Chen Feiand Zhang Ming met in college, and the two quickly fell in love. They were cheerful and generous, with similar personalities, so they quickly became a couple. When the two are together,Chen FeiI have never cared about Zhang MingEconomysituation, she believes that she can earn enough money to survive by working hard. However, whenChen Fei's parents learned about Zhang Ming's familyEconomysituation and when he learned that he had not had a stable job, he firmly opposed their marriage. In the face of the resolute attitude of parents,Chen FeiCaught in a dilemma. As a filial daughter, she couldn't bear to see her mother in such pain, and finally chose to give up the relationship. Although the pain of the breakup is unforgettable, she believes that she made the right decision.
Chen Feileft his hometown to work in other places, and had almost no contact with Zhang Ming. Five years later, during the Spring Festival, before going to a friend's house, she was thereFood courtI met Zhang Ming by chance. At that moment, her mood was extremely complicated, she wanted to meet him, but she was afraid of encountering him.
WhenChen FeiAs soon as she walked to the stall selling twist flowers, she heard a familiar voice, and she stopped to listen carefully. It turned out that Zhang Ming was having an argument with a woman. The woman originally wanted to buy four twists, but because of Zhang Ming, she could only buy two. She just got it in her hand, but her hand shook, and the twist fell to the ground. The woman had no choice but to buy two more, but Zhang Ming disagreed and insisted that it was the store's fault. The atmosphere of mutual understanding was instantly intensified, and the two people argued. Eventually, they got their hands on each other. Zhang Ming's forehead bulged with a bag, and the store owner unfortunately lost two front teeth. After the chaos ended, Zhang Ming turned to scolding the woman and even kicked her hard. The woman was injured and fell to the ground, but she got up with a smile and continued to joke with Zhang Ming. This scene letChen Feiwas shocked, and she was deeply glad that she did not choose to marry Zhang Ming. Otherwise, it may also be the end of this woman.
Chen FeiAt that moment, it suddenly became clear that although money cannot measure a person's ability, the lack of the ability to earn money will lead to the inability to live a happy life. She realized that she had been a little naïve in her thinking, and that she didn't have to ask the other party to have a huge amount of wealth, but she had to have a certain amountEconomyincome and the ability to make money. After all, life is neededEconomySupported.
recalled his decision to give up marrying Zhang MingChen FeiI'm very glad. MarriageIt's not just a romantic love, it involves too many practical issues. If you go against the wishes of your parents and blindly choose to marry Zhang Ming, nowChen Feimay have been caught in unimaginable predicament. As a result, she understands her parents' opposition better. Their concern and concern are out of love for themselves and their desire to live a happy and stable life.
For the presentChen FeiMoney is not the only measure of a person, but it is the cornerstone of a person's dreams and pursuit of happiness. A partner who can be independent and have the ability to make money can give her peace of mind and happiness. Therefore, when choosing a partner, women should not be:EconomyThe condition is completely on the back burner. After all, a man who can take responsibility and shoulder the burden of the family can bring women a real sense of security and happiness.
This story teaches us that love is not the only criterion for one personEconomyCompetence is equally important. Money is not the only measure of happiness, but it can bring material support and a sense of inner security. When choosing a partner, we should not only look at the other person's appearance and personality, but also consider the other person'sEconomycondition and earning power.
We can pursue romantic love, but we also have to face reality rationally. Money is not a superficial issue, but an important factor in determining whether a family can be happy and stable. Therefore, when choosing the other half, we must keep our eyes open, not only the advantages of the other party, but also the shortcomings and future development potential of the other party.
Most importantly, we learn to respect our parents' opinions. They have a wealth of life experience and thoughtful thinking about the future, and they want us to live a happy and stable life. Although we may be heartbroken and hesitant because of their opposition, we should trust in their love and care. Between love and money, we need to weigh the pros and cons and make the right choice. Only in this way can we find happiness that truly belongs to us.