave.
In fact, these are also two relationships that people have been trying to balance all their lives: the relationship between themselves and themselves, and the relationship between themselves and the outside world.
If the relationship between the two is good, everything will be fine, and if the relationship is not good, pain, entanglement, and troubles will come.
The relationship between oneself and oneself, oneself and the outside world, almost at the same time, when a person realizes that he is different from the outside, he has a self.
As that self becomes clearer, these two relationships become apparent.
As the child grows up, he will discover the difference between a human and a dog.
He will find that he lives in the world as a person.
The boundaries between oneself and the outside world become clearer as the mind matures.
Our relationship with the outside world is complex, because the outside world is not only the material world that cannot speak, but also the world of flesh and blood people.
Parents, relatives, friends and colleagues, strangers, they will have a great influence on us, they will form requirements and expectations for us.
But we must understand after all that our life can only be completed by ourselves, and others cannot help them, and others cannot do anything about it.
Parents have their lives, and children have their lives. We can't live for others, and others don't live for us, all life is for self-fulfillment.
It is true that some people seem to live for others all the time, but isn't that also a kind of self-fulfillment?
Life is a practice, and others are necessary for us.
Regarding the outside world, about matter, we must understand after all that for us, no matter how much or too little, material is something outside the body, and they can make some changes in our lives, but they cannot change our lives!
Therefore, any attachment to external objects is essentially ignorance of life!
The relationship with the outside world and the relationship with oneself are often the same thing many times.
How much a person demands of himself will be projected onto his attitude towards external things.
Different perceptions of oneself make life look different.
Some people live their lives as poems, some people live their lives in camp service, and some people behave all their lives...
Everyone is using their own behavior and the identity of passers-by to describe the way life is liked, and within the scope of their ability, they can make life what they like.
However, most people often do not have a clear understanding of themselves, so life may not be carried out according to "their own" wishes, but according to some "world trend".
As a result, I and the world are in an ambiguous relationship.
What is ambiguity?It's just unclear, unclear.
There is a saying in the New Testament that says: Render to Caesar what is Caesar's, and render to God what is God's.
Now, I want to say, let the world return to the world, let yourself belong to yourself, and live a clear and clear life.
In that way, when we come to the end of our lives, we will not find that our lives are a "muddled account" when we look back.
When you go around this world, go through thousands of mountains and rivers, cross the sea of people, get used to seeing the origin and dispersion, and finally look back at the road you have walked, you find that your life has not been wasted because of this, and you have no regrets.
Between heaven and earth, a passer-by completed his mission and completed his life.
At any time, I dare to say to myself, I have a clear conscience, I have done what I have to do to anyone and everything, they belong to them, and mine to me.