As the saying goes, "Four calls in the house are not a good sign", what are these four sounds?
In our lives, we often come into contact with all kinds of sayings, some of which are catchy and easy to understand, while some of them are more esoteric, and we must think carefully about them to understand the deep meaning. Among the many sayings, there is such a saying that is also worth savoring. "Four cries in the house are not good signs", which four cries are not good signs?Let's give you a brief introduction.
1. The voice of the child against the parents.
If there are often voices of children confronting their parents at home, it is likely to mean that there is a problem with the homeschool. You must know that what we have Xi from primary school is to respect our elders and be filial to our parents, even if we complain more about our parents, we should not confront them in person, but should take a suitable time to talk to them, let them know what they want, so that they can make the family happier.
2. Full of the lamenting voices of the family.
The most important thing in family life is harmony, and the older generation often says: family and everything is prosperous, this sentence is not unreasonable. If a family wants to go smoothly, it must require family members to be harmonious, and if there are frequent quarrels or lamentations between family members, it will also have a serious impact on the fortune of the family, and even make the wealth disappear.
3. Full of prompt tones for loan reminders.
I don't know when it began, the concept of early consumption has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, especially among young people, who are proud of loan consumption. They believe that "the most important thing in the moment is to stay happy, after all, you don't know which will come first tomorrow or the accident, and only making yourself happy is king." Under the influence of this belief, many young people have started to apply for credit cards to pay for their favorite things, and when the credit card limit is insufficient, some people have begun to consider taking out loans.
In addition to using loans to meet personal consumption, some people will also apply loans to fund operations. If there is no way to repay the loan amount in time, you may be called on the door, and when this happens, it will affect your family. At that time, debt collectors will come to collect debts every day, which will also cause a miasma in the family, and even affect family life, and even children will not be able to raise their heads outside.
4. The voice of others flattering you.
I don't know if you have found such a problem, the most lacking thing in this society is flattery, in fact, others will flatter you, just because you are in a high position, or you have what they want. If you don't have either, there's no way they're going to lower their status to perform with you. In fact, everyone is willing to listen to flattery, after all, flattery does make people happy compared to the truth.
But in fact, it is not a good thing to listen to too many flattering words, if you are surrounded by those who say flattering words, and no one can clearly point out your shortcomings, then it means that you are not far from disaster. Because when people are in a high position, they must maintain a humble heart, and if they often listen to the flattery of others, they may become complacent, and it is easy to fall into a passive situation.