Xiao Chen, a programmer working at a listed company in Hangzhou, met Xiaowei three years ago and had a crush on each other. However, Xiao Chen often needs to work overtime due to his busy work, so he hopes that Xiao Wei can understand his situation.
After getting married, Xiaowei feels left out and often faces the trivialities and loneliness of life alone. Especially after giving birth, Xiao Chen still often works overtime, which makes Xiaowei feel exhausted. In order to escape this loneliness and neglect, she decided to return to her parents' home with the baby. After a long time, Xiaowei became disappointed with this situation and began to question her marriage. She no longer answered Xiao Chen's **, and even filed for divorce directly on WeChat. This made Xiao Chen's mother very worried, and she was afraid that the continuation of the cold war between the two would make things even more difficult to manage. Therefore, she decided to turn to a public welfare matchmaker, Aunt Jin. During their conversation, Xiaowei complained: "He works overtime every day, and when he comes back, the children are already asleep. I want to ask him out on the weekend to go shopping, but he just wants to lie on the couch. These words revealed Xiao Wei's tiredness and disappointment with Xiao Chen. And Xiao Chen explained: "I'm just done with this project, really." However, Xiaowei retorted: "After finishing one after another, you said the same thing in the first half of the year." This sentence revealed that Xiao Wei's trust in Xiao Chen had been shaken.
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We can see the helplessness of a man who neglects his family and partner because he is busy with work, and the disappointment of a woman who needs care and companionship. This story reminds us that in addition to material conditions, emotional communication and mutual understanding are also very important in marriage. Hopefully, they will take a fresh look at their marriage, find out the source of the problem, and work together to improve their relationship.
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