52-year-old Yu Feihong used to be the school flower of Beiying, but now he is still single.
When asked by a reporter how to solve the physiological problem, she answered this embarrassing question without hesitation, saying: "Isn't it a matter of eating when you are hungry".
Yu Feihong is often challenged and ridiculed when she participates in variety shows, but she always calmly tells everyone, "I already have my own fixed partner, as for whether I will get married, it depends on fate, and it is best to go with the flow." ”
Therefore, people can't help but wonder who exactly is the "fixed partner" she refers toCould it be that Yu Feihong has found a lifelong partner in private?
Although Yu Feihong is now over half a hundred years old, it is undeniable that she is known as the "goddess of frozen age" and still exudes a captivating charm.
However, when we look back on Yu Feihong's life, we find that her emotional experience is still blank, which is somewhat incredible.
There are many older unmarried actresses in the circle, but it seems that only Yu Feihong can always stick to unmarried like her.
Therefore, many people will inevitably discuss Yu Feihong's emotional experience and her attitude towards feelings and marriage.
Yu Feihong has not yet entered the palace of marriage, which makes many people wonder what the reason is.
Some people speculate that Yu Feihong may have been hurt by love because of his previous relationship or certain experiences, resulting in no longer harboring illusions about love.
These speculations seem meaningless in the face of Yu Feihong's real experience.
Yu Feihong once said that marriage cannot be forced and should be taken as it comes. But if you see marriage as a necessary outcome of life, problems may eventually arise.
Indeed, forced marriage will only make people unsweet, after all, marriage is a lifelong event, and you should not be influenced by external evaluations to influence your own thoughts, and force a relationship in order to cater to social pressure.
Perhaps for Yu Feihong, being alone may bring more convenience. She told reporters that there are many friends around her who are alone but have a wonderful life, and most of them are men.
Why can't women be as celibate as men?Do single women have to endure criticism from the outside world?
Of course, this is not to say that Yu Feihong is completely unmarried.
Those who are familiar with Yu Feihong know that her relationship with Dou Wentao is very close, but Yu Feihong does not have too much emotional investment in Dou Wentao, and the interaction between the two is only friendship.
In a talk show, the straight male host Dou Wentao bluntly asked Yu Feihong a question about her attitude towards relationships, which seemed to be an ordinary conversation, but in fact it was a bold temptation.
However, Yu Feihong said that being single is not a problem for her, and she should spend more energy on enriching her life.
Although she has a lot of single friends around her, Yu Feihong finds that their inner world is extremely rich, and their daily lives are very exciting.
Yu Feihong believes that many couples have problems with poor communication, and the loneliness of two people is more unbearable than the loneliness of one person.
These seemingly profound answers actually reveal many aspects of Yu Feihong's attitude towards life.
Maybe for a truly successful person, marriage is just an accessory to life, whether you have it or not, don't force it.
In today's society, this kind of thinking can really resonate with many people, and I have to admit it.
More and more people are aware of the pain caused by unhappy marriages in the torrent of society.
Yu Feihong's concept of marriage is also worthy of deep thought by people in contemporary society, why does she hold such a view?All of this also stems from the living environment in which she grew up.
For ordinary people, marriage may be an indispensable part, but for a fulfilling life like Yu Feihong, marriage is just the icing on the cake.
Yu Feihong was born in a family that admired knowledge and received a first-class education from an early age.
Her father is a top student of Tsinghua University, and her mother is a graduate of Zhejiang Institute of Chemical Technology, so Yu Feihong's living environment and educational conditions since she was a child determine her ideological direction.
More importantly, the second elder is not only concerned about Yu Feihong's academic progress, but also pays more attention to guiding her to achieve her life ideals.
Nurturing children is first and foremost the cultivation of their moral character, which is the responsibility of every parent.
Therefore, Yu Feihong has established a correct outlook on life since he was a child, and he can move forward steadily without too much intervention in his studies.
Because of the influence of the family environment, Yu Feihong has shown an elegant and generous temperament since he was a child, like a dancing shock, elegant like a swimming dragon. Perhaps it is this temperament that makes her the most suitable candidate to play the Amazing Fairy.
The young Yu Feihong not only has absolute background support, but also exudes his own unique aura and stands out in the talented entertainment industry.
At the age of 8, Yu Feihong attracted the attention of a director with his talent and strength, and got the opportunity to star in the movie "Bamboo".
As a result, Yu Feihong's image successfully entered the public eye, allowing people to understand such a talented woman.
