"After a storm, the sun always shines, and above the dark clouds there is a clear sky.
A song called "The Sunshine Always Comes After the Wind and Rain" inspired many frustrated people who were facing difficulties.
This song makes them look forward to the future, looking forward to seeing a brilliant rainbow after the storm.
Xu Meijing, the singer who sang this song, has been widely recognized by the public.
During that period, her popularity even surpassed that of Faye Wong, and became a youth memory that many people will never forget.
But to everyone's surprise, despite Xu Meijing's excellent poker hand, her two romances could ruin her entire life.
Due to insanity and depression, all his assets were illegally transferred by his family, and he could only make ends meet by selling songs.
Xu Meijing, why did she suddenly become so unbearable?
01.Developed deep affection for the "married husband".
The first encounter with producer Chen Jiaming was actually an unexpected event.
Unfortunately, this unexpected encounter destroyed the career that Xu Meijing had worked hard for many years.
In 1992, Xu Meijing performed well in the Miss Singapore Chinese contest and officially entered the entertainment industry.
Later, backstage at a commercial performance event, a well-known middle-aged man strayed into the dressing room and unexpectedly met her while she was changing her costume.
This is the moment when 19-year-old Xu Meijing and 28-year-old Chen Jiaming met for the first time in their life journey.
After being reprimanded loudly, it was originally thought that the man would choose to leave directly.
What Xu Meijing didn't expect at all was that the door of her dressing room was knocked again.
Immediately after, the man standing outside the door left a sentence affectionately:
I just want to tell you that even a brand new Gapo can't find a voice as wonderful as yours. ”
At that time, Xu Meijing only felt that all this was inexplicable, as if it was just a misunderstanding.
She later found out that the man who went astray turned out to be Chen Jiaming, who was known as "Singapore's Li Zongsheng".
As one of Singapore's most well-known top producers, it's no easy feat to catch his eye as a singer.
Earlier, Chen Jiaming had cooperation experience with powerful singers in the world such as Wu Qixian, Anita Mui, and Zhang Xinzhe.
This time, he had a strong interest in Xu Meijing, so naturally there would be no mistakes.
In August 1995, Chen Jiaming and Xu Meijing jointly signed a contract with Taiwan's Shanghua Records.
Since then, Chen Jiaming has begun to tailor a number of *** for her based on Xu Meijing's unique voice
An extremely talented producer, and a singer with extraordinary talent.
In the context of the two joining forces, Xu Meijing only took a few years to establish her position in the ** world.
She became popular all the way from Singapore, and eventually won the reputation of "Little Faye Wong" in Taiwan.
Even Li Zongsheng took the initiative to extend an olive branch, hoping to invite Xu Meijing to become a member of Rolling Stone Records.
Unexpectedly, Xu Meijing decisively rejected this rare opportunity.
The reason is: "I just want to work with Chen Jiaming because he knows me so well. ”
Perhaps, it was from that moment that Xu Meijing began to realize her inner emotions.
She developed a deep affection for the man who always supported her and fell deeply in love with Chen Jiaming.
The perfect match between talents and beauties, if they can really come together, it will undoubtedly become another beautiful conversation in the world.
However, it is a pity that there is an innocent woman between them, that is, Chen Jiaming's spouse.
As a result, that "beautiful talk" gradually turned into a "scandal".
This talented female singer in her twenties fell in love with a married man at her most beautiful age".
What is even more regrettable is that when Xu Meijing learned the truth of the matter, she did not regain her senses.
She was deceived by Chen Jiaming's untruths and firmly believed that the man would file for divorce at the right time and choose to marry her.
Comforted by lies, Xu Meijing and Chen Jiaming continued to cooperate and gradually achieved success in their careers.
In 1997, she also stepped into the ** world of Hong Kong, refreshing Faye Wong's previous ** ranking.
However, under that endless splendor, Xu Meijing's heart endured great pain.
She never waited for the moment of Chen Jiaming's divorce, and suddenly realized that she seemed to be just her "cash cow".
Just as she was about to have an honest meeting with Chen Jiaming, a shocking death news came, which completely destroyed Xu Meijing.
02.caught in a complex relationship known as a "love triangle".
The deceased woman was not a stranger, she was a female assistant among Xu Meijing's long-time partners.
She chose to end her life, which is indeed inextricably linked to Xu Meijing.
It all started in 2000, when Xu Meijing and Chen Jiaming released their *** static electricity, Xu Meijing was originally troubled by Chen Jiaming's long absence from divorce, but unexpectedly revealed the ambiguous relationship between her lover and her female assistant.
In a state of psychological breakdown, she immediately launched a series of questions to Chen Jiaming and her female assistant.
Probably because of the depression in her heart, the female assistant decided to end her life journey.
Her death further exacerbated the stalemate over the whole issue, making it even more intractable.
In the end, Xu Meijing decided to leave the entertainment industry after experiencing the double betrayal of her lover and subordinates.
