After marriage, we lived an ordinary and happy life. I've always spoiled her as if she were my little princess. It wasn't until her 60th birthday that Wen Jing suddenly broke up with me.
Baby, what's wrong with you?Suddenly said he was going to break up with me. "I'm in a bit of a hurry.
I didn't expect to suddenly receive a request to break up, I was at a loss for what to do, and I couldn't figure out Wen Jing's intentions at all. I looked flustered and paced back and forth in front of Wen Jing. I forced myself to calm down and sit down next to Wen Jing.
Li Ming, you have been very good to me over the years, and I am quite satisfied. But I think with you, there is always less passion and excitement. Wen Jing bowed her head and said.
What does that mean?Am I not good enough for you?"I'm a little excited.
I was shocked by Wen Jing's words. I thought I was good enough for Wen Jing, but she said that she didn't feel passionate and exciting, which made me very sad. Isn't my love enough?I blame myself. I began to recall the bits and pieces I had with Wen Jing and wanted to find out what was lacking.
I grabbed my hair with my hand, my face tangled. I looked at Wen Jing and hoped she could explain further.
It's not that you're bad, it's just that there's a lack of passion between us. Wen Jing sighed, "I think of my sister, her husband is very obedient to her, always on call, noisy every day, so lively." And it's too bland between us.
I frowned, "Aren't I nice to you too?"As long as you open your mouth, you will do anything, which is no worse than your brother-in-law. Why bother?”
Wen Jing was unhappy: "You are just too calm." I like to be lively, and I envy my brother-in-law like that. What if you spoil me again, it's just boring.
I was even more confused. She likes to be lively and wants a stimulating life, so she thinks I'm too calmThese are two extremes of the spectrum with my ex-wife. My ex-wife loves stimulation and finally exhausted me physically and mentally, so I divorced. Now Wen Jing also wants to be lively and exciting?
I really don't understand, do women like this mouthful?But I'm 50 years old, how can I still have the energy to toss around with her?I just want to live a peaceful life!
After thinking about it, I finally understood where the key point was. My head hurt even more, and I grabbed my hair with my hand and rubbed my temples hard, and it looked like I had a very bad headache. After a long while, I turned around and looked deeply into Wen Jing's eyes.
I was silent for a moment, then said solemnly, "Baby, I see what you mean." Maybe the two of us are really not a good match. You like the excitement of life, and I just want to live in peace. There's nothing right or wrong about that, it's just that we have different preferences. ”
When I said this, I was still sad in my heart. I really love Wen Jing and want to grow old with her. But listening to her say that, I realized that we really didn't fit in the way we lived. Maybe breaking up is the right choice, rather than being forced together. I don't want to repeat the mistakes of the past, and Wen Jing and Wen Jing may have only one way to divorce in the end. I think of the pain of divorcing my ex-wife many years ago, and I really don't want to try again.
My face was solemn, and my eyes were full of anxiety and pain. My body leaned forward slightly, and it seemed as if my whole body had collapsed.
Wen Jing was also very sad when she saw me in such pain, and she said softly: "Li Ming, it's not that I don't love you anymore, and I also rely on our current life." It's just that sometimes I feel bored. But if the breakup makes you so miserable, then we won't break up and continue to be together.
I shook my head and said with a wry smile: "No, Wen Jing, what you said makes sense." We have different preferences, and there is always someone to compromise and wrong. You and I are not young anymore, so don't toss anymore. A breakup is good for both parties. I'll take my time. ”
Looking at Wen Jing's instantly red eyes, my heart was very uncomfortable. I know that a breakup is actually very painful for both parties. Only this time, I have to be more rational and resolute than Wen Jing. I understand Wen Jing's character, she is greedy for excitement and novelty, even if she wrongs herself for a while, she will still propose to break up after a while. I can't afford to let myself get into a miserable marriage anymore.
I thought of my ex-wife again, and she kept making all kinds of unreasonable demands back then. I'm already doing well, but I'm looking for excitement. In the end, there is only one way to get divorced. This time, I had to make the decision early on and quit the relationship on my own.
I covered my face with my hands, and I couldn't bear to look at Wen Jing's tears again. The whole person was trembling slightly, as if he was suffering greatly.
After a long time, I finally raised my head, I looked at Wen Jing fixedly, and my tone was full of infinite exhaustion: "Wen Jing, don't be sad. Let's break up. ”
After saying this, I only felt a palpitation. I know how painful it feels to feel, even when I divorced my ex-wife. I really love being quiet, but we just don't fit in. I told myself that this was the only right thing to do, the most responsible thing to do for myself.
My hands were shaking slightly. I slowly got up, walked to the window, and looked out the window in a daze. The whole person looks rickety and old. I knew I couldn't afford another failed marriage. I had to let go and get out of the pain on my own. I believe that Wen Jing is the same, she is still young, and she will always find someone more suitable.