Despite these achievements, the young Yu Feihong did not let complacency deter him. She never abandoned her studies because of this, but always maintained her academic excellence.
When Yu Feihong was 16 years old, not long after entering high school, he was invited to star in the classic movie "** and Cowards" directed by Da Shibiao, and played the heroine in the film.
If you think that these achievements will allow her to give up her studies and go straight to acting, then you are very wrong.
Compared with many young girls who are eager to enter the entertainment industry today, Yu Feihong's approach is even more admirable.
While participating in the film shooting, she still insisted on studying every day without delay, and has always been in the first place in the school with the best grades.
In the end, with hard work, Yu Feihong was successfully admitted to Beijing Film Academy.
After all, Beijing Film Academy is destined to harvest talented talents like Yu Feihong!
During college, Yu Feihong participated in many movies, and then officially laid his foundation in the entertainment industry.
After graduating from university, Yu Feihong decided to give up many signing invitations in China and resolutely chose to go to the United States for Ivy League studies alone. Of course, such a decision is not surprising to Yu Feihong's friends.
Yu Feihong usually shows amazing Xi learning ability and thirst for knowledge, which makes everyone admire.
It is not by chance that she has received so many invitations over the past few years, but because of her hard work.
In that era of abundant talents, it may be difficult to stand out with a peerless face alone, if you lack sufficient knowledge to arm yourself.
1999 was a turning point in Yu Feihong's life. Soon after, she returned to China and quickly became a top figure in the domestic entertainment industry by playing the role of the Amazing Fairy in the TV series "Xiao Li Flying Knife" directed by Yuan Heping.
While taking over the drama, Yu Feihong did not forget to cultivate herself, and she devoted all her enthusiasm to her beloved acting career.
Some people may think that the entertainment industry is so complicated, has Yu Feihong never had a relationship with anyone?
When she was young, every girl dreamed of her Prince Charming, and it was only natural that she would have dreamed of it. After all, the years are just right, who can resist the beautiful fantasy in the girl's heart?
Liu Yunlong is this Prince Charming.
Yu Feihong and Liu Yunlong were classmates in the Beiying period, and the relationship between the two was very harmonious, handsome men and beautiful women, and there were often scandals about them in school.
Despite the rumors and storms in the outside world, Yu Liu and the two have never officially disclosed their relationship to the public.
Judging from Yu Feihong's experience, she is a strong and decisive woman herself, so her criteria for finding a partner will naturally not be those immature and inexperienced young men, but more importantly, the strength of the other party.
Obviously, Liu Yunlong meets the standards in Yu Feihong's heart in these aspects.
During the Northern Film period, Liu Yunlong was not only Yu Feihong's classmate, but also her biggest competitor, best partner and closest friend.
Herein lies the problem, everyone says that classmates who can be friends are not suitable for lovers.
Both of them show affection for each other, but in the end, no one is willing to expose the veil.
Therefore, although the ambiguous relationship between the two was widely praised in Beiying, in the end, no one was able to confirm their relationship.
Perhaps, as Yu Feihong later recalled: "Life is always full of uncertainties, what should come will come eventually, and I don't want to try to resist it." ”
In the end, Yu Feihong also walked through the long years alone, perhaps in her brilliant life, marriage was just a faint finishing touch.
As Yu Feihong said in the interview, this is also the most curious sentence, "I already have my own stable partner".
Perhaps at this time, everyone has their own views on Yu Feihong's "fixed partner", thinking that this is not a soul mate, but a person who makes himself more perfect in life.
After many choices in his life, Yu Feihong has never stopped pursuing a higher and farther career, nor has he ever been satisfied with the achievements in front of him, but has always moved forward bravely.
Yu Feihong once admitted that she was not an isolationist and was not willing to take her life's work lightly. This is both unfair to her efforts and disrespectful to the principles she has always adhered to.
Everyone has the absolute freedom to decide their own life, and choosing the most suitable lifestyle for them is the ideal life principle.
Many people believe that if a person does not get married, he will feel extreme fear in the face of loneliness and helplessness in the face of birth, old age, sickness and death in the future.
Even if you choose an unsuitable person and sign and seal the marriage certificate in a hurry, if the two of you can run in perfectly and walk out of the same life in the future life, it will be quite a challenge, isn't it?
Therefore, we might as well focus our energy on improving ourselves instead of wasting time on these untimely things. After all, you are the only regular partner who accompanies you for the rest of your life!