She escaped from the spotlight and fled to a foreign country that no one knew about, and began a quiet life.
If it weren't for that flight to Taiwan two years later, Xu Meijing might have really had a chance to survive the rest of her life without incident.
Sadly, none of the assumptions exist.
In 2002, when Xu Meijing was on her way to Taiwan, she unexpectedly met Hong Kong singer Yuen Yiu-fat, who was 8 years younger than herself.
Maybe it's because the gap in the relationship has been going on for a long time, or because you want to forget the past with a new relationship.
In short, Xu Meijing once again fell into the whirlpool of love and started a love full of sweetness between sisters and brothers.
The vitality and sunshine exuded by the young brother helped Xu Meijing gradually get rid of the emotional trauma of the past.
In this relationship journey, she gradually showed her sincere emotions and looked forward to reaching the end with Yuan Yaofa.
But unexpectedly, in the third year of their relationship, something happened unexpectedly!
Due to a conflict with the company's top management, Yuan Yaofa was put on hold, and his singing career fell into trouble.
Setbacks in his career have made Yuen irritable, or rather, he may have just exposed his true colors.
During that particular period, Yuan Yaofa's attitude towards Xu Meijing seemed to have undergone a drastic change, neither beating nor scolding.
Initially, Xu Meijing mistakenly thought that her lover had become grumpy because of a career failure.
All I could do was always be gentle with him and be tolerant of his bad temper.
Later, Xu Meijing realized that she was pregnant.
She happily shared the news with Yuen Yiu Fat, hoping to experience the joy of being a parent with him.
However, Yuan Yaofa waited for her angrily, and he instructed Xu Meijing to end the child's life.
Despite Xu Meijing's strong pleas, Yuan Yaofa still decided not to let their children stay.
It was at this particular moment that Xu Meijing received a message from her predecessor Chen Jiaming:
My marriage to her has ended, can you come to me?”
Xu Meijing seemed to grasp a life-saving straw and rushed to Singapore happily.
In addition to her, Chen Jiaming will also provide a warm home for her and her unborn child.
But the truth is that Chen Jiaming lied to her again, and the man did not choose to divorce!
At the same time, Yuan Yaofa also asked Xu Meijing to break up, and firmly denied that the child was his.
In the end, Xu Meijing failed to keep her child and also lost her true love.
In despair, she chose a life of seclusion and seclusion, and isolated herself from the outside world.
Despite this, there are some questions that come to the door.
03.After the storm, the sun always shines.
Unbelievably, Xu Meijing once again entered the public's sight, and the reason behind it is so!
In 2006, she was waiting for her friend in a hotel.
Due to her outstanding looks, a drunk guest develops illicit feelings towards her.
He mistakenly believed that Xu Meijing was a woman who provided special services and began to make inappropriate contact with her.
The man managed to hide in his room after being rejected by Xu Meijing and asked to apologize.
Unexpectedly, Xu Meijing followed as if she had lost her mind and began to destroy the portal.
So, the visitor decided to call the police, and Xu Meijing was taken away by the police.
Later, we learned that Xu Meijing suffered from mental illness because of the previous blow.
Soon after, Xu Meijing was rushed to a psychiatric hospital by her family.
She originally thought it would be a suitable plan as well, but a few years later, she unexpectedly appeared on the street.
I, Xu Meijing, am here to officially declare that I have never suffered from mental illness. ”
On the bustling streets, Xu Meijing recorded her experiences in the past few years on cardboard.
She said her family forcibly took her to the hospital, and in the process, all the property in her name was transferred.
Fortunately, Xu Meijing did not suffer another blow this time.
She decided to uncover her scars and show everything to the outside world.
It is after so many ups and downs that Xu Meijing finally ushered in her long-awaited rainbow, and now, she will not only appear as a special guest at her friend's ** meeting, but also participate in various public welfare activities.
Although Xu Meijing no longer has a male partner in her life who connects with her heart, her expectations for love have disappeared.
There is nothing bad in a person's life.
04.Conclusion.
I love her not only because of her singing, but also because of her tenacity. ”
Regarding "why do you fall in love with Xu Meijing", some fans commented.
In fact, after two unsatisfactory relationships in a row, he was saddled with the notoriety of being called "Little Mi", after which he was diagnosed with a mental illness and forcibly sent to a psychiatric hospital by a family member.
Xu Meijing not only did not lose her fighting spirit, but did not give up her self-worth. Instead, he struggled to break free from the shackles of darkness and return to the place where the sun was shining.
Perhaps for outsiders, her life as a street singer is quite miserable.
Despite this, they bravely faced the challenges ahead, calmly peeled back the wounds of the past, and accepted external scrutiny.
The tenacity and courage shown by Xu Meijing are something that everyone should learn from and learn from Xi.
Here, we also hope that the 49-year-old legendary female singer can enjoy a happy old age.
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