"The family is picturesque, the marriage is like a poem, inquire about the two things of the in-laws, be cautious and true, and happiness is closer. "
Before their children get married, parents will inevitably have a strong interest in their future in-laws.
Even in the face of social dust and some embarrassing problems, as parents, we should not hesitate to inquire, because this is related to the happiness of our children in their lives.
On the big stage of life, the marriage of children is often a family feast and a happy picture.
However, in this picture, the influence of the family is crucial, like a melody in a harmonious movement, melodious and pleasant.
For parents, even if they are embarrassed, there are two things that cannot be ignored, which are the key to the happy future of their children.
In the final analysis, before children get married, no matter how embarrassed they are, they must inquire about the two things of their in-laws.
1. The family background of the in-laws is an important part of what we need to know.
Family is a hotbed for a person's growth, nurturing the seeds of character, values, and style of doing things. It is like a mirror that reflects a person's deepest qualities and emotions. When we are thinking about a relationship with someone, it is especially important to know their family situation. This is not only to avoid potential conflicts and conflicts, but also to get to know the future in-laws more comprehensively and understand their fit with our family.
To understand the family situation of your in-laws, we first need to have an in-depth understanding of their family culture. Family culture is the spiritual core of a family, which shapes a person's values and attitude towards life. By understanding the family culture of our in-laws, we can gain a better insight into their family's values and code of conduct. For example, some families emphasize solidarity and mutual assistance, while others focus on independence and innovation. These different values will have a profound impact on future parent-in-laws.
In addition to family culture, family style and family motto are also an important part of understanding the in-laws. Family style and family motto is a family's moral norms and code of conduct, which reflects the family's educational philosophy and attitude. By understanding the family style and family motto of the in-laws, we can better judge the moral standard and education level of their family. This will help us judge whether the two families have a good affinity and whether they can work together to create a harmonious and happy family in the future.
Second, the social reputation and interpersonal relationship of the in-laws also need to be carefully understood.
On the big stage of socializing, every family is like a star, exuding their own stage aura. When we are looking for the right partner for our children, the reputation of our in-laws and relationships with those around us become factors that we must consider. This can not only help us have a more comprehensive understanding of the behavior of our in-laws, but also provide a strong basis for the possible situations in the future married life of our children.
Inquiring about the reputation of your in-laws' family in society is like opening a book about their family. By understanding their work, social circles, and interactions with those around them, we can see their family's values and attitude to life. If the in-laws have a good reputation in society, then we can entrust our children to them with confidence. On the contrary, if they have a bad reputation, we need to think more carefully about the business.
In addition to reputation, it is also important to understand the relationship between the in-laws and the people around them. Relationships are mirrors that reflect a person's character and qualities. If the in-laws get along well with the people around them, it means that their family has a positive atmosphere and positive values. Such a family environment will bring happiness and joy to our children.
Emotional Message:
Of course, we need to keep a cautious and sensitive mind when inquiring about these issues. Not out of prejudice or suspicion of the in-laws, but out of the hope of a bright future for the children and the careful treatment of marriage.
Knowing this information about your in-laws is to ensure that your children will have more happiness and security in their marriage.
In the event of a child's marriage, the care and support of parents is an irreplaceable treasure.
Inquiring about the two things of the in-laws may seem trivial, but they are thoughtful thoughts about the happy future of their children. Just as a beautiful symphony requires the harmonious performance of all instruments, a happy family also needs the understanding and support of both parties.
At this important juncture in life, through these two simple and profound questions, we may be able to more accurately perceive the future family melody, so that the marriage boat of our children can sail away in the ocean of harmony.
May every parent be able to taste the most beautiful scenery in life in the happiness of their children.
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